Lyric discussion by CravenImages 

I should think it obvious that at least part of the song (the part in the title and repeated over and over in the chorus) is about "before you were born", someone kicked in the door.

The idea that this is about abortion is borne (ha ha) of a far too liberal (ha ha) interpretation.

Those seeking abortion are not "kicking in" anything unless it is a state-mandated abortion, which is rare on earth.

The interpretation of the song being sung to a child born as a result of rape seems to be strongly implied if not stated explicitly. Rapists often, in fact, kick in the doors of their victims.

I hear very little sympathy in this song. I hear the damning of the rapist (faceless father) but nothing approaching loving acceptance of the child, quite the opposite.

This would seem to be a very "pro choice" song, if anything to do with abortion is intended, seeing as how the child is told "there is no place for you here", "you are not wanted here", "stay back where you belong", which in a world of self-obsessed, egotistical narcissists, is very, very true. Even the so-called "pro life" activists of this world HATE the children who are born into poverty, abuse, and neglect. Look at how they vote on issues surrounding welfare, education funding, the justice system, etc.

This song is a song intended to make people born from circumstances from rape commit suicide. For stating such hateful thoughts and not overtly making any hopeful, loving statements for the listener, the band's song writer is an inhuman monster. It's one reason I never appreciated Toad the Wet Sprocket.

God damn the song writer for making me wake up at two o'clock in the morning and wonder what the f--k that 90s song was about. Since I've read the lyrics, I now know. The writer hates people born of rape. He thinks they should die for the crime their faceless fathers committed. How cruel.

@CravenImages wow that’s strong statement and how do you feel like you know extra what it’ll about and how they feel about your certainty that it’s really about the band hating children born from rape and in poverty and that they think that people born out of rape should not be alive and or should commit suicide? That’s a really strong interpretation and not a good one. Iff you have really really ever listened to this band and the things they are singing about in general and I’m not even a huge fan or st least I have not pa...

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