@[larsvsnapster:40721] except for the known fact that especially in the 80s, Gay/Bi men often sang songs about love for a woman/women; albiet whether because they were just brilliant songs, or keeping their sexual preferences secret or ambiguous. So many high profile examples include Elton John, Freddy M/Queen, Boy George, George Michael/Wham, Bowie, Little Richard, Manilow, are only a few of hundreds who acknowledge such. Hundreds of famous bands had Gay/Bi members, then we have famous women singing about men lovers, Dusty Springfield, Joan Jett (sapphic is her fave term) whilst others of both sexes say they just love Humans. So I don\'t think this song was anything other than a lad singing about other lads punching above, wondering why beautiful women were dating either dumb empty headed jock types or genuinely unattractive men; as in spite of his admitted self insecurity, believes he is still a wee bit of a better lad, whether via his looks, intellect or mannerisms. Even now we query why certain people, beautiful, famous, or rich, in our opinion have unusual taste in partners. Whether for superficial reasons, fame, money, prestige, or they genuinely DO prefer someone with brains, good humour, decent, warm hearted, honest partners, or the oldest reason on earth, chemistry, sex appeal, thus better than average in the sack;) I\'m lucky that my lad may appear average to most, but it was his intelligence, integrity, decency, romantic, humour and similar tastes in music, interests, etc. Had to kiss a LOT of frogs for almost 40 yrs, but he was bloody well worth the wait, lucky he wasn\'t snapped up sooner! Almost 20 yrs later, Today I love him more than I did yesterday, and not as much as I will love him tomorrow (old french poetic verse;) cheers! |