This, I think, is part of the realization that the answers you desperately hoped you could find in someone else can only be found within. This is the probably the hurtiest part-- right after the heartbreak, after you're told it'll never work, that you'll only ever be friends. You put on a brave, brave face, trying with all your heart to believe in it, but it's just a facade waiting to crumble. Honesty with yourself brings it down all the faster, and it must happen, or you lose your mind. I know this because I just lived through it. Kindness to others is the only way out.
I agree with Maxwell Blank, well put:
This, I think, is part of the realization that the answers you desperately hoped you could find in someone else can only be found within. This is the probably the hurtiest part-- right after the heartbreak, after you're told it'll never work, that you'll only ever be friends. You put on a brave, brave face, trying with all your heart to believe in it, but it's just a facade waiting to crumble. Honesty with yourself brings it down all the faster, and it must happen, or you lose your mind. I know this because I just lived through it. Kindness to others is the only way out.
This isn't kindness, this a the biggest FUCK YOU song!
This isn't kindness, this a the biggest FUCK YOU song!