Well painted passion
You rightly suspect
Impersonation
The dumbing down of love

Jaded in anger
Love underwhelms you
No box of chocolates
Whichever way you fall

And if I tell you
Lover alone without love
What will happen
Lover alone without love
And will you listen?
Lover alone without, without love

No, no I'll get this
I want to treat you
You're still not famous
And you haven't struck it rich

Underachieving
'Cause no one's receiving
This tunnel vision
It's turning out all wrong

And if I tell you
Lover alone without love
What will happen
Lover alone without love
And will you listen?
Lover alone without, without love

Music is worthless unless it can
Make a complete stranger
Break down and cry

And if I tell you
Lover alone without love
What will happen
Lover alone without love
And will you listen?
Lover alone without, without love



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"The Dumbing Down of Love" as written by Guy Sigsworth, Imogen Jennifer Heap, Jon Hassell

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    General Comment:What is that intoxicating instrument towards the end? Possibly a duduk?
    Flag SkeezTheGreaton March 26, 2011   Link
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    My Interpretation:I believe this song is about an artist who is struggling with writing a love song. The artist is have all the people around her telling her to write a love song so she could make it big, but the type of love song they want is one that she can't write. When she says "And if I tell you, Lover alone without love. What will happen? Lover alone without love. Will you listen? Lover alone without love" She's speaking to the listener. Asking them that if she wrote a love song that will get air play, but be untrue to the actual meaning of love, would they listen to it? Will they make her famous? And the line "Music is worthless, unless it can make a complete stranger cry" May be the opinion of the opposing forces around her. They keep telling her to write a song that's going to speak to the LISTENER about love, instead of writing a song that speaks to her. She's completely overwhelmed by that. She wonders why would they want her to write a song for a complete stranger? The genius to this song is at the very beginning when she says "Well painted passion, you rightly suspect, Impersonation, the dumbing down of love, Jaded in Anger, Love underwhelms you, No box of chocolates, whichever way you fall...". She's talking about the popular love songs. How they're all copies of each other, and they all say the same things. She mentions two types of love songs in that part of the song. The songs that talk about how they suspect someone loves them and the other is when love didn't turn out the way they thought it would. It's always the same formula in pop culture.
    I think the whole song is mocking love songs in general. The title "The Dumbing Down Of Love" talks about how love songs make love sound so simple. How if she writes her music just to make it big and just uses the same usual material for her songs, it's dumbing down her music. It's dumbing down the idea of love. And she mocks songs in pop culture; by saying that they dumb down love.

    This song is absolutely beautiful. The music accompanied by Imogen's voice is what makes this song for me. If this song was done in any other way I probably wouldn't love it as much.

    And I'd like to add something. I've just recently discovered Frou Frou and Imogen Heap. Let me tell you, I've never listened to any other music that has spoken to me just as much as their music. I'm really hoping Frou Frou comes out with another album! But I'm still eagerly anticipating Imogen's third album! Her music is absolutely amazing.
    Flag semi-colonon November 20, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:"Music is worthless unless it can make a complete stranger break down and cry"

    Love love love the connection/ode to the line in Bowie's "Young Americans":
    "Ain't there one damn song that can make me break down and cry?"
    Flag sheskindaspecialon September 21, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:All of “details” is wonderful, but this song’s probably my favorite off the album, because I keep coming back to it.. I’ve seen immi twice and wished she performed it…

    Other songs that I listen with this one: Bette Midler’s “The Rose,” Morcheeba’s “Fear and Love,” Bjork’s “All is Full of Love,” Feist’s “How My Heart Behaves” and Destroyer’s “Certain Things You Ought to Know”
    Flag laughing_manon July 25, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:This song’s so beautiful and soothing.. … the use of trumpets adds to the reflective tone… when I lie in my bed and watch all the cars passing outside my window, I hear this song…


    it’s a meditation that uses music (both literally and figuratively) as a mirror… we love, we sometimes have it returned, sometimes we don’t, but the song is more about how we give and give but we don’t get back, so we hold back—the dumbing down of love (“no box of chocolates”)… and then, we wonder why “it’s turning out all wrong”… and then, the mirror—we listen to a song… and we return. We listen to a song, to music, and it gets us through. Music and love are one in this song, and I think immi is not only trying to say that “music is worthless unless it can make a complete stranger break down and cry,” but also that music can help us think about love—that, music is (comfort in the absence of) love, and can be, if we only pay attention (“will you listen?”)…the song could also be, simply, immi expressing her love of music..


    …about the Othello reference, I think immi has read and knows her Shakespeare… in the play, “well-painted passion” is Othello calling Desdemona a liar, unfaithful… but this is after he believes the lies fed to him by Iago… basically, Othello “became what he saw” (or should I say “heard”)… he heard Iago’s lies and all he could believe after that was lies and because of it, he was destroyed… in the song, “well-painted passion” mirrors Othello’s jealousy… but here, the “well-painted passion” is the lover, "alone without love,” the Othello-figure and not Desdemona as in the play… if we are jealous ourselves, then we are likely to see jealousy in the other, our partner, lover (“you rightly suspect impersonation…”) …love in its contrary state of jealousy (love as a mirror)…

    If we don’t listen (carefully), we will be trapped in our jealousy and maybe, be destroyed, like Othello, by it…

    But music can help get us out of the cycle. If we listen to the music, we can find ourselves, we can find love.

    immi is singing about just that—she is singing about love, as jealousy (“this tunnel vision”), but also about the possibility of love, of breaking out of our jealousy (“If I tell you what will happen?”), of the need to keep loving others and ourselves, even if others don’t love us back—jealousy becoming the unconditional. And then, music as a catalyst. The final line.
    Flag laughing_manon July 25, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:This song I'm not sure what to make of it.

    It makes me like hypnotized I just break down every single time it gets to the part where she says "music is worthless unless it can make a complete stranger break down and cry" I do. I break down and cry.

    I think she is saying that you can give so much love and never have it returned to you. It's sad makes me feel so much pain and emotions that I keep bottled up. It's nice to listen to every ONCE in a while.
    Flag everlitton July 07, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:perfection
    like a lot of imogen heap songs, i think it has several different themes running through it
    love
    music
    friendship, passion, and envy
    disappointment
    if you can't see it, look closer
    because it's all there
    Flag Dweetleon May 27, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:This is one of the most beautiful songs ever written.
    Absolutely amazing.

    How something so simple can have such an effect.

    "Music is worthless unless it can make a complete stranger break down and cry."

    Indeed.
    Flag Christine.on February 28, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:The woman I love, and that loves me, have to be apart for a while....possibly forever...and this song is tearing me apart.
    Flag crewmancrosson July 16, 2007   Link
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    General Comment:One of those rare songs that you don't just hear, you experience it and it changes something about you.
    Brings a moment of stark realisation to me everytime I hear this song.
    Flag A.Mon May 25, 2007   Link

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