ten times removed
i forget about where it all began
bastard son of a bastard son of
a wild eyed child of the sun
and right as rain, i'm not the same but
i feel the same, i feel nothing
holding back the fool again
holding back the fool pretends
i forget to forget nothing is important
holding back the fool again
i sensed my loss
before i even learned to talk
and i remember my birthdays
empty party afternoons won't come back
holding back the fool again
holding back the fool pretends
i forget to forget nothing is important
holding back the fool again
i forget to forget me
i forget to forget you see
nothing is important to me
i knew my loss
before i even learned to speak
and all along, i knew it was wrong
but i played along, with my birthday song
holding back the fool again
holding back the fool pretends
i forget to forget nothing is important
holding back the fool again



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    Lyric Correction:The Lyrics to this is not Bastard son of a Bastard son It is Baster Side of a Bastard side.....
    Flag TherealBillyCorganon January 23, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:isnt it weird that this song is called 'to forgive', yet he never actually says that.

    the title made me think he was saying 'to forgive' during the chorus, then i checked out the lyrics and its clearly "i forget to forget".

    and that line is him telling himself he needs to forget sometimes, stop worrying about the past, leave those emotions behind, because life is your playground, its not important in the grand scheme of things.
    Flag dcison October 08, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:The other commenters are definitely right about how it is about a child already knowing his life was doomed to be bad... and I am so interested in the comment DSLewis left about Billy Corgan's childhood memory that led to this song.

    What I always thought it was about, when I first listened to it, though, was a child realizing that he was going to die, the same way everyone born is going to die. I thought the bad thing he inherited from his family (and from all humans) was mortality. A very depressing view, I know.

    I remember listening to this song and "Galapogos" from the same album alone in my room in a beach house my family rented, and I don't know if I have ever felt so much from music as I did right then.
    Flag Emi-chanon April 10, 2011   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:This song is about the outcasts, the nobodies, the ones everyone at school thought was a loser.

    Some of us are born broken.
    Flag weenerboyon July 14, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:i think this song is about a man who is a bastard son, and this man also had a bastard son and this bastard son got killed or died and now he feels guilty for not protecting him... also maybe the kid died because he did something he didnt knew it would kill him, like a fool, he forgot to hold back the fool...
    Flag silverushon November 06, 2009   Link
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    Memory:favorite song, but i usually say thirty-three and keep this one to myself.

    the heart of this song is a specific memory of billy corgan being beaten/physically abused as kid and then having to go out an act normal at a (his?) birthday party. i remember reading a series of online posts he did around 2005 and most of them seemed to totally give away a song's origin. "writing is therapy" as one of my creative writing high school teacher would say. i think it was on myspace, but the posts aren't there anymore, sadly. peace to all that can relate to this powerful-beautiful song.
    Flag DSLewison October 02, 2009   Link
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    My Opinion:To Forgive hits home for alot of young people. ( or older people who recall these feelings and emotions during their youth.) I think Billy had a cord he used to describe his mother. It's used as the chorus of To Forgive. Then is resurrected and slightly spead as the opening of the song Tear. Which is a medaphor fo rhis mother's sickness and passing. It's the soundtrack of his life so to speak. So listen to Tear first ( since it's faster as the opening to that song.) Then listen to the choorus of To Forgive. He's a genius. But then again, most tormented souls are...
    Flag GezisKryston February 16, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:This is probably one of my top Pumpkins songs, they are the greatest band ever
    Flag Uniton March 22, 2008   Link
  • +1
    General Comment:ill always be a dreamer
    Flag blankets_stareon January 19, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:i rode my bike to the post office one day last year to mail my friend a letter for her birthday, as i was riding back i listened to this song, and it made me wonder sometimes why i dont try harder with my friendships, my friendship with that girl in particular. when i heard the line "holding back the fool again" it made me think of what a jerk i can be. the feeling i got from this song was sometimes everything works out better if you just play along, let it slide when mistakes are made, and dont try to pick everything apart intellectually. when he says "nothing is important to me" it makes me think of a couple of my close friends, and how nothing feels important to me unless they are a part of it. i know this song has nothing to do with my post, but for me it means something else, just the feeling of being able to still love each other in this hateful world, in spite of our shortcomings.
    Flag blankets_stareon January 19, 2008   Link

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