so..
this son is kinda exactly like my life
cept i always lose my blades, not have them taken away
and i hvaent beeen 'cured' yet
but now i get to be the one who has to deal with the cutters too
its ok
umm.. please dont get mad but i dont think theres anything wrong with cutting just to allieviate pain
i do it
heaps ma freinds do
its the best way, causes the least harm to your body, than drinking or doing drugs etc
sure we know its bad, and its addictive
BUT if its the only way you can cope, then why not??
anyway.. sorry for the rant
oh, dont necessarily think its bout god either
There are a few ways that work better for me. Whenever you feel numb or in the need of pain, do something that "harnesses" it. Do something where being numb is good, where it helps you hide. I'll give you a few things for me. The best way to describe something like that is whatever puts you in a state of Flow (as in the book Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi) SUPER Long Name
There are a few ways that work better for me. Whenever you feel numb or in the need of pain, do something that "harnesses" it. Do something where being numb is good, where it helps you hide. I'll give you a few things for me. The best way to describe something like that is whatever puts you in a state of Flow (as in the book Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi) SUPER Long Name
Basically, what you're doing looks like hard work to others (or it seems to take dedication and time), but you feel happy doing it. Actually, you don't feel anything.
For me:
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Writing about my problems (in poems/stories/songs/diary entries) and publishing them anonymously using Wattpad
Making origami
Playing videogames
All of these use my in pain feelings and help me cope -- I'm too focused on what I'm doing (hard level in my game, hard origami fold, etc) to think of anything harmful
Try to find something like that, where your focus and attention makes it all numb, rather than painful
so.. this son is kinda exactly like my life cept i always lose my blades, not have them taken away and i hvaent beeen 'cured' yet
but now i get to be the one who has to deal with the cutters too its ok
umm.. please dont get mad but i dont think theres anything wrong with cutting just to allieviate pain i do it heaps ma freinds do
its the best way, causes the least harm to your body, than drinking or doing drugs etc sure we know its bad, and its addictive BUT if its the only way you can cope, then why not??
anyway.. sorry for the rant oh, dont necessarily think its bout god either
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@ilovehoratio
There are a few ways that work better for me. Whenever you feel numb or in the need of pain, do something that "harnesses" it. Do something where being numb is good, where it helps you hide. I'll give you a few things for me. The best way to describe something like that is whatever puts you in a state of Flow (as in the book Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi) SUPER Long Name
There are a few ways that work better for me. Whenever you feel numb or in the need of pain, do something that "harnesses" it. Do something where being numb is good, where it helps you hide. I'll give you a few things for me. The best way to describe something like that is whatever puts you in a state of Flow (as in the book Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi) SUPER Long Name
Basically, what you're doing looks like hard work to others (or it seems to take dedication and time), but you feel happy doing it. Actually, you don't feel anything.
For me:
>
All of these use my in pain feelings and help me cope -- I'm too focused on what I'm doing (hard level in my game, hard origami fold, etc) to think of anything harmful
Try to find something like that, where your focus and attention makes it all numb, rather than painful