I'm not a fan of Rhianna, I just came here because wondered what a rude boy was, lol. I don't see how this sends young girls a message that is any worse than the rest of the over-sexualized stuff on television/radio. in fact, this is sort of better. At least she is taking control of her own sexuality and owning it...she's doing it for HER, not to please some guy. I understand why guys would prefer the "how can I please you?" porno attitude of most starlets, but as far as young women are concerned, being the master of your own sexual experience is pretty much a good idea.
Forgot to add...seriously, most of pop culture is about "Are your breasts big enough? Is your waist small enough? Are you willing to do whatever I want you to do in bed?"
Why is is suddenly offensive when a woman turns those questions around? Are we NOT supposed to have any need or wants? Are men the only ones who are supposed to matter when it comes to sex?
Forgot to add...seriously, most of pop culture is about "Are your breasts big enough? Is your waist small enough? Are you willing to do whatever I want you to do in bed?"
Why is is suddenly offensive when a woman turns those questions around? Are we NOT supposed to have any need or wants? Are men the only ones who are supposed to matter when it comes to sex?
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I actually became very depressed reading all these negative reviews simply because it is a woman speaking about her sexuality. I am not even a big Rihanna fan but I have to give her respect now because I can see she probably got a lot of criticism in general going by most of these comments.
Sex is natural, no one would be here without it! and it is more than okay to take pleasure in it!
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I actually became very depressed reading all these negative reviews simply because it is a woman speaking about her sexuality. I am not even a big Rihanna fan but I have to give her respect now because I can see she probably got a lot of criticism in general going by most of these comments.
Sex is natural, no one would be here without it! and it is more than okay to take pleasure in it!
Side note: considering all the rock and roll/ rap videos which show women only as sexual objects it is equally okay for a woman to do the same. I like also that she goes after a root which men are very sensitive about THEIR PENIS SIZE!!!!!! (" come on rude boy, are you big enough?" IF I feel obliged to please a man in one of those rock/roll/rap videos I can always starve myself, get implants, plastic surgery, dye my hair, etc. But YOU will never be able to change your penis size!!! (surgery only give 1/4 inch most). So how does it feel to be judged and criticize for something you cant naturally control? (Which is what most modern women feel they must go through)
She is giving those men a dose of their own medicine
(I don't have a problem with women being sexualized if you choose to do so BUT a woman should be equally be free to do so without being called a whore, etc.!!
Thank You again, it is good to know not everyone out there is narrow-minded and pro-censorship.
I'm not a fan of Rhianna, I just came here because wondered what a rude boy was, lol. I don't see how this sends young girls a message that is any worse than the rest of the over-sexualized stuff on television/radio. in fact, this is sort of better. At least she is taking control of her own sexuality and owning it...she's doing it for HER, not to please some guy. I understand why guys would prefer the "how can I please you?" porno attitude of most starlets, but as far as young women are concerned, being the master of your own sexual experience is pretty much a good idea.
Forgot to add...seriously, most of pop culture is about "Are your breasts big enough? Is your waist small enough? Are you willing to do whatever I want you to do in bed?" Why is is suddenly offensive when a woman turns those questions around? Are we NOT supposed to have any need or wants? Are men the only ones who are supposed to matter when it comes to sex?
Forgot to add...seriously, most of pop culture is about "Are your breasts big enough? Is your waist small enough? Are you willing to do whatever I want you to do in bed?" Why is is suddenly offensive when a woman turns those questions around? Are we NOT supposed to have any need or wants? Are men the only ones who are supposed to matter when it comes to sex?
Amen! (although I came here looking for the same answer- "what is a rude boy"? lol)
Amen! (although I came here looking for the same answer- "what is a rude boy"? lol)
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I actually became very depressed reading all these negative reviews simply because it is a woman speaking about her sexuality. I am not even a big Rihanna fan but I have to give her respect now because I can see she probably got a lot of criticism in general going by most of these comments. Sex is natural, no one would be here without it! and it is more than okay to take pleasure in it!
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I actually became very depressed reading all these negative reviews simply because it is a woman speaking about her sexuality. I am not even a big Rihanna fan but I have to give her respect now because I can see she probably got a lot of criticism in general going by most of these comments. Sex is natural, no one would be here without it! and it is more than okay to take pleasure in it!
Side note: considering all the rock and roll/ rap videos which show women only as sexual objects it is equally okay for a woman to do the same. I like also that she goes after a root which men are very sensitive about THEIR PENIS SIZE!!!!!! (" come on rude boy, are you big enough?" IF I feel obliged to please a man in one of those rock/roll/rap videos I can always starve myself, get implants, plastic surgery, dye my hair, etc. But YOU will never be able to change your penis size!!! (surgery only give 1/4 inch most). So how does it feel to be judged and criticize for something you cant naturally control? (Which is what most modern women feel they must go through)
She is giving those men a dose of their own medicine (I don't have a problem with women being sexualized if you choose to do so BUT a woman should be equally be free to do so without being called a whore, etc.!!
Thank You again, it is good to know not everyone out there is narrow-minded and pro-censorship.