So you think you're a Romeo
playing a part in a picture-show
Take the long way home
Take the long way home

'Cause you're the joke of the neighborhood
Why should you care if you're feeling good
Take the long way home
Take the long way home

But there are times that you feel you're part of the scenery
All the greenery is comin' down, boy
And then your wife seems to think you're part of the
furniture oh, it's peculiar, she used to be so nice.

When lonely days turn to lonely nights
You take a trip to the city lights
And take the long way home
Take the long way home

You never see what you want to see
Forever playing to the gallery
You take the long way home
Take the long way home

And when you're up on the stage, it's so unbelievable,
Oh unforgettable, how they adore you,
But then your wife seems to think you're losing your sanity,
Oh, calamity, is there no way out?

Does it feel that your life's become a catastrophe?
Oh, it has to be for you to grow , boy.
When you look through the years and see what you could
have been oh, what you might have been,
If you'd had more time.

So, when the day comes to settle down,
Who's to blame if you're not around?
You took the long way home
You took the long way home...



Lyrics submitted by Hunter

Track duration: 05:08

"Take the Long Way Home" as written by Richard Davies, Roger Hodgson

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    My Interpretation:The meaning of this song is: this person's marriage is failing, and the song uses it as an example to demonstrate the dangers of settling down.

    He goes out at night instead of going home, because at home he's part of the furniture and out he's the life of the party, and they like him for who he is. Thus the "long way home."

    He's incapable of forming more solid relationships with women because of his wife; "you never see what you want to see...playing to the gallery."

    This is sort of an optimistic way of looking at the song, admittedly; he might simply FEEL like he's the life of the party and that he's capable of going out there and beginning new relationships. Thus his "wife thinks he's losing his sanity." However, it's possible the wife just doesn't know him the way that the nightlife people do.

    Either way, he apparently feels better away from home than he does at home.
    Flag aaronw23on December 18, 2012   Link
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    My Interpretation:Walking back miles during the night from that 6th Form end-of-run (opera) party where I finally got really close to my best friend in class, Paula T, the beautiful star of the show, and the only reason I'd taken a part ! I wanted to make that walk last forever.
    You can only ever have one first love, and for just a few hours of my life I had felt unity with mine.
    And then the pain when she decided not to split with her existing boyfriend ... and so for different reasons I'm taking the long way home even now...
    Flag IntenseMeon November 16, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:It occured to me that since Roger was an ultra talented mooshishan with a very high voice that maybe this recurring isolation theme he has often written about could be from his own youth. Or childhood. But I really dont know anything about his life so I could be totally wrong.
    Flag worduseron May 11, 2012   Link
  • +2
    General Comment:The meaning is simple... Home is inside you. Don't turn to others or drugs or material things to find yourself, your identity, your happiness. Your true self can only be found by you within you.
    Flag justme1969on February 18, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:My love told me that he used to listen to this as a kid,he could identify with the lyrics because things were not good at home for him when he was a kid. :(
    I always liked it's melancholy tone
    Flag redshiftdazzleron December 09, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:It is really a great sad song of life. To understand this song just substitude Long with Wrong. Take the long way home is realy take the wrong way home. He married the wrong woman when everyone is telling him he is joke because she is just using him. As he grows he realized she does not love him anymore so he takes a trip to the city lights( Cheap thrills) to get away. He sees himself stuck and can't change things. He wants to go back to the days he had fun with her and how she adored him and made love to him. Home is what the wife make for you. The moral of the story here is if you are shallow in seeking love and physical satisfaction, don't blame anyone but yourself. Life and love are very deep and it is important to have depth in a realationship.
    Flag mfarison November 15, 2011   Link
  • +1
    General Comment:If you really think about this song, who can't relate to it? Good ass song. We all want to feel important but should appreciate what we have...
    Flag Nowandneveron November 10, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:To me his song is about an married goodlooking actor 30s or 40s age range who never made it big. He's a joke to his wife and neighbors, but he's applauded and a success Romeo type at the theater that he acts in at night. He take the long way home because he wants to avoid going home to his miserable reality that's not applauded..his low income life.
    Flag Yepprdon July 11, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:whatever Roger Hodgson may think about his own song (there are nuances, obviously...and to an extent, he concedes this). The public/personal life angle: is it a red herring?

    Roger may disagree, but artists don't always recognize all that they've said. when Paul McCartney first began playing "Yesterday" to his bandmates, the lyrics were:

    Scrambled eggs
    Oh my baby how I love your legs

    ...which is a bad example; it just means he got the music before he got the lyrics.

    But it's also a good example. because it took decades for Paul to realize the song wasn't about a jilted lover; it was about grief for his mother's passing.

    we appear to have multiple interpretations which contradict each other. how to resolve this? early in the song, we learn important things, about self-deception:

    So you think you're a Romeo
    playing a part in a picture show

    and:

    ...there are times that you feel you're part of the scenery
    All the greenery is comin' down, boy

    But these details might easily be forgotten, later, as the portrait grows more complex.

    Our narrator's life is one of "quite desperation," regarded as pathetic by others around him. a Walter Mitty type? he's not a famous and beloved performer; he only imagines this, because it gives him solace and escape. But he never had the time (or courage) to pursue his dreams.

    Overly simplified analysis? probably.
    Flag foreverdroneon December 31, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:"But there are times that you feel you're part of the scenery
    all the greenery is comin' down, boy....
    And take the long way
    Take the long way home"
    Flag differentfeatherson September 26, 2010   Link

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