Tim, wish you were born a girl
So I could've been your boyfriend
I know it's not possible now
I just never met a girl I like half as much as you

And we could lay around in bed, stay there all day
Or at least until the afternoon
And I could make you spaghetti with tomato sauce
With just a touch of oregano and a parsley stem

And then when you got sick
I could take the day off work
I could've made you chicken soup
And we could watch soap operas
Oh, those TV dramas
I could catch your cold
And you could take care of me

If I could've met you at school, or met you at work
It would have changed everything
Those years of losing, confusion and insecurity
They would have been shared
They would have been easier

Tim, wish you were born a girl
So I could've been your fiance
I'm not saying you can't be all these things for me
But it's just not the same because you're a man
And so am I



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"Tim I Wish You Were Born a Girl" as written by Kevin Barnes

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    General Comment:Aw. I believe the singer here has a strong emotional (romantic) attraction towards Tim, but he is heterosexual (and Tim probably is too), so there is no physical or sexual desire towards Tim. I think the best term to describe his feelings would be homoromantic. It's sweet, but sad.
    Flag JetBlackMistresson May 24, 2011   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:ok when i first heard this song i took its so litterally i cried.. my friend was like no no no its meant to be a silly song and he doesnt litterally mean that the person who wrote the song is straight and i was all like yeah but mabey there are people who actually feel that way. when i found out the real meaning of the song i was so relieved and laught i cant belive i felt stupid for being so serious... please tel me i wasnt the first to do this ^^;
    Flag aliceshineblueon July 04, 2010   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:This song is incredibly cute, just very frank and blunt.
    Flag magicmemoon January 21, 2010   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:i love this song. but its just not the same, cause you're a man...and so am i, is my favorite line. lol with the awesome guitar ending to go along with it.
    Flag sooperooperdooperon August 04, 2009   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:I think this song is adorable. It kind of reminds me of my best friend. He's not hompphobic, but I think he might be a little weired out if I sanf this to him XD

    It just seems to me like he's saying "The only way I could love you more were if I were romantically attractd to you", and I think that's realy sweet and not creepy at all, if you look at it open-mindedly
    Flag Shoryukenon July 14, 2009   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:adorable song.
    Flag madam mayhemon June 25, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:I used to feel this way about one of my friends. When we first met, we basically became best friends right away, and I ended up falling in love with her on total accident. Her name is Nikki, so I suppose I'd have to change the title to "Nikki I Wish You Were Born a Boy". (Interestingly enough, her name goes along with "Nicki Lighthouse", another of Montreal song, the lyrics of which remind me an awful lot of her.) Though, actually, I never really wished SHE'D been born a boy; I wished that I had been born a boy...but the idea's the same.

    Mind you, I USED to feel like this. I don't any longer. I still love her a whole lot, mind you, and possibly even more now than I once did. But these days I've become perfectly fine with the fact that I'm a girl who's in love with a girl. I thought it was really bad at first which was why I wished one of us were a boy. But I guess I've sort of taken the advice of another of Montreal song, and now I'm not ashamed of loving another girl. No, they should never feel ashamed...
    Flagged Pippin the Mercuryon June 07, 2009   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:This song is so sweet. It always makes me smile.
    Flag eyelinerislifeon January 31, 2009   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:this song is a theme to bro-mance.
    Flag drunkenlullaby52on December 16, 2008   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:this song is so sweet. sorta romantic. and its silly. i giggle every time i hear it. ♥
    Flag forcastedfasciston September 16, 2008   Link

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