the opening lines are a spot-on description of that moment when your relationship's gone irreparably wrong, and both of you know it and can tell by the other's eyes, but getting the words out is a lot harder than, say, taking a walk.
it reminds me of every time i've gone through a breakup (or any controversy, really) that's damaged the way people perceive me or caused me to lose friends. because your mutual friends often feel the need to choose sides ("the town is gonna talk," making judgments with minimal information), and sometimes they just can't "look at you any other way" than as so-and-so's ex, or as the person who caused or was the victim of such pain.
it's tempting to just say f*ck it and run headlong into the next one (taking it as just a sad song, and repeating history). but the best thing to do is learn each lesson and transmute your acute awareness of psychological pain into an increased care and regard for every living soul. and hopefully, if your love was real, your eyes will still see all the good inside that made you love each other in the first place.
the opening lines are a spot-on description of that moment when your relationship's gone irreparably wrong, and both of you know it and can tell by the other's eyes, but getting the words out is a lot harder than, say, taking a walk. it reminds me of every time i've gone through a breakup (or any controversy, really) that's damaged the way people perceive me or caused me to lose friends. because your mutual friends often feel the need to choose sides ("the town is gonna talk," making judgments with minimal information), and sometimes they just can't "look at you any other way" than as so-and-so's ex, or as the person who caused or was the victim of such pain. it's tempting to just say f*ck it and run headlong into the next one (taking it as just a sad song, and repeating history). but the best thing to do is learn each lesson and transmute your acute awareness of psychological pain into an increased care and regard for every living soul. and hopefully, if your love was real, your eyes will still see all the good inside that made you love each other in the first place.
this song means a lot to me.