Everybody cares, everybody understands
Yes everybody cares about you
Yeah and whether or not you want them to
It's a chemical embrace that kicks you in the head
To a pure synthetic sympathy that infuriates you totally
And a quiet lie that makes you want to scream and shout
So here I lay dreaming looking at the brilliant sun
Raining it's guiding light upon everyone
For a moment's rest you can lean against the banister
After running upstairs again and again from wherever they came to fix
You in but always fear the city's finest follow right behind
You got a pretty vision in your head
A pencil full of poison lead
And a sickened smoke illegal in every town
So here I lay dreaming looking at the brilliant sun
Raining its guiding light upon everyone
Here I lay dreaming looking at the brilliant sun
Raining its guiding light upon everyone
You say you mean well, you don't know what you mean
Fucking ought to stay the hell away from things you know nothing about



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"Everybody Cares, Everybody Understands" as written by Steven P. Smith

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    General Comment:"And a sickened smile illegal in every town" could be a reference to John Prine's "Illegal Smile"
    Flag philipt42on June 16, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:"And a sickened smile illegal in every town" could be a reference to John Prine's "Illegal Smile"
    Flag philipt42on June 16, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:couple changes to the lyrics:

    ''you fucking aught to stay the hell away...''
    and
    ''always fear city's finest follow...''
    Flag kthxbion September 20, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:first off, there is another version of this song the original(similiar but different lyrics), which shows u how he felt about this song even more then the lyrics in this version do, so i would suggest listening to that version which is on youtube first. 2nd this is definitely a song about how a bunch of his friends tried to have an intervention for elliott, and he turned them all away. and one of the biggest points i think he was trying to make in this song is, u dont know me, u dont know how i feel, who knows, if i dont have my meds/drugs i might feel so shitty i might want to kill myself. RIP elliott u will be forever LOVED!! wow listening to the alternate version right now, and yes please listen it explains everything alot clearer!!!
    Flag ganuenenon September 12, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:Matthew Lemay, in his book "Elliott Smith's XO" (from the "33 1/3" series: which so far includes 50 or so paperbacks, each going into great detail about one record) devotes a chapter to this song. Smith's use of language, Lemay argues, is often deceptively simple.

    Lines which may sound as if they're referring to drugs--such as "It's a chemical embrace that kicks you in the head/To a pure synthetic sympathy that infuriates you totally"--aren't always literal. Elliott may have been referencing drugs/intoxication only metaphorically.

    The rehab clinic (where he was coerced into treatment by his so-called friends) was in Arizona. You can imagine how oppressive the heat must have been, for someone accustomed to living in Oregon's usually-mild climate. So the "guiding light" of the "brilliant sun"--which, on its face, sounds as if it might be an image of healing, natural beauty--in this instance represents feeling trapped after having been "helped" by people misguided at best, manipulative at worst.
    Flag foreverdroneon July 26, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:I hate how people gripe when others speculate that his songs are about drugs. Even if it's not ABOUT drugs, he references them in a ton of songs.

    This is exactly what Elliott was saying in,
    "Fucking ought to stay the hell away from things you know nothing about."

    How are you going to make a connection to drugs when you have not let them into your life?

    (Note: I'm not trying to glamorize substance abuse or anything, but once you've been there, you start connecting the dots in his music. I didn't use when I started listening to ES, and couldn't pick up the references until I did.)
    Flag emilykmkzon May 27, 2009   Link
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    My Interpretation:"It's a chemical embrace that kicks you in the head."
    Emotions are caused by chemicals within the brain. He could be railing against emotion as just an empty chemical reaction with no meaning, which fits with the idea that he wants people to stop feeling obligated to be sympathetic.

    I suppose the same meaning could be applied to, "To a pure synthetic sympathy that infuriates you totally." But the word synthetic makes my mind jump to drugs (whether heroin or the meds administered to him I have no idea) but that interpretation seems a little less kosher to me.
    Flag FiendAngelicalon January 28, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:To me this song is about how everyone says that they understand and they care but really they're just saying it because they feel like they should. It doesn't even matter to you anymore. It's just an annoyance. They don't know you and they don't know what you've been through yet they feel as though they have the right to preach at you.

    But you've gotten to the point where you don't even care about yourself any longer.

    This could easily apply to a mental institution.
    Flag thelastdecemberon September 14, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:I agree that it's about a psychiatric hospital or just generally people who want to help you, as somebody said earlier, "because they think they should"...

    I think the "chemical embrace that kicks you in the head" is talking about psychiatric drugs that make you feel calm, but not right... And the "pencil full of poison lead" (and the lines that come before it about being chased upstairs)... I picture a nurse chasing him with a syringe. They want to see him happy, but the way they're going about it would just make him sedated, stupid... a "sickened smile"...

    I think even "here I lay dreaming, looking at the brilliant sun, raining its guiding light upon everyone" may be him sarcastically talking about lying in a hospital bed staring up at the bright fluorescent lights.

    I definitely don't think it's about heroin, heh.
    Flag galaxiaadon July 17, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:if you have read "the big nothing", it shows that the song is about most of his friends at the time who where giving him interventions because of his downward sprial. Proves to be one of his most brutal and bitting songs he has ever written.
    Flag blinkminion January 18, 2008   Link

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