Lyric discussion by kateisgr3at 

I dunno why you guys aren't listening to Sam, so I am going to go ahead and re-quote it.

sam98034 04-13-2008 "Well for all of you that think that this song is about a guy who is treating the girl badly...you're only hearing what you want to, and focusing on the negative. It's obvious that she is saying she was wrong, and he was right. He treated her very well, but it obviously wasn't good enough for her because she only focused on the negative. He told her this and she wouldn't listen, she thought he was wrong. When they break up, she realizes how good she had it before and that she really was just focused on the negative and was very lucky to have him. This is not a song about a girl who was oppressed, but a song about a girl who is humbled by the realization that she was wrong and should have listened."

This.

Try to look at the song from a different point of view, and you will realize this is EXACTLY what it's about.

I thought it was obvious this was the meaning of the song, i'm suprised so many people thought the exactly opposite.

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