In the suburbs I
I learned to drive
And you told me we'd never survive
Grab your mother's keys we're leavin'

You always seemed so sure
That one day we'd be fighting
In a suburban war
your part of town against mine
I saw you' standin' on the opposite shore
But by the time the first bombs fell
We were already bored
We were already, already bored

Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm movin' past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm movin' past the feeling again

Kids wanna be so hard
But in my dreams we're still screamin' and runnin' through the yard
And all of the walls that they built in the seventies finally fall
And all of the houses they build in the seventies finally fall
Meant nothin' at all
Meant nothin' at all
It meant nothin

Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm movin' past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm movin' past the feeling and into the night

So can you understand?
Why I want a daughter while I'm still young
I wanna hold her hand
And show her some beauty
Before all this damage is done

But if it's too much to ask, if it's too much to ask
Then send me a son

Under the overpass
In the parking lot we're still waiting
It's already passed
So move your feet from hot pavement and into the grass
Cause it's already passed
It's already, already passed!

Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm movin' past the feeling
Sometimes I can't believe it
I'm movin' past the feeling again

I'm movin' past the feeling
I'm movin' past the feeling

In my dreams we're still screamin'
We're still screamin'
We're still screamin'



Lyrics submitted by RickButt, edited by razer951

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    General Comment:I just ruined the perfect amount of comments. :)
    Flag ThatGingeron April 30, 2013   Link
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    My Interpretation:I think it's about growing up. I am currently growing up in the suburbs, finding that soon I'll be going away for college, and I can relate to this song so well. To me, it's about friends growing apart and growing up, and finding that the suburbs, while safe and nice when you are young, are full of corrupted things. The singer wants a daughter to show all the beautiful things before the beautiful things fade away in the singer's mind.

    "And all of the walls they built in the seventies finally fall,
    And all of the houses they built in the seventies finally fall."

    That to me is about leaving your house, built in the seventies, to go live on your own when you're finally grown.

    "Under the overpass
    In the parking lot we're still waiting
    It's already passed
    So move your feet from hot pavement and onto the grass
    Cause it's already passed, it's already passed!"

    That to me is about tangible memories of growing up in the suburbs, as I have many memories of those same things myself, and being stuck in the memories. Now the singer is saying he's grown up and has to let go of the past, "so move your feet from hot pavement" meaning hot pavement is painful, holding on to the past will eventually hurt you; "and onto the grass" meaning cool grass, the future; "it's already passed, it's already passed!" meaning childhood is over.
    Flag IsoldeGSon March 25, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:"So can you understand?
    Why I want a daughter while I'm still young
    I wanna hold her hand
    And show her some beauty
    Before all this damage is done"

    having 2 daughters this makes feel so good and emotional at the same time
    Flagged soulofdanaon December 23, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:my favorite part about music is it is much of the times left up into interpretation. to me this song is about someone putting or trying to put away part of there past. for me my favorite line is "In the parking lot we're still waiting
    "It's already passed
    So move your feet from hot pavement and into the grass". to me this kind of makes me think this person is still trying to convince themselfs that they are over whatever it is that has them hooked.
    Flag tardyparty89on December 15, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:This is that one song...

    I know exactly what it means, how I feel when it plays. I just cannot put it into words. My words can't do it justice. It's just too relevant.
    Flag ontheinsideon August 04, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:This album is about the inevitable destruction of the west. It says there will be no sudden explosion, no atom bomb, no religious apocalypse to wipe the slate clean. Instead western society will simply decline to the point of social captivity and the dominance of the few over the many.
    This song portays someone's life at the start of this innevitable and slow apocolypse. The song starts will a happy – go – lucky honky tonk piano. The basic and mostly major chord structure jangles along nicely the only blemish being Am to E which sound oh so slightly wrong. “In the suburbs I learnt to drive” the lyrics are told reflectively with a sense of innocence, of living a normal life with a family and a car. The author tells through the eyes of innocence how he is forced away from a friend who was 'standing on the opposite shore' but “by the bombs fell we were already bored”. Society doesn't care, it has come to accept the violence, the hatred, this is normal.
    In the chorus the bass becomes heavy and distorted, creating an more ominous tone compared to the blissfully ignorant verse. “somtimes I can't believe it, I'm moving past the feeling”. Sometimes the author is able to step out of the brainwash of society, the media etc and see the madness that is unfolding around him. But he is moving past the feeling, these moments are becoming rare, he is beginning not to care, he is coming to accept the madness. And all the while the heavy bass pounds along relentlessly.
    The second verse is quite specific in that it details how 'kids wana be so hard' (they have grown up in a world which trains them to be soldiers) and the peace movements of the past have ultimately failed, “and all of the houses they built in the 70's finally fall, meant nothing at all it meant nothing”.
    When the second chorus hits ethereal strings accompany the bass creating a sense of great loss as your heart rises to your throat. This mirrors the shame of the author at the failure of society and his inability to change it or even acknowledge it within himself. He must hide this feeling, he must tell himself that it is wrong to feel this way and that these feeling are crazy. He must move past the feeling and into the night.
    “So can you understand why I want a daughter while I'm still young?” Can you understand why he would want to show his daughter the beauty of the world before it is destroyed. Why he would want to remind himself that there was once another world in another time. He is begging for this. But if its too much to ask, he will have a son and he will accept defeat in the face of overwhelming darkness. He will submit himself and sacrifice his children to this monster.
    In his heart the author knows that the point of no return has been passed, the world will never be the same again. “So move your feet from hot pavement and into the grass” (the safe comfortable suburbs, surrender) “Cause its already past, its already already passed”.
    “We're still screaming”
    Flagged gregattackon June 24, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:love this song... loved it so much I covered it: youtu.be/…
    Flag s7son March 25, 2012   Link
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    My Interpretation:I think this song is about a failed relationship through the use of childhood suburb memories.

    "You always seemed so sure
    That one day we'd fight in
    In a suburban world"

    they were young and got "bored" the relationship didn't last like they hoped it would.

    It is more about getting over a first real love. He is finally moving past his first love.

    "Sometimes I can't believe it
    I'm movin' past the feeling
    Sometimes I can't believe it
    I'm movin' past the feeling and into the night"

    But his first love still haunts him and he still dreams and the memories almost haunt him, but in the end it crumbles like a house. I feel that the line, "walls that they built in the seventies finally fall" could reference the Berlin wall and how different two people could be. Or he could have been on the oppressed side of the wall in his relationship. But in the end he realizes that its over and in the future it really doesn't matter and although his first love had its ups and downs it no longer has meaning to him and he can move on.

    But in my dreams we're still screamin' and runnin' through the yard
    And all of the walls that they built in the seventies finally fall
    And all of the houses they build in the seventies finally fall
    Meant nothin' at all
    Meant nothin' at all
    It meant nothin

    He finally moves out of the "suburbs" and into the "city" where he can pursue bigger goals and dreams.

    Just some thoughts..
    Flag caro19mosson February 15, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:there's a lot of good points made about the meaning of this song. The one part that I find intriguing is the lyrics, "And all of the walls that they built in the seventies finally fall
    And all of the houses they build in the seventies finally fall" Someone said that referred to the Twin Towers on 9/11. Possibly.
    But what is hard to figure out is this: "what is it about the 70s that has fallen?"
    Could it be that it's something as simple as urban decay where things built in the 70s are now old and need to be replaced.
    I actually live in a condo built in the early 70s, and it most definitely needs things about it replaced.
    I don't know, that explanation might be mere reductionism and AF didn't mean to discuss urban renewal or urban decay at all.......
    Flag vinceson January 28, 2012   Link
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    My Interpretation:To me its about a boy and girl growing up in the suburbs... the boy a rebel and the girl was daddy's little girl... the boy loves her yet the girl knows her dad wouldn't allow it...(and you told me we'd never survive)and that it would only cause trouble which is what she told him(you always seemed so sure, that one day we'd be fighting, in this suburban war)... the boy doesnt care... he loves her... So little by little he starts winning her over and pretty soon she starts sneaking out with him and she starts smoking and drinking with him because she never felt this way..(im moving past this feeling)... the boy sees the world for what it really is and watches these events as they grow and become more mature...like the seperation of people because of their different views...( the walls in 70's)... so he tells her he loves her and he telling her thats why he wants a daughter with her... she understands and tells him she loves him back with tears in his eyes... He tells her grab your mother keys were leaving and they leave and try to find a place where they can raise their daughter... and he prays to god if not a daughter then send me a son. but thats just how i see it :)
    Flagged summertimeson December 01, 2011   Link

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