I have my own interpretation, which came to me yesterday when I heard this song for the first time in a long time and really listened to the lyrics. I have been friends with someone for over 20 years and it's been up and down. She's never available, always busy, her life is full of problems and drama. When she does call me it's to apologize for not calling, not to chat or make plans. Recently I felt like I've had enough and when thinking about it I realized that I think she's unconciously filling her life with people who need help because that makes her feel needed. I'm not part of her daily life because I'm independent and therefore I don't make her feel useful. Then I heard this song and it seemed to be about our friendship. "Another day I call and never speak" - that's me calling and always getting voice mail and not leaving a message. "And you would say nothing's changed at all" - her calling to say we're still friends, wish we could get together yada yada yada "And I can't feel much hope for anything If I won't be there to catch you when you fall" - I'm not part of her daily life so I'm not there to help her with the latest crisis. "Again It seems we meet In the spaces In between We always say It won't take long But something's always wrong" - we seldom talk or see each other, only in between the problems and crisis and time she spends helping all her needy friends. We always say we'll get together soon, but something's always wrong and she never has time for me. I'm glad I'm learning to let go and expect nothing from her. I really like her and I'm sorry her life is a mess but I realize I'll only get hurt. I won't turn her away if she needs me but I won't expect to hear from her either. And from now on, this song will always remind me of the way things are.
No, she's not available. We see each other maybe 4 - 5 times a year and she lives 15 minutes away. She never calls to say hi and when I call I always get voice mail. She calls to say they were thinking of us and wanted to get together but...
What is wrong with her right now? Well, she has someone staying with her who needs help, her daughter who is a teacher is being ostrasized (sp?) at her school, a friend lost her husband to heart failure. Funny, when my kids were little I...
No, she's not available. We see each other maybe 4 - 5 times a year and she lives 15 minutes away. She never calls to say hi and when I call I always get voice mail. She calls to say they were thinking of us and wanted to get together but...
What is wrong with her right now? Well, she has someone staying with her who needs help, her daughter who is a teacher is being ostrasized (sp?) at her school, a friend lost her husband to heart failure. Funny, when my kids were little I used to ask her to cut their hair, thinking it was something that would get us together and she always said she wasn't any good. When we were at the visitation for the husband who passed away she said she had gone to the wife's house to cut her hair. I'm slowly getting the message.
Thanks for posting your feedback, I enjoyed reading it.
@skidmoca wow. your interpretation is poignant, introspective & just brilliant! I've loved this song for over 20 years. I find myself going back to it on repeat, whenever everything feels like it's going wrong. because I've been doing this so long, it actually brings me comfort bc I know I've wallowed to this song many times before & clearly got through whatever had been so wrong. Up until just now, I never bothered to look up the song meaning. Upon reading the top comment, about the writer waiting for the girl to end her relationship to be with him,...
@skidmoca wow. your interpretation is poignant, introspective & just brilliant! I've loved this song for over 20 years. I find myself going back to it on repeat, whenever everything feels like it's going wrong. because I've been doing this so long, it actually brings me comfort bc I know I've wallowed to this song many times before & clearly got through whatever had been so wrong. Up until just now, I never bothered to look up the song meaning. Upon reading the top comment, about the writer waiting for the girl to end her relationship to be with him, it instantly made perfect sense to me, that that is likely what the writer wrote about. But because of their brilliant choice of words and symbolism, it can so easily be interrupted to any one of our unique circumstances. which is really just the magic of good music!
I have my own interpretation, which came to me yesterday when I heard this song for the first time in a long time and really listened to the lyrics. I have been friends with someone for over 20 years and it's been up and down. She's never available, always busy, her life is full of problems and drama. When she does call me it's to apologize for not calling, not to chat or make plans. Recently I felt like I've had enough and when thinking about it I realized that I think she's unconciously filling her life with people who need help because that makes her feel needed. I'm not part of her daily life because I'm independent and therefore I don't make her feel useful. Then I heard this song and it seemed to be about our friendship. "Another day I call and never speak" - that's me calling and always getting voice mail and not leaving a message. "And you would say nothing's changed at all" - her calling to say we're still friends, wish we could get together yada yada yada "And I can't feel much hope for anything If I won't be there to catch you when you fall" - I'm not part of her daily life so I'm not there to help her with the latest crisis. "Again It seems we meet In the spaces In between We always say It won't take long But something's always wrong" - we seldom talk or see each other, only in between the problems and crisis and time she spends helping all her needy friends. We always say we'll get together soon, but something's always wrong and she never has time for me. I'm glad I'm learning to let go and expect nothing from her. I really like her and I'm sorry her life is a mess but I realize I'll only get hurt. I won't turn her away if she needs me but I won't expect to hear from her either. And from now on, this song will always remind me of the way things are.
No, she's not available. We see each other maybe 4 - 5 times a year and she lives 15 minutes away. She never calls to say hi and when I call I always get voice mail. She calls to say they were thinking of us and wanted to get together but... What is wrong with her right now? Well, she has someone staying with her who needs help, her daughter who is a teacher is being ostrasized (sp?) at her school, a friend lost her husband to heart failure. Funny, when my kids were little I...
No, she's not available. We see each other maybe 4 - 5 times a year and she lives 15 minutes away. She never calls to say hi and when I call I always get voice mail. She calls to say they were thinking of us and wanted to get together but... What is wrong with her right now? Well, she has someone staying with her who needs help, her daughter who is a teacher is being ostrasized (sp?) at her school, a friend lost her husband to heart failure. Funny, when my kids were little I used to ask her to cut their hair, thinking it was something that would get us together and she always said she wasn't any good. When we were at the visitation for the husband who passed away she said she had gone to the wife's house to cut her hair. I'm slowly getting the message. Thanks for posting your feedback, I enjoyed reading it.
@skidmoca wow. your interpretation is poignant, introspective & just brilliant! I've loved this song for over 20 years. I find myself going back to it on repeat, whenever everything feels like it's going wrong. because I've been doing this so long, it actually brings me comfort bc I know I've wallowed to this song many times before & clearly got through whatever had been so wrong. Up until just now, I never bothered to look up the song meaning. Upon reading the top comment, about the writer waiting for the girl to end her relationship to be with him,...
@skidmoca wow. your interpretation is poignant, introspective & just brilliant! I've loved this song for over 20 years. I find myself going back to it on repeat, whenever everything feels like it's going wrong. because I've been doing this so long, it actually brings me comfort bc I know I've wallowed to this song many times before & clearly got through whatever had been so wrong. Up until just now, I never bothered to look up the song meaning. Upon reading the top comment, about the writer waiting for the girl to end her relationship to be with him, it instantly made perfect sense to me, that that is likely what the writer wrote about. But because of their brilliant choice of words and symbolism, it can so easily be interrupted to any one of our unique circumstances. which is really just the magic of good music!