I don't feel alright
In spite of these comforting sounds you make
I don't feel alright
Because you make promises that you break

Into your house
Why don't we share our solitude?
Nothing is pure anymore but solitude

It's hard to make sense
Feels as if I'm sensing you through a lens
If someone else comes
I'll just sit here listening to the drums

Previously I never called it solitude

And probably you know
All the dirty shows I've put on
Blunted and exhausted like anyone
Honestly I tried to avoid it
Honestly
Back when we were kids
We would always know when to stop
And now all the good kids are messing up
Nobody has gained or accomplished anything



Lyrics submitted by Belle-and-Eric-Hajdu, edited by oiseaux, LasseSand

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    General Comment:i think its about how there is no common sense in today's society, how it has failed today's youth. "into your house, why dont we share our solitude? nothing is pure anymore but solitude" may refer to how hectic everything outside may seem, while two lovers can find peace being alone together. they have capitalist mentalities shoved down their throats and the only way they can escape it is to be alone together. they are so tired of living in a world run by capitalism that they rebel by being "dirty" people, doing drugs to feel better for example. "i don't feel alright in spite of these comforting sounds you make. i don't feel alright because you make promises that you break." possibly the female lover is trying to comfort the male lover feel better (lets think of these lovers similar to kurt cobain and courtney love) however the male lover is feeling as if the female lover doesnt really understand it all. "nobody has gained or accomplished anything." nothing seems like an accomplishment anymore, nothing seems to matter, because people will keep selling out or being to afraid to change anything.
    Flag noahroberton November 30, 2011   Link
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    My Interpretation:think this song is a love song and tell how difficult it can be. "In spite of the comforting sounds that you make" means i think that despite what she says she does not act the same and it hurts him, that's why "he does not feel alright". When he refers to solitude, purity as to be rid of badness is only reached through solitude, being on his own, as he is a good person. "all good kids are messing up" i think refers to that she does not mean to hurt him, she is not a nasty person but how difficult it is to act good for the other one and how difficult it is to be an adult and to love someone else. As a grown up, you've been through many things, as it is said, a child is pure, it doesn't have been corrupted and "all the dirty shows i've put on" and "honestly tried to avoid it, honestly" refers i think to some bad situations he has been into and he's trying to say that he did not choose to be into those bad situations, it was not intentional and repetition "honestly" reveals that he is trying to convince her though she is not convinced and i think that's why the problem comes from..she does not believe him, she thinks that he got involved into those bad situations because he wanted to but for him it was "dirty shows", it was not fun...and it was just mistakes from him.."it is hard to make sense" and "i am sensing you through a lens" means he does not know why he got involved into those unsane situations and he is trying to analyse it but it is difficult to justify himself, all he can say for now that he is not a bad person and he did not control the situation and as a result, nothing good has come out from this mess, "noone has gained or accomplished anything", it was not satisfying for him and people around.
    Flag osiriaon October 31, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:And just because Im a hopeless romantic, here goes nothing and a whole lot of something;


    I don't feel alright
    In spite of these comforting sounds you make
    I don't feel alright
    Because you make promises that you break
    Into your house
    Why don't we share
    Our solitude?
    Here we see the narrator speak as though he ended a relationship, because of trust issues obviously - 'promises that she broke' ... but we sense he regrets it when he says 'i dont feel alright' . he even asks her why is there no peace between us? 'into your house why dont we share our solitude?'

    Nothing is pure
    Anymore
    But solitude
    He wanted to be alone after the break up with her, he thought solitude was the best choice for him in his life at that time, but even solitude, which he once had associated with positivity- is just no longer pure ... ... he misses her clearly people...

    It's hard to make sense
    Feels as if I'm sensing you through a lens
    If someone else comes
    I'll just sit here listening to the drums
    He is thinking about this girl constantly, obviously they are not in close proximity in geographical location...(and i guess in emotional distance too if you want to go even deeper into the rabbit hole) and he even exclaims if another love prospect comes "i'll just sit here" ... to me, the drums is that 'comforting sound' that the song uses in its title- and the drums is the girl he loves/misses.

    Previously
    I never called
    It solitude
    He never would have called such an emotional limbo- 'solitude' . Now in the song, we see a shift in his perception of how he handles his longing for the girl, he now calls the longing and the misery - 'solitude' ... because he is so far gone in such hurtful passion, he doesn't feel anything anymore, maybe the only thing he can feel now is pain, so this one thing he can feel, this has become his solitude.

    And probably you know
    All the dirty shows I've put on
    Blunted and exhausted like anyone
    Honestly I tried to avoid it
    Honestly
    The way he treated her, maybe even the way he showed her his longing after the 'break-up' , is what he means when he says "all the dirty shows Ive put on" .. its clear he thinks low of himself and his actions to her because of the use of the word dirty, and it wasnt really how he felt , he really did love her with all his heart- even till the bitter end -use of the word show as in really only a performance

    Back when we were kids,
    We would always know when to stop
    And now all the good kids are messing up
    Nobody has gained or accomplished
    Anything
    When he was younger, maybe he wouldnt have been capable of hurting someone so much, or screwing up so much in his actions (whether it was his love gone wrong with this girl or in anything else in his life he may feels he have come up short in) And he may refer to himself as a 'good kid' who messed up. He says all this hurt and pain, and the break up, and the dirty show he put on , no body gained from the relationship, and neither party is even gaining now that they are apart...

    to me, its a song about himself in limbo, emotional limbo, talking about his mistakes, talking maybe as if he is judging himself and the whole situation... but again i totally interpreted this as a relationship song, because, im a hopeless romantic kids ;p
    Flag jujubeans92on October 23, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:whoah really sorry about multiple replies
    Flag b4modelon January 10, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:Gbsfinest. wow that is a brilliant interpretation . After reading it I can't help thinking that 'these comforting sounds' could be his lover faking her orgasms??
    Flag b4modelon January 10, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:Gbsfinest. wow that is a brilliant interpretation . After reading it I can't help thinking that 'these comforting sounds' could be his lover faking her orgasms??
    Flag b4modelon January 10, 2011   Link
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    My Opinion:it's so beautiful.
    I feel sad but not really in a bad way...
    I don't know I get a very special feeling when I listen to this song.
    you have to lay down, close your eyes and let the music absorb you... and believe me it will.
    Flag nicnaceron May 31, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:My Interpretation: This song is about vulnerability.

    "I don't feel alright in spite of these comforting sounds you make.
    I don't feel alright because you make promises that you break."

    -I'm wary around you because I don't know if you're sincere - you haven't always kept your word before.

    "Into your house, why don't we share our solitude?
    Nothing is pure anymore but solitude."

    -In our solitude we are ourselves, and I just want to be myself with someone else, with you.

    "It's hard to make sense, feels as if I'm sensing you through a lens."

    -I can't get a good read on you, it feels like you haven't completely opened up to me, like theres a filter between your true self and what you show me.

    "If someone else comes, I'd just sit here listening to the drums."

    -If our bond is to be interrupted, momentarily or permanently, I'd simply go back to passively listening to the world, making none of my own noise

    "Previously I never called it solitude."

    -It never used to make me feel so alone, all this acting I do for the rest of the world"

    "And probably you know all the dirty shows I've put on.
    Blunted and exhausted like anyone.
    Honestly I tried to avoid it.
    Honestly."

    -You know all the acting I do in my life. I'm tired of it, just like anyone else. I never wanted to act, but it couldn't be avoided.

    "Back when we were kids, we would always know when to stiop.
    And now all the good kids are messing up.
    Nobody has gained or accomplished anything."

    -We used to know when to stop acting and be truthful and vulnerable, but everyone has hardened over the years, and this isolation we impose on ourself from others does not do any good.
    Flag qbsfineston January 09, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:No one has gained or accomplished anything.
    Flag HWOntoFireon May 26, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:Really...? Really? Drugs? Come on.
    In a nutshell: It's about being kept in the dark from someone you love. They just use you as a fall back, and you can never really see their real intentions (feels as if I'm sensing you through a lens). The narrator talks about "putting on shows" in the sense that he's trying to get pity, etc, but the antagonist is always able to call him/her out on it. The instrumental part of the song is narrator moving on.
    Flag Theoogabearon May 21, 2009   Link

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