Well it's been ten years, and a thousand tears
And look at the mess I'm in
A broken nose and a broken heart,
An empty bottle of gin
Well I sit and I pray
In my broken down Chevrolet
While I'm singin' to myself
There's got to be another way

Take away, take away
Take away this ball and chain
I'm lonely and I'm tired
And I can't take any more pain
Take away, take away
Never to return again
Take away, take away
Take away this ball and chain

Well I've searched and I've searched
To find the perfect life-
A brand new car and a brand new suit
I even got me a little wife
But wherever I have gone
I was sure to find myself there
You can run all your life
But not go anywhere

Take away, take away
Take away this ball and chain
I'm lonely and I'm tired
And I can't take any more pain
Take away, take away
Never to return again
Take away, take away
Take away this ball and chain

Well I'll pass the bar on the way
To my dingy hotel room
I spent all my money
Been drinkin' since a half past noon
I'll wake there in the mornin'
Or maybe in the county jail
Times are hard getting harder
I'm born to lose and destined to fail

Take away, take away
Take away this ball and chain
I'm lonely and I'm tired
And I can't take any more pain
Take away, take away
Never to return again
Take away, take away
Take away this ball and chain



Lyrics submitted by dragonflower44

Track duration: 05:43

"Ball and Chain" as written by Elton John, Gary Anthony Osborne

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  • 0
    General Comment:This song...
    this was the first Social Distortion song I ever heard, I listened to it while hung over, depressed, tired, and in a saturday class on repeat for hours. From that moment on I was a fanatic for Social D. This song is so utterly human, it's about being at the end of your tolerance for the shit life sends your way and hoping for some kind of release, nothing in particular, just something to lessen the pain... for anything to take away this ball and chain. This song seems to be a mantra for a lot of poeple. I saw Social Distortion at Roseland this past october in NYC, and after "born to lose..." the music stopped and Mike pointed to the crowd and everyone sang back to him "...and destined to fail!"
    It might seem pessimistic, but everyone has felt like that, and being in a crowd of a few thousand people who all know that exact feeling... it was fucking liberating. Beautiful moment.

    Thanks Mike! And thanks to the rest of the guys.
    Flag Tig45on February 10, 2013   Link
  • +1
    General Comment:This song gives me confidence that im not the only one going through hard times and feeling lonely all the time. Mike Ness`s lyrics deeply inspired me like no other human being has, you can say that his lyrics "saved" my life and made me this person i am today.


    One day i will be getting a Social D Tattoo to remember how important his music helped me...
    Flag PUNKRKRon January 24, 2011   Link
  • +2
    General Comment:Not sure the song is 'about' anything. Kustom 22 was close. What this song is, is a prayer. The hit bottom, gutter-wallowing, soul-wrenched plea for help to God from someone at the end of their rope. The 'ball and chain' can be anything, gambling, sex, you name it. For Mike Ness it was drugs and alcohol.

    Something to ponder is that I firmly believe God listens to prayers like this a whole lot more than He does to the vapid, empty prayers full of 'thous' and 'thines' of some fat pedophile Bishop in flowing robes.

    Yes indeed, this is an extremely spiritual and insightful song.
    Flag duhaaston September 16, 2010   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:How is Mike Ness borderline retarded for singing about how he and millions others have felt in their lives?
    Flag SickGirl13on June 10, 2010   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:Take away this Ball n Chain! Ball meaning drugs Chain meaning alcohol! I've tried all other ways, but nothing seems to work. I've prayed, please take this addiction away from me!! But then again here we go again! After a while you start to believe your born to lose and destined to fail! Not True though! Great Song! Great Lyrics! Peace Out!!!!!
    Flag dayatatime01on January 26, 2010   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:To me, this song is about addiction and how it controls and distroys your life. This song makes me very sad because I know people who are "chained" to alcohol & drugs, and they truly want to "break away" but they can't.
    Flag duchess9on November 29, 2009   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:I like this song! Good for Dude if
    he's clean. My dad's been sober
    16 1/2 years. People don't realize
    how dangerous alcohol really is
    because it's "legal." It can become
    an addiction as bad or worse than
    illegal drug use. Alcohol abuse
    KILLS. Anyways I agree w/ whoever
    made the country music comment, lol!
    Flag Udahoon September 01, 2009   Link
  • 0
    Song Meaning:This song is ALL about Mikes struggle to get and stay clean! It's loaded with references about a certain 12 step program???
    Flag monkeydadon January 03, 2009   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:But wherever I have gone
    I was sure to find myself there
    You can run all your life
    But not go anywhere

    Those lines are utterly brilliant. You can try to escape your pain by traveling, finding new friends, taking drugs, etc. But you can't . Because you can't escape from yourself.
    Flag illrideron August 02, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:I love this song. It's like the punk version of singing the blues.
    Flag rosebud_2oooon March 29, 2008   Link

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