I think I'll go home and mull this over
Before I cram it down my throat
At long last it's crashed, the colossal mass
Has broken up into bits in my moat

Lift the mattress off the floor
Walk the cramps off
Go meander in the cold
Hail to your dark skin
Hiding the fact you're dead again
Underneath the power lines seeking shade
Far above our heads are the icy heights
That contain all reason

It's a luscious mix of words and tricks
That let us bet when we know we should fold
On rocks I dreamt of where we'd stepped
And the whole mess of roads we're now on

Hold your glass up, hold it in
Never betray the way you've always known it is
One day I'll be wondering how
I got so old just wondering how
I never got cold wearing nothing in the snow

This is way beyond my remote concern
Of being condescending

All these squawking birds won't quit
Building nothing, laying bricks



Lyrics submitted by rudegirl, edited by eyzovblu

Track duration: 03:20


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    General Comment:it is frightening how one shirt term relationship can leave a huge mark on your life. being able to stand the thought you will never see them again. watch the sun and life floating by and through you, and always remembering that this will not change. at least for me. cos when you gave your soul to another person, there is no turning back.
    Flag mrtheoneon April 08, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:I really like the line "Never betray the way you've always known it is". I'm not sure if I can completely word what I get out of it but kinda like "Some things can't be learned they must be remembered".
    Flag bkabbotton February 15, 2013   Link
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    My Interpretation:Having just come upon this song (Though I do know it) I listened to the lyrics for once...because I need to since I just went through a break up. Listening to the words makes me feel alright. Listening to the imagery and what Mercer says to me it represents something about getting over trauma (such as a break up). When he talks about walking in the cold its as if you walk around late at night just to get a moment to breath. As for the "lift the mattress" part, I did in fact get very drunk last night and puked by my bed. I thus had to wash the sheets (disgusting I know). That line reminds me of why it doesn't pay to linger on the past, you just have to keep moving. Instead of sulking one should be enjoying other things besides worrying about things you enjoyed with a significant other. Words cannot describe how much this song and these words pulled me from the borders of depression. "this is way beyond my remote concern for being condescending" is essentially saying that you don't care if what you say is hurting someone because you want to feel better. Its a shameful thing for me to think about. To me the second verse is all about how we have a need to bargain for our failing relationships even though we know it is going to fail. And the most piercing lyric in the song to me is "hiding the fact your dead again" because there are certain people I must hide my anguish from and it makes it so much worse. In the end I think this song says to move on when you experience adversity, in such a way that makes you feel like the singer is empathetic to yourself in your specific situation. What makes this so beautiful is that the words are vague enough to relate to someone in my situation, or someone who is homeless. I also think this song encourages the listener to just be themselves, "never betray the way you've always known it is" "all these squaking birds won't quit" People won't always accept you but you have to get through it. I feel so much better now. Now excuse me as I go brood in the streets of Milwaukee.
    Flag schruenderon January 27, 2013   Link
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    My Interpretation:I see a lot of the lines as references to homelessness, and the view society has upon it. I think this song might shift from perspective to perspective between stanzas.

    Roll the mattress off the floor
    Walk the cramps off
    Go meander in the cold
    Hail to your dark skin
    Hiding the fact you're dead again
    Underneath the power lines seeking shade
    Far above our heads are the icy heights
    That contain all reason

    This whole section gives me a strong visual of someone homeless. Maybe they've made mistakes and they can't help but curse what they've become.

    It's a luscious mix of words and tricks
    That let us bet when you know we should fold
    On rocks I dreamt of where we'd stepped
    And the whole mess of roads we're not on

    Perhaps this is reflecting on what got them where they are now.

    Other stanzas and lines, like:

    Hold your glass up, hold it in
    Never betray the way you've always known it is

    Seem to reflect on someone who does their best to ignore these sorts of problems and people.


    This is way beyond my remote concern
    Of being condescending

    They don't want to be condescending, but they don't want anything to do with the homeless and less fortunate at all. Because it's out of the norm. You don't see other people doing anything, so why should you? After all, Caring is Creepy.

    But they can't help but think about it, they have issues getting it out of their head.

    I think I'll go home and mull this over
    Before I cram it down my throat
    At long last it's crashed, the colossal mass
    Has broken up into bits in my moat



    It makes me wonder if Mr. Mercer feels this way.


    Of course, I haven't quite been able to figure in the chorus, so take this with a large pinch of salt.
    Flag Ryuhzaon December 01, 2011   Link
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    Memory:well..well....what a whopper. i broke my pinky toe the day after thanksgiving and was stuck inside for the entire rainy season in SF. and my 'fiance' and I, who live together, were on very different wavelengths in a tiny flat, each of us keeping late hours, in two different rooms. (ok, a small flat, but not minuscule.)

    because it was easier to give me music than attention, he made me songlists, one after another, and caring is creepy was featured.

    i was very preoccupied with my anger at his rejection of me and IF i had understood these lyrics i might have taken drastic measures to find oblivion, permanently.

    this song is touched the way 'waiting for a superman' is touched,the way so much 'sparklehorse' is touched, the way 'ashes of american flags' is touched. touched by genius, courage, vulnerability, sheer wordsmith savvy...the kind borne of jagged blinding insight into our vicious natures.

    for me, songs like this are 'church'. i can listen again and again, OCD style.

    why analyze it for all of you smart folk out there who have said many things i totally agree with?

    the only thing i'd like to share is how i believe i share a smidgin of what inspired the first verse:

    my guy walked out of our flat to spend cash we couldn't afford on a hotel room just to get away from my neediness to talk things over.

    3am. i'm amped on adrenalin and sorrow and maybe more than those two things. seated at this monitor. he leaves dramatically. my cat and i both look at each other. i sit, paralyzed. i know if i move i might fly into bits or crumble into dust. Decimate. so i hold space. mull it over.

    i know damn well it's gonna find it's way down my throat.
    or somewhere in my body.
    it's the eye of the hurricane perceived and drawing near.

    it's love.
    it's violent
    it's creepy

    we crave it and it is, like it or not, almighty.

    james mercer--agent of change.
    Flag eyzovbluon July 07, 2011   Link
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    Lyric Correction:these corrections sound very pristine and obvious if you listen to the acoustic youtube version of james mercer solo


    Lift the mattress off the floor "ROLL the mattress-not 'lift"
    Walk the cramps off
    Go meander in the cold
    Hail to your dark skin
    Hiding the fact you're dead again
    Undeneath the power lines seeking shade CORRECTION: undeRneath the ..... (R was missing)
    Far above our heads are the icy heights
    That contain all reason

    It's a luscious mix of words and tricks
    That let us bet when you know we should fold
    On rocks I dreamt of where we'd stepped
    And the whole mess of roads we're not on (i swear he's singing "we're NOW on"

    Flag eyzovbluon July 07, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:Hey Guys, check out this awesome, rare recording of Caring is Creepy by James Mercer. youtube.com/…

    I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.
    Flag charliesuedoon March 24, 2011   Link
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    My Opinion:The Shins are lyrical geniuses.
    Flag saundraaaon February 13, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:We spend our whole lives worrying rather than living. This song tells us to let go and just live.
    "One day I'll be wondering how
    I got so old just wondering how
    I never got cold wearing nothing in the snow"

    The speaker is getting old wondering about something that doesn't matter and then getting even older wondering how he got so old.
    Flag tweedy321on December 08, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:maybe a simplistic point of view, but "caring is creepy" is referring to
    the feeling of your "caring" being unwanted by the object of your affection
    he feels "creepy" that he still cares for the one who does not care back...not to the stalker level but he feels creepy nonetheless...very self aware
    Flag gackiswhackon November 29, 2010   Link

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