Lyric discussion by gretsch54 

I could see how the "dead flowers" thing can be interpreted as junk use, though I don't think this song's about that.

I think the song is about someone who thinks they're above you, treating you like shit at every turn, hence the " send me dead flowers in the morning, by the mail, at my wedding ", basically saying at every opportunity this person is sending an insult to the reciever. To send someone flowers is generally taken as a message of love, beauty and vitality, where to send someone "dead" flowers is a message of completely the opposite, one of disdain, negativity and contempt, and insult on the lower ebb of things.

And the resolution of the song is in the lyric " and I wont forget to put roses on your grave ". Basically a way of saying " screw you " but with class. The writer is saying two things : He is going to outlive the subject and he's not going to lose his class and/or integrity and will still put "roses" on their grave.

There's my 2c anyway. One of my all-time fav. stones tracks! :)

I think this explanation is best. She insults him over and over and he promises to return the favor.

I really agree w/ 99% of this, but I think that the 'dead flowers' (have you ever sent live flowers? you can't, once they are picked, they are dead) are not an insult, but the speaker's way of mocking the idea of courtly love. live is meant to be enjoyed, but Susie's notions of love consist of unimaginative gifts of flowers, rather than a living flower (herself)

@gretsch54 Yeah, i am inclined to agree with you. I have actually been in this position before, sans the needle and the spoon in favor of ones' olfactus, but very little else was different. Women and even friends or acquaintances such as this are a real drag to be around and I suspect he was trying to get that message out vis a vi his feelings for her. It seems as though his former, what I assume to be former, as it ain't much of a leap, is a snob, a real loud mouth, up the nose bore. He is telling...

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