I can't believe people are arguing about this. Anyway, I've been balling my eyes out. I'm separating from my husband, I've been in love with someone else for a long time, I was in denial of it being an 'affair' because I couldn't face the reality that I could love someone else. I love my husband for what we were years and years ago, but he hasn't so much as looked in my direction until I finally did what I'd threatened 10 times before, and left him. It's over and I'm morning that, but also I can't have a real relationship with my past 'lover' because of the destruction that it would cause my husband and therefore my children. I guess I got what I deserved.
I can't believe people are arguing about this. Anyway, I've been balling my eyes out. I'm separating from my husband, I've been in love with someone else for a long time, I was in denial of it being an 'affair' because I couldn't face the reality that I could love someone else. I love my husband for what we were years and years ago, but he hasn't so much as looked in my direction until I finally did what I'd threatened 10 times before, and left him. It's over and I'm morning that, but also I can't have a real relationship with my past 'lover' because of the destruction that it would cause my husband and therefore my children. I guess I got what I deserved.
Cheers Darlin'