I definately see the one-sided relationship thing. I think everyone knows that feeling at some point. It's like being trapped in a noose made of your feelings. It's choking you and the other person has the rope in their hands cause when you love someone more than they love you, they always have that control.
And then sometimes you don't even have to love the person more for them to have the control, sometimes they're just evil and conniving hidden under a beautiful mask...hence the pretty noose.
@WinterOnyx I lived this song. Married to an emotional/verbally abusive narcissist ahole for 25 years! No love or affection and control like you've never seen. Bills went to p.o. box he only had the key. Controlled finances. We owned a restaurant for 13 years. His misogynist Dad taught him how to beat the system. He only claimed $200/week. Took cash instead. So if I divorced him, I wouldn't get squat. Three kids and a mortgage, no way I could do it. I worked part time around my kids schedules. I have Ehlers Danlose Syndrome. Had health issues, he hated...
@WinterOnyx I lived this song. Married to an emotional/verbally abusive narcissist ahole for 25 years! No love or affection and control like you've never seen. Bills went to p.o. box he only had the key. Controlled finances. We owned a restaurant for 13 years. His misogynist Dad taught him how to beat the system. He only claimed $200/week. Took cash instead. So if I divorced him, I wouldn't get squat. Three kids and a mortgage, no way I could do it. I worked part time around my kids schedules. I have Ehlers Danlose Syndrome. Had health issues, he hated that. I found his diary, yeah constantly whining and angry. He said "he hated me being sick all the time. He was too selfish to deal with it."
Noose, rack..freakin torture. We got divorced, he got away with so much. $200,000 in baseball memorabilia and coin collections. He packed a uhaul while I was at work. Left me with a mortgage twice what we paid 20 years prior. By the way, I was a self taught architect, survey draftsman, accountant, exec admin. I designed our menu, table tents, monthly mailings and designed a restaurant bookkeeping spreadsheet to do the books! Never went to college. He hated I was more intelligent than him. Like I said Ahole.
I find solace in Chris Cornells music, lyrics and vocals. He was a musical genius who loved melody. Spiritual, kind and intelligent man with vocals that blow my mind.
I definately see the one-sided relationship thing. I think everyone knows that feeling at some point. It's like being trapped in a noose made of your feelings. It's choking you and the other person has the rope in their hands cause when you love someone more than they love you, they always have that control.
And then sometimes you don't even have to love the person more for them to have the control, sometimes they're just evil and conniving hidden under a beautiful mask...hence the pretty noose.
@WinterOnyx I lived this song. Married to an emotional/verbally abusive narcissist ahole for 25 years! No love or affection and control like you've never seen. Bills went to p.o. box he only had the key. Controlled finances. We owned a restaurant for 13 years. His misogynist Dad taught him how to beat the system. He only claimed $200/week. Took cash instead. So if I divorced him, I wouldn't get squat. Three kids and a mortgage, no way I could do it. I worked part time around my kids schedules. I have Ehlers Danlose Syndrome. Had health issues, he hated...
@WinterOnyx I lived this song. Married to an emotional/verbally abusive narcissist ahole for 25 years! No love or affection and control like you've never seen. Bills went to p.o. box he only had the key. Controlled finances. We owned a restaurant for 13 years. His misogynist Dad taught him how to beat the system. He only claimed $200/week. Took cash instead. So if I divorced him, I wouldn't get squat. Three kids and a mortgage, no way I could do it. I worked part time around my kids schedules. I have Ehlers Danlose Syndrome. Had health issues, he hated that. I found his diary, yeah constantly whining and angry. He said "he hated me being sick all the time. He was too selfish to deal with it." Noose, rack..freakin torture. We got divorced, he got away with so much. $200,000 in baseball memorabilia and coin collections. He packed a uhaul while I was at work. Left me with a mortgage twice what we paid 20 years prior. By the way, I was a self taught architect, survey draftsman, accountant, exec admin. I designed our menu, table tents, monthly mailings and designed a restaurant bookkeeping spreadsheet to do the books! Never went to college. He hated I was more intelligent than him. Like I said Ahole. I find solace in Chris Cornells music, lyrics and vocals. He was a musical genius who loved melody. Spiritual, kind and intelligent man with vocals that blow my mind.