This song is really incredible to me. I'm going through this right now with the love of/in my life, where she's questioning her feelings. She knows she loves me, but she can't reconcile her feelings of confusion. She's asked me several times if this is what it's supposed to feel like, and I'm so happy to have found this song, because hopefully it will help her see that nothing's gonna feel perfect all the time. No one's happy all the time. We go out looking for love, expecting it to be this perfect, comfortable thing, until you really find it, and you realize that it's so complex. It scares you, but comforts you; it confuses you, but gives you clarity; it upsets you, but it makes you happy. Great song!
I appreciate your comment, even though it's two and a half years since you wrote it. I'm the girl on the other side, and this song is also comforting to me for the same reasons. In many ways, I'm finding that love is deciding to overcome your own doubts and reach out to someone, committing to them when it's hard, not because they are difficult to love, but because it is difficult to LOVE--to overcome one's own inconstancy in order to extend unconditional support.
I appreciate your comment, even though it's two and a half years since you wrote it. I'm the girl on the other side, and this song is also comforting to me for the same reasons. In many ways, I'm finding that love is deciding to overcome your own doubts and reach out to someone, committing to them when it's hard, not because they are difficult to love, but because it is difficult to LOVE--to overcome one's own inconstancy in order to extend unconditional support.
This song is really incredible to me. I'm going through this right now with the love of/in my life, where she's questioning her feelings. She knows she loves me, but she can't reconcile her feelings of confusion. She's asked me several times if this is what it's supposed to feel like, and I'm so happy to have found this song, because hopefully it will help her see that nothing's gonna feel perfect all the time. No one's happy all the time. We go out looking for love, expecting it to be this perfect, comfortable thing, until you really find it, and you realize that it's so complex. It scares you, but comforts you; it confuses you, but gives you clarity; it upsets you, but it makes you happy. Great song!
I appreciate your comment, even though it's two and a half years since you wrote it. I'm the girl on the other side, and this song is also comforting to me for the same reasons. In many ways, I'm finding that love is deciding to overcome your own doubts and reach out to someone, committing to them when it's hard, not because they are difficult to love, but because it is difficult to LOVE--to overcome one's own inconstancy in order to extend unconditional support.
I appreciate your comment, even though it's two and a half years since you wrote it. I'm the girl on the other side, and this song is also comforting to me for the same reasons. In many ways, I'm finding that love is deciding to overcome your own doubts and reach out to someone, committing to them when it's hard, not because they are difficult to love, but because it is difficult to LOVE--to overcome one's own inconstancy in order to extend unconditional support.