When the truth is found to be lies
And all the joy within you dies
Don't you want somebody to love, don't you
Need somebody to love, wouldn't you
Love somebody to love, you better
Find somebody to love

When the garden flowers baby are dead, yes and
Your mind, your mind is so full of red
Don't you want somebody to love, don't you
Need somebody to love, wouldn't you
Love somebody to love, you better
Find somebody to love

Your eyes, I say your eyes may look like his
Yeah, but in your head, baby, I'm afraid you don't know where it is
Don't you want somebody to love, don't you
Need somebody to love, wouldn't you
Love somebody to love, you better
Find somebody to love

Tears are running down and down and down your breast
And your friends, baby they treat you like a guest
Don't you want somebody to love, don't you
Need somebody to love, wouldn't you
Love somebody to love, you better
Find somebody to love



Lyrics submitted by kevin, edited by Mellow_Harsher

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"Somebody to Love" as written by Darby R. Slick

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  • 0
    My Interpretation:it's commentary on the war in vietnam
    truths > lies (govt)
    joy dies
    garden dead (defoliants, bombing)
    full of red (blood of the dead and wounded).
    Flag BillMonguson October 02, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:I like the "break up" analysis and the "hanging around at a party" analysis. I remember seeing an interview with Grace Slick and she said she was like sleeping with everyone at the time and was doing every drug that she could get her hands on. That kind of leads to dark places. I always thought the song was at least partially written by Grace Slick and someone with the last name of Darby because it lists the song writer as Darby Slick (which I thought was Slick and someone named Darby). But I found out that I was completely wrong about the whole thing when I researched it on Wikipedia. It was written by someone else entirely. Here is what it says:

    "Written by Great Society guitarist Darby Slick and first performed by that band, which included his then-sister-in-law Grace Slick on vocals, the song made little impact outside of the club circuit in the Bay Area."

    I wonder what Darby Slick was going through when this song was written...
    Flag captainjohnon June 01, 2012   Link
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    Song Meaning:To me, the meaning of this song was exactly as they portrayed it in the movie, "A Simple Man". <<>>
    A man is going about his normal life just the way he was trained. Get a good education, a good job, and a good wife. Out of the blue, his wife wants a divorce; she met another man, and wants him to move to a hotel. This is a tragedy and his kids aren't even fazed by it. He turns to religion to seek the advice of the senior Rabbi, just like he was trained to do. The senior Rabbi is too busy and the junior Rabbi's can't give him any direction. He keeps trying and still can't see the senior Rabbi. He is up for tenure at his job and somebody is writing negative anonymous letters to the dean and he is being threatened by a student. Everything he has worked for is going down the toilet. His wife takes all of his money out of the bank. He and the wife's boyfriend are in 2 separate auto accidents on the same day; he lives, the boyfriend dies. The wife wants him to pay for her boyfriend’s funeral. He sees his hot neighbor sunbathing in the nude and invites himself over. She plays some 60’s rock and they smoke a joint. She is casual and happy and it is the only time in the movie that he doesn’t seem anxious or neurotic. He attends his son’s bah mitzvah in front of many people that know what is happening in his personal and professional life. His son got caught with a walkman / radio device at school at got it taken away. As a reward for his bah mitzvah, his son gets to meet with the senior Rabbi; The same Rabbi that the father has been dying to see. After supporting the Synagogue all those years, sending his kids to their private school and paying for the bah mitzvah, paying for his wife’s boyfriend’s funeral, he can’t get five minutes with the senior Rabbi. But his apathetic kid is going to waltz in there and roll his eyes. When the kid goes into the meeting the senior Rabbi returns his radio while Jefferson Airplane’s - Someone to Love is playing. The Rabbi repeats the first few sentences of the song - which is the meaning of the movie and the meaning of the song:
    When the truth is found to be lies (He has done everything his parents, religion and society trained him to do and it was all for nothing. His family life is a joke, career could end, and his religion has no answers)

    And all the joys within you dies (With great wisdom comes great sorrow, truth can be isolating and depressing. Like most people, he did what he was trained to do his whole life and pretended that he was happy chasing goals that were put in his mind by religious and social indoctrination and peer pressure)

    Don't you want somebody to love (This is the realization of what life is about. This makes us happy. Money, career, social standing mean nothing; when we achieve a goal and realize that we are not happy, we just raise the bar and chase a new goal, wasting more of our life. Love is what makes us happy. Love should be our goal)
    Don’t you NEED somebody to love (without love, man becomes bitter, angry and depressed)
    You’d better find somebody to love (You are running out of time, we are all going to die, we just don’t know when. Don’t waste another day)
    The movie ends with the man talking with his Dr. about his chest xrays. The Dr doesn’t want to discuss them on the phone; instead, he wants to see him immediately. The scene changes to his son being rushed out of school with the other kids trying to get into an underground shelter with a huge tornado in the background coming towards the school and the city.
    Flagged Lyrics2Deepon August 01, 2011   Link
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    My Opinion:I love the line "and your friends baby they treat you like a guest" - it is so ambiguous. I never know if it is meant to indicate welcoming treatment, or distance.
    Flag albamuson February 12, 2011   Link
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    Lyric Correction:this is the correct lyrics

    When the truth is found to be lies
    You know the joy within you dies
    Don¹t you want somebody to love ?
    Don¹t you want somebody to love ?
    Wouldn¹t you love somebody to love ?
    You better find someone to love
    Find somebody to love
    Find somebody to love
    Find somebody to love

    /When the dawn is rose they are dead,
    Yes, and you're mine, you're so full of red/

    Your eyes, I say your eyes may look like his,
    Yeah, but in your head, baby,
    I¹m afraid you don¹t know
    Where it is.
    Tears are running,
    Running along down your breast
    And your friends, baby,
    They treat you lik a guest.
    Flag markokikion January 24, 2011   Link
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    My Interpretation:It's about lonliness.
    Flag astrophysiciston March 06, 2010   Link
  • +1
    My Interpretation:This song is about the death of the 60s ideal that was I think this song is about the death of the 60s ideal that was happening in the Haight Ashbury after it was popularized in the media and kids started showing up there and overrunning it from all over the place. The LSD and pot that had been fueling the counter culture rennaissance were suddenly in short supply, and people began turning to speed and heroin and other hard drugs, with all kinds of crime, rip-offs, some deaths, etc. that are typically related to that. The song is pointing to the disillusion that people had when they saw that happening, the "truth" of the promise of that early hippy culture turning to lies, the joy dying, the garden flowers dead, mind now full of "red" (anger, hate, speed, etc. or regular consciousness instead of LSD "flower" consciousness), the loss of community, the friends treating you like a guest (instead of a friend, with that sense of distance or formality, etc.), and so on. Everyone came to SF or the hippy culture looking for "free love," but instead you'd better find someone to love instead of just looking to take.
    Flag iggy00on September 14, 2009   Link
  • +5
    General Comment:Actually, this song was originally written and performed by a band called "The Great Society", which was the band that was started by Grace Slick, Jerry Slick (her 1st husband), and his brother, Darby Slick.


    Grace talks about the song and it's meaning in her autobiography, "Somebody to Love". The song was written by Darby and is about a more grown up version of love... She says they were tired of all of the "Why don't you love me?" songs that were typical of love songs of the era.

    The song means, if you're feeling down and out, and life is handing you a bunch of shit for whatever reason, find somebody to love... To Love in the human sense, not the sexual or romantic sense. To give love, rather than bemoaning not receiving love.

    In her words:
    "Rather than the loving you're whining about getting or not getting, a more satisfying state of heart might be the loving you're 'giving'. Suggesting that adhering to the old Puritan cliche, 'It's better to give than to receive', might actually make you a happier person. The idea of service and selflessness may sound like a tedious task reserved for bald monks, but the way Darby wrote the lyrics, altruism didn't seem like such a lofty and unattainable state. He gave the impression that giving could even be an enjoyable adventure."


    - Steve
    Flag LAJollaon March 20, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. It just depends on how you smoke it.

    First of all, the song was written by Darby Slick, Grace's brother-in-law, who was in the band Grace and her husband were in called Great Society, who originally performed the song before Jefferson Airplane.

    Like many of the songs in 1966, it was basically just a boy-girl song, a bit more adult than I Want To Hold Your Hand, but basically the same.

    But, like ANY song, it's open to interpretation by the listener. If you want to hear Vietnam in there, then, by all means, it's about Vietnam.

    Enjoy your smoke.
    Flag brumuson November 29, 2008   Link
  • -1
    General Comment:When the truth is found to be lies
    and all the joys within you dies
    don't you want somebody to love
    don't you need somebody to love
    wouldn't you love somebody to love
    you better find somebody to love

    trust me, only some have been as low as i have and can TRULY understand. no offense to anyone. anyone whos been there will tell u that, other wise theyre a fuckin clown and u should fucking kill them
    its like asking a sniper his kill count. just dont do it. ha! dont beleive me? see what happens, thru one eye cuz ull be in the hospital with a punched out eye. it certainly wont be me who does it tou. itll be an actual sniper
    Flag bobolsonon November 03, 2008   Link

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