Well, in my opinion this song is about being a young & maybe a little naive &/or introverted girl and finding yourself loving a man who is at first very charming, carefree & outgoing, and seems at first to be without limits, as in
"There was a time
you opened up every doorway
you didn't mind if everything
wasn't your way"
then that man starts to gradually become more introverted & shows their more possessive/obsessive side to you as the relationship progresses, even while they keep up the appearance of being carefree & outgoing to everyone else,
"Don't pull away
that goes against what you told me
I look in your eyes
I realize what you've sold me
is love in a vacuum"
so you confront them about the way they're acting and of course they deny it,
"I think you've changed
but you insist that
that's not true"
quite possibly they are an addict of some sort, my guess would be cocaine, &/or showing very obsessive behavior towards you (early on in the video for this song we see the man hanging a picture up, it is a very large portrait of Aimee & it is prominently displayed in his/their apartment for the duration of the song), thus their "love in a vacuum",
"You look so strange, so distant
that you're hardly you
Now I can see
how you have been acting different
You say it's me
but I know
that it isn't
it's love in a vacuum"
but still you are in love with them and don't want to leave them and you know that they are truly in love with you and they don't want you to leave them either, maybe they are convinced you can save them from themself, maybe they are so broken that the possibility of an overdose &/or suicide attempt is very real and you want to get through to them that their behavior not only dangerous but it is also just pissing you off and if they don't wise up they run the risk of loosing you, as in the lines
"You will be lonely
if you leave me alone", so you want to save them but can't get through to them due to the addiction &/or emotional problems they have,
"Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
love in a vacuum
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
You will be lonely
if you leave me alone
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough"
you want them to understand that the love they are giving you is not enough when it is filtered through the vacuum of their drug addiction &/or emotional impairment,
"You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough
and just wait
you will be lonely
Love in a vacuum
Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
Love in a vacuum".
'Love In A Vacuum' for me is a hauntingly truthful acute argument on the loneliness of obsession and almost inevitable loss of love that follows people who are broken in some way or another; the obsessives, the coke heads, the drunks, addicts or the just-plain-old emotionally broken; a razor sharp, lyrically driven, deceptively poppy, yet ultimately-depressing-in-the-best-way song.
Quintessential Aimee Mann.
You consider me the young apprentice
Caught between the Scylla and Charibdes
Hypnotized by you if I should linger
Staring at the ring around your finger
I have only come here seeking knowledge
Things they would not teach me of in college
I can see the destiny you sold turned into a shining band of gold
I'll be wrapped around your finger
I'll be wrapped around your finger
Mephistopheles is not your name
I know what you're up to just the same
I will listen hard to your tuition
You will see it come to its fruition
I'll be wrapped around your finger
I'll be wrapped around your finger
Devil and the deep blue sea behind me
Vanish in the air you'll never find me
I will turn your face to alabaster
When you'll find your servant is your master
You'll be wrapped around my finger
You'll be wrapped around my finger
You'll be wrapped around my finger
Caught between the Scylla and Charibdes
Hypnotized by you if I should linger
Staring at the ring around your finger
I have only come here seeking knowledge
Things they would not teach me of in college
I can see the destiny you sold turned into a shining band of gold
I'll be wrapped around your finger
I'll be wrapped around your finger
Mephistopheles is not your name
I know what you're up to just the same
I will listen hard to your tuition
You will see it come to its fruition
I'll be wrapped around your finger
I'll be wrapped around your finger
Devil and the deep blue sea behind me
Vanish in the air you'll never find me
I will turn your face to alabaster
When you'll find your servant is your master
You'll be wrapped around my finger
You'll be wrapped around my finger
You'll be wrapped around my finger
Lyrics submitted by Demau Senae, edited by digitalmanMKII, itdrewabraham
Wrapped Around Your Finger Lyrics as written by Gordon Sumner
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The Clash of the Titans was made in 1981, and this song came out in 1983. If you know the movie, and read the plot synopsis, it makes total sense. I think this song was written because of a love for Greek mythology, and the movie may have given them excellent obscure phrases to use in their lyrics, something The Police really enjoyed doing.
Zeus's illegitimate son Perseus becomes the target of Thetis's fury and she transports Perseus from Seriphos to Joppa. Befriended by the scholar and playwright Ammon, Perseus learns of Andromeda and her plight: she cannot marry unless her suitor successfully answers a riddle, which is given to her by Calibos. Any suitor that fails to answer the riddle correctly is burned at the stake.
Perseus takes on this quest and has to overcome many dangerous passages in order to reach Andromeda. In addition to beating the three headed dog, outsmarting the blind witches who could see the future, and killing Medusa, he uses his mortal skills to beat the demons and obstacles created by the Gods and Goddesses. Using a sword, shield, and a helmet that renders its wearer invisible given to him by the gods, Perseus captures Pegasus and discovers the answer to the riddle - the ring worn by Calibos. Calibos nearly kills him, but Perseus cuts off his hand with his sword, though he loses his helmet in the fight.
LYRICS
Wrapped around your finger The Police
You consider me the young apprentice (Perseus - he was the apprentice to the scholar Ammon) Caught between the Scylla and charybdis (Scylla and Charybdis are two sea monsters of Greek mythology - I think they are using this as a double meaning - he's caught between the proverbial rock and a hard place deciding whether its worth his time, and also referrign to the sea monster) Hypnotized by you if I should linger (The danger of looking into Medusa's face and being turned to stone) Staring at the ring around your finger (The ring around Calibos's finger is the key to Andromeda - "looking at the prize")
I have only come here seeking knowledge (Perseus is seeking the answer to the riddle) Things they wouldn’t teach me of in college (again, referring to Perseus as the apprentice) I can see the destiny you sold (The destiny was Andromeda's destiny to marry Calibos) Turned into a shining band of gold (The whole thing got messed up and he was turned into the monster that would kill Andromeda unless the riddle was solved - the ring)
Ill be wrapped around your finger Ill be wrapped around your finger
Mephistopheles is not your name (In Greek mythology again, legend of a scholar who wagers his soul against the devil) But I know what you’re up to just the same I will listen hard to your intuition (The witches in the movie, have fortune-telling powers) And you will see it come to its fruition (The only way the witches can see is with the glass eye)
Ill be wrapped around your finger Ill be wrapped around your finger
The last part of the song is what really seals the deal for me - especially about Pegasus, the helmet that makes him invisible, and turning the Kraken to stone with the cut off head of Medusa)
Devil and the deep blue sea behind me (Perseus is riding on Pegasus over the sea) Vanish in the air you’ll never find me (Here he puts on the helmet to disappear in order to confuse the Kraken) I will turn your face to alabaster (Then he shows the Kraken Medusa's head and the sea monster is turned to stone and falls into the ocean) Then you will find your servant is your master (I think this is just the culmination of his efforts - he was a mere mortal and the Gods and Goddesses never thought that he would be able to do this)
And you’ll be wrapped around my finger You’ll be wrapped around my finger You’ll be wrapped around my finger
And so he gets the ring and presents it to Thetis who frees Andromeda and they are free to marry. Makes all the sense in the world to me. This will only make sense if you know the movie and Greek mythology fairly well.
References:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clash_of_theTitans(1981_film) en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scylla_and_Charybdis en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mephistopheles lyricsfreak.com/s/sting+&+police/wrapped+around+your+finger_20132153.html
I hope this helps!