Stranger than your sympathy
And this is my apology
I've been killing myself from the inside out
And all my fears have pushed you out

I wish for things that I don't need
All I wanted
And what I chase won't set me free
It's all I wanted
And I get scared but I'm not crawling on my knees

Oh yeah everything's all wrong yeah
Everything's all wrong yeah

Stranger than your sympathy
I take these things so I don't feel
And all these thoughts from the inside out
Now my head's been filled with doubt

It's hard to lead the life you choose
All I wanted
When all your luck's run out on you
All I wanted
And you can't see when all your dreams are coming true

Oh yeah it's easy to forget yeah
And you choke on the regrets yeah

Stranger than your sympathy
All these thoughts you stole from me
I'm not sure where I belong
Nowhere's home and I'm all wrong

And I wasn't all the things
I tried to make believe I was
And I wouldn't be the one to kneel
Before the dreams I wanted
And all the talk and all the lies
Were all the empty things disguised as me
Yeah
Stranger than your sympathy
Stranger than your sympathy



Lyrics submitted by WinterzEnd

Track duration: 02:58

"Sympathy" as written by John Rzeznik

Lyrics © EMI Music Publishing

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    General Comment:I can't believe how well I can relate to this song. I used to listen to it as if it was coming from someone else.. but it fits. A little too well.
    Flag harpiston January 14, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:I found out a month ago that for 7 years i was heavily medicated and numbed for something i never had.
    I don't remember much from that time, finding this song has helped me not feel so alone in how i am feeling, trying to get my head around actually being able to feel.
    Flag nginethembaon November 12, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:hey hey,
    My take, as I'm sure it's been done before but haven't read through all the comments, is that Johnny is in somewhat of an argument - with himself. I get to that because the "All I wanted" (which is throughout the whole song), to me anyway, is like a response to the previous line, an excuse almost. He wanted things he didn't need and chase things that would set him free, the life he chose IS hard, but he chose it and at some point in time, it got so hard and "luck ran out" (maybe the consequences of being simply who he is) It's an "internal" song, mixed with what he is thinking of saying to someone. A point form journey as HE looking for sympathy from someone but finds it very very "strange" considering his life and how successful he has been (who can relate to Johnny?) The rest of the song would follow with that form. Probably way way off from what he intended, but hence the beauty of music and what it can do to someone.
    Flag KrzewskiKrewon September 09, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:I can't even explain how much I love this song. Even after all these years later it still brings me to tears. This song just rips through my heart.
    Flag ArwenEvenstaron July 20, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:I love what everyone's saying about the lyrics. I can see a little bit of the meaning through each person's comments. This really is an amazingggggg song as are all of the songs by the goo goo dolls.

    So I may have missed it if someone already said something about this, but I have a question about a couple of the lines. When he says:

    "I take these things so I don't feel
    I'm killing myself from the inside out"

    My first thought when I read that was to think he was talking about drugs. Like he's taking drugs to not feel the pain he's suffering. And he knows that thye're bad and he's gonna kill himself from the inside out with them. Now I'd really like for that to not be what it means so if someone sees a different meaning in those words please reply and just let me know! =)

    Thanks!
    ~Emily
    Flag emilycain33on May 30, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:In a strange way, it reminds me of an old friend. I used to feel guilty, yet unable to do really anything about a certain situation between us. While nothing was ever really resolved, I thought that he was nicer to me about it than he could've been.
    Flag xmakesherflyxon February 24, 2010   Link
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    Song Meaning:yall have it all wrong hes not actually apologizing to anyone, hes saying "sorry i killed my self from the inside out to fit you better and pushed everything not good enough for you out of my life but im still not good enough for you" its more like a sorry i cant be perfect. and the first verse means "iv chased you all my life trying to be with you but i just relised that will never set me me free, oh crap i iv wasted all my time after you and thats time il never get back everythings all wrong" il be back with a meaning on the rest of it after i listen to the song again and take another good look on the lyrics...
    Flag batmanamacheron February 17, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:He knows he is lucky to have her but it is not enough, he is unable to
    love her
    He can not even recognize what he is letting go.
    His addictions make it easy to forget her, making it easy to let her
    go. But he has intense moments where he realizes this "regrets"
    He continues his cycle of addiction to numb his pain, he can not deal with
    losing her.
    He is not that "special" but he pretends to be to hide the truth, he can not love
    while being an addict.
    He feels deceived that she sees through him, knowing what he is thinking
    and feeling despite the false image he portrayed.
    He can not understand how she broke through,he is lost and does
    not want her to know.
    She knows and she still loves him, wants him to get better.
    He does not understand how she could sympathize, strange to him
    He has never experienced such love.
    He finally sees through his denial, able to see
    how he not what he pretended to be.
    Her love broke down his walls, she forgives him for this but she knows
    she has to let him go if he does not get help.



    Him facing life and breaking through denial is stranger then her understanding of him.
    He has been a stranger to himslef for so long, but she helped him find himself.
    Love can conquer all!


    Flag musicismyboyfriend74on January 19, 2010   Link
  • +1
    My Opinion:When someone understands the real you.
    Taking drugs daily to escape.
    Apologizing for not being able to live up to the dreams they shared.
    Fear of recovery, pushing her away instead of living sober.
    Wishing for love, although at the moment they do not need anything but drugs/alcohol/pills
    Wanting to love and being loved but so numb, unable
    Chasing a high, being chained down unable to live and love
    Fear but unable to go to her and make things right
    He is living in denial, he wants to stay there
    He thought she would be believe and stay, fooled himself in believing the lies he told her
    Continuing his addictions, destroying his body...she loves him more then he has
    ever loved himself
    She understands him, sees him and loves him still
    She lives her life sober, "hard to live the life you choose", he takes the
    easy way out, unable to face life sober and hard to deal with
    everything he has been hiding from
    Their love was superficial, no depth because he is an addict
    "All your luck runs out on you" He feels alone, all his luck can't
    keep her, he is unable to love her and she realizes this
    Everything he ever wanted is right before him, the dreams he has wished for.
    He has always dreamed of someone like her, but he is unable to appreciate her.

    Flag musicismyboyfriend74on January 19, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:This song is beautiful, it is one of my favourites. Everyone can relate to it
    Flag Touchstoneon January 10, 2010   Link

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