| Death Cab for Cutie – Cath... Lyrics | 10 years ago |
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| Death Cab for Cutie – Cath... Lyrics | 10 years ago |
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Like Madalyn, I wish I'd heard this song before my "I do's." I was mid-twenties and with a very kind guy, but was not "in love" with him (my heart was still totally in love with someone from my past). But, we'd dated, and then we moved in together, and then next step was marriage? Right?? I remember having panic attacks before the wedding and worrying about it and people saying "it's just cold feet, you'll be fine." Well...1st year = "it's first year, give it sometime" 2nd year "well, it's still new, give it more time"...then after 6yrs of marriage we finally just divorced. I hate to say it this way, because I do not think ill of my ex at all, but I shouldn't have gone through with it. I wish someone would have really sat down with me and listened and said it was ok if I had doubts and to really think about it. Or that I woulda have the courage to stop it. But they didn't. And I didn't. My ex is remarried with a kid, so he's all good. We shall see what the future will hold for me. But, anyone reading this - PLEASE...if you are questioning marriage at all, talk about it...with your mom/dad, best friend, or your partner. It's NOT going to be easier to just let it go and walk down the aisle. It's hard, but it would always be better to NOT enter into the marriage if you have doubts. Seriously. All that said, I've read that this song is based on the book Wuthering Heights and Catherine's getting married to other guy when really loved Healthcliff ;) |
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