I know I should get next to you
You've got a look that makes me think you're cool
But it's just sexual attraction
Not somethin' real so I'd rather keep wackin'
Why bother? it's gonna hurt me
It's gonna kill when you desert me
This happened to me twice before
It won't happen to me anymore
I've known a lot of girls before
What's the harm in knowin' one more?
Maybe we could even get together
Maybe you could break my heart next summer
It's a crying shame I'm all alone
Not with you, nor her, nor anyone
Won't you knock me on my head
Crack it open let me out of here



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Track duration: 02:06


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    General Comment:Just popped in Pinkerton for the first time in years and it makes me quite sad because Weezer used to be really good.
    Flag The Drizzleon May 12, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:i've been following the outlook on this song for a long time. that relationships are based on sex and that love doesn't exist. it would be easier to just masterbate and not think about sex or relationships.

    i think that isn't the MESSAGE of this song though, i think he's sort of poking fun at this outlook, like, "i dated once and got my heart broken, so its all fake and i dont need it." i've just heard this song for the first time today and i think rivers really called me on my b.s. i think i'm going to try and fall in love now.
    Flag musicalbaconon December 10, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:I love this song. I think that everyone's on the mark about him seeing the uselessness in sleeping around, getting your heart broken etc. But what about the end?? He lives by his fear and ends up alone. Hmmm...balance.
    Flag pyroflyon May 27, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:okay this really IS about jacking off
    Flag NINirvana69on November 25, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:My favorite off Pinkerton fa sho.
    Flag ohhamburgerson September 27, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:two words: post romance.
    Flag magnetic girlon September 04, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:well bumpygrimes, apparently you're wrong, considering that they have sold thousands of albums.
    Flag 80smoviesguyon August 16, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:this happened to me twice before .. thats' the greatest part.
    we just repeat everything in ourlife,
    Flag seronjaaon March 03, 2007   Link
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    General Comment:Its as if rivers can see inside my head!
    Flag Cruise2Useon June 15, 2006   Link
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    General Comment:bumpygrimes- i think almost everyone else who has heard the song disagrees.

    Anyway, I think eveyone else hads gotten it. Fear of being in a reltionship because he thinks it won't end well.

    I'd just like to add that when I saw them do this live (touring w/Foo Fighters) Brian sang on it, and the last lines of the first verse were slightly different. "It's nothing real, you you better get packin." Still sounded cool I guess, heh.
    Flag TheSilverNobleon February 03, 2006   Link

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