"bi-polar" is not correct - borderline personality disorder (BPD) IS ABSOLUTELY correct. A borderline exhibits every characteristic of the woman he sings about: they are extremely sensitive and aware of YOU (kill with a smile, wound with her eyes) and know exactly how to draw both "the best and the worst you can be". They are absolutely 'casual liars'... but not deliberately. They are so sensitive that they are protecting themselves. They have extreme black and white thinking, and turn on a dime (frequently kind and suddenly cruel). As the "non" BPD, you have no idea WTF is going on, and so you blame yourself. BPD women are often extremely smart. Clever. Witty. Their gift of sensitivity is stunning. You will feel like you've met your "soulmate", but then holy crap- it will not be the same for her. They are deceptive because they trust nobody - not even themselves. They NEED others to fill their void of self-identity. Anyone who has fallen in love with a PBD sufferer will know EXACTLY what I'm saying, but for the rest of you: google BPD and hope for your LIFE you never do the same. You will experience the highest of the highs, followed by the lowest of the lows, you will ever feel. Intensity is their LIFE.. you are along for the ride until they get bored.
@jackfowler married to a woman with borderline personality disorder for almost 10 years. I’ve never heard this song until tonight. I knew immediately what he was talking about and had to research it more and so I’m here. Absolutely agree. No question in my mind that this perfectly describes a woman with bpd.
@jackfowler married to a woman with borderline personality disorder for almost 10 years. I’ve never heard this song until tonight. I knew immediately what he was talking about and had to research it more and so I’m here. Absolutely agree. No question in my mind that this perfectly describes a woman with bpd.
In the middle of a divorce right now and my time away from her has been just amazing. She did sooooo much damage and still thinks somehow that I was the one that hurt her.... such an incredible world she has fabricated. Definitely agree they can’t trust and are extremely sensitive while showing close to zero tolerance for other people’s nearly identical emotional pain. Makes me feel bad for Billy to have gone through the same thing. But comforted at the same time that someone else truly understands.
"bi-polar" is not correct - borderline personality disorder (BPD) IS ABSOLUTELY correct. A borderline exhibits every characteristic of the woman he sings about: they are extremely sensitive and aware of YOU (kill with a smile, wound with her eyes) and know exactly how to draw both "the best and the worst you can be". They are absolutely 'casual liars'... but not deliberately. They are so sensitive that they are protecting themselves. They have extreme black and white thinking, and turn on a dime (frequently kind and suddenly cruel). As the "non" BPD, you have no idea WTF is going on, and so you blame yourself. BPD women are often extremely smart. Clever. Witty. Their gift of sensitivity is stunning. You will feel like you've met your "soulmate", but then holy crap- it will not be the same for her. They are deceptive because they trust nobody - not even themselves. They NEED others to fill their void of self-identity. Anyone who has fallen in love with a PBD sufferer will know EXACTLY what I'm saying, but for the rest of you: google BPD and hope for your LIFE you never do the same. You will experience the highest of the highs, followed by the lowest of the lows, you will ever feel. Intensity is their LIFE.. you are along for the ride until they get bored.
@jackfowler married to a woman with borderline personality disorder for almost 10 years. I’ve never heard this song until tonight. I knew immediately what he was talking about and had to research it more and so I’m here. Absolutely agree. No question in my mind that this perfectly describes a woman with bpd.
@jackfowler married to a woman with borderline personality disorder for almost 10 years. I’ve never heard this song until tonight. I knew immediately what he was talking about and had to research it more and so I’m here. Absolutely agree. No question in my mind that this perfectly describes a woman with bpd.
In the middle of a divorce right now and my time away from her has been just amazing. She did sooooo much damage and still thinks somehow that I was the one that hurt her.... such an incredible world she has fabricated. Definitely agree they can’t trust and are extremely sensitive while showing close to zero tolerance for other people’s nearly identical emotional pain. Makes me feel bad for Billy to have gone through the same thing. But comforted at the same time that someone else truly understands.