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She says it's cold outside and she hands me my raincoat
She's always worried about things like that
Well she says it's all gonna end and it might as well be my fault
And she only sleeps when its raining
And she screams, and her voice is straining
[Chorus]
And she says baby
It's 3am I must be lonely
When she says baby
Well I can't help but be scared of it all sometimes
And the rain's gonna wash away I believe this
She's got a little bit of something, god it's better than nothing
And in her color portrait world she believes that she's got it all
She swears the moon don't hang quite as high as it used to
And she only sleeps when its raining
And she screams, and her voice is straining
[Chorus]
Well, she believes that life isn't made up of all that you're used to
And the clock on the wall has been stuck at 3 for days, and days
She thinks that happiness is the mat that sits on her doorway
But outside its stopped raining
[Chorus]
Well it's 3am I must be lonely
Well hell, when she says baby
Well I can't help but be scared of it all sometimes.
She's always worried about things like that
Well she says it's all gonna end and it might as well be my fault
And she only sleeps when its raining
And she screams, and her voice is straining
[Chorus]
And she says baby
It's 3am I must be lonely
When she says baby
Well I can't help but be scared of it all sometimes
And the rain's gonna wash away I believe this
She's got a little bit of something, god it's better than nothing
And in her color portrait world she believes that she's got it all
She swears the moon don't hang quite as high as it used to
And she only sleeps when its raining
And she screams, and her voice is straining
[Chorus]
Well, she believes that life isn't made up of all that you're used to
And the clock on the wall has been stuck at 3 for days, and days
She thinks that happiness is the mat that sits on her doorway
But outside its stopped raining
[Chorus]
Well it's 3am I must be lonely
Well hell, when she says baby
Well I can't help but be scared of it all sometimes.
Lyrics submitted by punkmebabygal
Track duration: 03:45
"3 AM" as written by Brian Yale, Rob Thomas, John Goff, John Joseph Stanley
Lyrics © EMI Music Publishing, Universal Music Publishing Group
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"She says it's all gonna end and it might as well be my fault" - as in he wants to assume some sort of responsibility for her death...
She only sleeps when it's raining and she screams her voice is straining - she cries herself to sleep....
"It's 3 am - I must be lonely" - 3 am is the witching hour or when spirits come out to haunt... "She says baby, it's 3 am I must be lonely" - this could signify the angel of death... "I can't help but be scared of it all sometimes" He is scared of his mother passing and leaving him... "The rain is gonna wash away what I believe in" His mother's tears show him that she has given up hope... so his mother could have had some sort of strong faith and when she cried, he felt as if she had lost faith, which caused him to as well...
"She's got a little bit of something - god it's better than nothing - and in her color portrait world she believes that she's got it all" - when people are close do death - they hallucinate "color portrait world" so maybe she was hallucinating toward the end... Giving her something to hang onto... "god it's better than nothing"
"She swears the moon don't hang quite as high as it used to" – She’s ready to give up – she doesn’t see the world in the same way anymore… just doesn’t hold the same beauty as before…she is ready to leave this world…
“Well she believes that life isn’t made up of all that you’re used to” – she has seen the other side – hanging between life and death you can see those things and she is ready to leave this world…
“The clock on the wall has been stuck at 3 for days and days” - some people say that clocks stop when someone dies… 3 am, being the hour in which spirits come out… angel of death has come to take her.
“She thinks that happiness is a mat that sits on her doorway” - This, I think is the most haunting and beautiful line of the song! He is somewhat upset that she has given up – as in a “doormat” to death… He does not understand why she has given up and is no longer fighting… she is content to be a "doormat" to death in his eyes...
But, outside, it’s stopped raining – her tears are no longer visible (outside) meaning she is not sad anymore and he can't see her pain... She has passed away...
“Well, it’s 3 am I must be lonely---when she says baby… Well, I can’t help but be scared of it all sometimes” - Angel of death has came down to take his mother to heaven, but it shows that he is somewhat scared of death…
The "3 am" is an allusion to something F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote: "In a real dark night of the soul it is always three o'clock in the morning." He later describes how the "dark night of the soul" is marked by loneliness.
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Or from lyrical interpretation it could also be a story that was never told. About a girl who experiences mental health problems like skitzophrenia, insomnia and depression (She says it's all gonna end and it might as well be my fault) she thinks of commiting suicide, giving up hope and blaming herself for it. Hence killing herself in the end, whilst nobody knew what she was going through. Its kinda sad when you think of it that way.
He then tells her story, the one that was never told, maybe he knew this girl, and the reprucussions of her death are having an impending effect on him. Like most deaths that can be prevented, it leaves others in the mist, questioning 'whys?' and 'what if's?', thinking about what they could have done to change the outcome.
The way the lyrics are sung are through 3rd person omniscient narration. Like she is not talking directly to him, because his reactions are not received through the lyrics, perhaps she is talking to herself, muttering quietly, and so he imagines this, as part of the phases that she has been through before she died. The most disturbing lines in the song for me are;(And she only sleeps when it's raining
And she screams and her voice is straining) its kinda hard to detect the disturbance in the lyrics behind the upbeat-ness of the song. But in the end, I think he is sorting reason and resolution to help him get through the trauma caused by a death.