I've become impossible
Holding on to when
When everything seemed to matter more
The two of us (all used)
All used and beaten up
Watching fate as it flows
Down the path we have chose

You and me
We're in this together now
None of them can stop us now
We will make it through somehow
You and me
If the world should break in two
Until the very end of me
Until the very end of you

Awake to the sound as they peel apart the skin
They pick and they pull
Trying to get their fingers in
Well, they've got to kill what we found
Well, they've got to hate what they fear
Well, they've got to make it go away
Well, they've got to make it disappear

The farther I fall I'm beside you
As lost as I get I will find you
The deeper the wound I'm inside you
For ever and ever I'm a part of

You and me
We're in this together now
None of them can stop us now
We will make it through somehow
You and me
If the world should break in two
Until the very end of me
Until the very end of you

All that we were is gone, we have to hold on
All that we were is gone, we have to hold on
When all our hope is gone, we have to hold on
All that we were is gone, but we can hold on

You and me
We're in this together now
None of them can stop us now
We will make it through somehow
You and me
Even after everything
You're the queen and I'm the king
Nothing else means anything


Lyrics submitted by gasmask, edited by Mellow_Harsher, Echoplexia

We're In This Together Lyrics as written by Trent Reznor

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  • +8
    General Comment

    To me, this song portrays a relationship that has undergone the many hardships of jealousy and envy as well as others' faithlessness in something that was obvioulsy strong enough to transcend over these complications. The part I admire the most is:

    "awake to the sound as they peel apart the skin they pick and they pull trying to get their fingers in

    well they've got to kill what we found well they've got to hate what they fear well they've got to make it go away well they've got to make it disappear

    the farther i fall i'm beside you as lost as i get i will find you the deeper the wound i'm inside you for ever and ever i am a part of..."

    This is because he describes how he feel s about thir relationship without explaining it clearly. In my mind, that takes much talent.

    brzlcutieon April 24, 2002   Link
  • +7
    General Comment

    Trent Reznor has repeatedly stated that this is NOT a positive song in any way. It's actually about heroin addiction, which is why some of the comments here are so funny.

    "It's about me and my boyfriend! It describes our relationship exactly!" - Yeah, that's healthy!

    The Knaveon August 07, 2005   Link
  • +3
    General Comment

    I agree with the whole relationship thing... but to me, it sounds like total abandonment at the end. A failed relationship... and not just love, any kind of relationship...

    eeyore1883on September 11, 2002   Link
  • +3
    General Comment

    i always thought this song was about making yourself content. i mean the video potrayed a hundred trent reznors so i came to the conclusion that it was about making yourself happy and that in the end yourself is what you have, no matter all the inflictions you face.

    complicationon March 20, 2003   Link
  • +3
    General Comment

    You guys are all very close. It's a love song and a statement of commitment to his grandmother, Clara. As i stated in my comments on TDTWWA, The Frail, and The Wretched, this song is about his grandmother's illness and death. This song is about the point of strength where Trent felt that he and his grandmother could overcome her illness by faith, hope, and love. The song just oozes the power and strength that comes from love. The progression from the power of this song into the superhuman "i won't let you fall apart" in track 6, The Fragile, seems very natural. On to The Fragile...

    zambaion April 16, 2005   Link
  • +2
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    this song reminds me of a relationship. they've grown apart and need to let go but he doesnt want to, he wants to past to be teh present: all that we were is gone we have to hold all that we were is gone we have to hold when all our hope is gone we have to hold all that we were is gone but we can hold on

    it's beautiful

    Mekylon October 17, 2002   Link
  • +2
    General Comment

    Kurt Loder of MTV once asked Trent if the "The Fragile" and "We're In This Together" tracks were love songs. His responce?

    "There was a tragedy involved in all of them. I just read some early reviews that We're In This Together was unusually positive and I didn't write it thinking it was very positive. So I made a video that is very, very ugly to make sure no one gets the wrong idea."

    BlackDahliaon January 25, 2006   Link
  • +2
    Song Meaning

    Trent said in an interview, which I can't find right now, that it isn't a love song, it's him clinging to someone, not letting them go.

    Echoplexiaon December 23, 2012   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    I agree with the whole relationship thing... but to me, it sounds like total abandonment at the end. A failed relationship... and not just love, any kind of relationship...

    eeyore1883on September 11, 2002   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    This song, to me, is about when you're in a relationship that everybody is trying to destroy. Everybody is trying to get their hands on it and fuck up what you have. I love this song.

    Aerionon April 07, 2003   Link

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