Lyric discussion by iljilj 

This song is nostalgic, plain and simple.

It's about reminiscing about the memories and times that mattered in your life all while embracing the fact that you've built a home that you can, well, come home to. It's about the balance between responsibilities and doing what you actually want to do in life. The progression of the song hints that James is telling us to live life to the fullest while we can, before the age and responsibilities begin to catch up to us.

We set controls for the heart of the sun One of the ways we show our age <<

A reference to Pink Floyd. Instant nostalgia if you know your classics - you need to make the most out of your time and potential memories to come. Setting controls for the heart of the sun is simply that... focusing everything on the highest energy source possible and keeping it as bright as you can.

You spent the first five years trying to get with the plan And the next five years trying to be with your friends again <<

The constant struggle between finding stability while trying to spend time with those you know and love. Time is your only enemy in this life.

I wouldn't trade one stupid decision For another five years of life <<

This is commonplace and everyone should feel this way. Without mistakes, life can't flourish. A stupid decision doesn't always end in a stupid result, and by not trading a stupid decision for five years, you can bet your ass it was a worthy stupid decision. Make some stupid decisions, dammit!

When you're drunk and the kids leave impossible tasks You think over and over, "hey, I'm finally dead." <<

I'm dead now, I get to revisit my memories and allow my offspring to conjure up their own memories. Finally! I'm glad I took this path and I'm glad I can finally "rest" in peace.

Now go out and make some memories. Challenge yourself and take a risk while you still can. There's a difference between jumping off a bridge without a parachute and jumping off a bridge with one. Both can be considered stupid, but only one guarantees a premature death.

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