I watched you change
Into a fly
I looked away
You were on fire

I watched a change in you
It's like you never had wings
And you feel so alive
I've watched you change

I took you home
Set you on the glass
I pulled off your wings
Then I laughed

I watched a change in you
It's like you never had wings
Now you feel so alive
I watched you change

It's like you never had . . .
Ah, ah, ah, ah [6x]

I look at the cross
And I look away
Give you the gun
Blow me away

I watched a change in you
It's like you never had wings
Now you feel so alive
I've watched you change

And you feel alive
You feel alive [2x]

I've watched you change
It's like you never had . . .

Ah, ah, ah, ah [6x]
You change [3x]



Lyrics submitted by sawg, edited by Mellow_Harsher

Track duration: 05:00


Change (In the House of Flies) song meanings
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    My Interpretation:I always thought that it was about the sadistic pleasure of ruining a person emotionally, just for the fun of it, because you can.

    But in the light of recent events in my life, I feel that this is about the narrator fighting with himself.

    It's about metamorphosis, from the larvae to the winged stage, from crawling on the ground to flying in the sky. Or moving forward in life, becoming a better person.

    But there's this part of you, the self-destructive one (the narrator) -afraid of what might be- that mocks the change and tries to bring you back to your old habits, to the ground.

    In the end, you accept the transformation and blow the old you away.
    Flag Edenferon May 11, 2013   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:It's about defloration.
    Flag bsantanderon May 04, 2013   Link
  • -2
    General Comment:Y'all seem to need help with this one, so please allow a quiet, delicate, Southern Belle to assist. (I'm about ready to pee my pants with that one:). Anyway, here goes. Let's hope it's magical:

    1st & 2nd stanza: She was there, but like a fly she buzzed away. On fire would mean she was ALIVE. She was hot like fire and taken to the sky! Flies are fast.

    3rd stanza: He clipped her wings, so to speak (and so he thought). He admired her and studied her while she was his. Without wings, she could belong to him and him only.

    4th & 5th stanza: Similar to the first two

    Remaining stanzas: He sounds surprised that she flew away after he felt he had disabled her emotionally, or physically, or spiritually, whatever.

    Rather simple song, but then again many of Rihanna's don't require brain surgery. She's the princess of pop. I just wish I didn't like her voice as much as I do.
    Flag IllToast2Thaton February 17, 2013   Link
  • -1
    Song Meaning:He got a girl into drugs and sex; he ruined her, and he turned a beautiful person into shit. He is regretful for what he's done, and now she's a whore who parties. That is my interpretation; the sick sound in the music suggests disgust along with the pain in his voice; the party scene with many girls laying around and looking rather sad and empty helps me conclude this. Another meaning could be he has watched his friend fuck up her life, and he uses her because she is vulnerable.
    Flag SMBAGWon February 06, 2013   Link
  • +1
    My Opinion:Not really sure what or who the artist is referencing in the song, but he makes it very clear it's about change, and because of how dark the song is, change for the worse.

    In my opinion, I think this song is more about the narrator than a victim of the narrator (whether it be a virgin girl or friend-turned-junky or whatever.) I think the narrator is suggesting he is changing into something less than human (a fly, something everyone despises, swats at and kills without remorse.) I think the narrator feels he is somewhat messed up in the head, twisted and sinister: in the verse that starts with "I took you home..." I imagine the narrator capturing a bug outside (like a fly or a beetle) taking it home, placing it on a petri dish ("set you on the glass") and using tweezers to pull its wings apart underneath a microscope. Which he finds humorous.

    It's kind of a sickening image but it fits perfectly with the tone of the song. I love the eerie instrumental that plays after the verses "you were on fire" and "then I laughed".) Unlike a lot of other interpretations, I don't necessarily agree that the narrator feels guilty about what's happening. I think he's accepting it; it's thrilling, it makes him "feel so alive". Which is the scary part. He's messed up, and not only does he know it, but he's okay with it (maybe even likes it)... "so, hell, blow me away."
    Flag Noemotionon January 26, 2013   Link
  • -2
    My Interpretation:Seems pretty basic to me. Its about screwing some girl or the type of girl that might've been out of his(chino's etc.) league back in the day before he was in a (successful especially) band.The kind of girl people put on a pedestal because she's so attractive and or pure/popular.Sex with this girl is a particular kind of conquest but not all that surprising human nature considered-- thats why its a "house" of flies. I think its almost not a transformation but a fading of a glamour, the revelation of a rotten core that had to be there all along for the girl to succomb so easily just because this dudes in a band or whatever superficial thing that changed her mind about him. The fly imagery reminds me of the break down of a corpse the maggots that grow in it and "mature" into flies..probably blowflies specifically..
    At first I wondered, why the display of guilt in the line "give you the gun/blow me away" but then I realized its probably referencing fellacio. As a matter of fact the original lyrics were "give you the lungs" (Deftonesworld.com) ..so yeah. There was no guilt.
    The line "now you feel so alive" kinda makes me think of, again, the pedestal, this girl having had almost mythic proportions in this guys mind or just in her general reputation. She wasn't seen as human before, she was superhuman "perfect" like things that aren't real, staues,dolls.Now she has been reduced to "alive"-ness. Thats what sex does and that should be a good thing but in this particular case its kinda not. Not for the girl.
    --Oh another thing this reminded me of was how this could be referencing not just a particular girl or type of girl but just conquering women in general by getting them into bed especially if theyre hard-to-get or whatever. Theres the thrill of the chase and then theres the taking of this creature home and the setting of them "on the glass" the pulling off of the wings, etcetera. The reality. The "I looked away/ you were on fire" line makes me think of the whole phenomena of people wanting what they can't have... its like, maybe it wasn't about this dude being in a band, maybe all he had to do was pull the old "act like you don't want her" deal to get her "on fire".
    Flag plastikbluon December 14, 2012   Link
  • +1
    Song Meaning:But if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a large millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.

    Whoever or whatever is tempting you these days, do not worry or enjoy reponsibly :) Song is about the truth always winning in the end.
    Flagged paveu27on June 10, 2012   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:I can honestly say this happened to me.
    Its about a guy who isn't innocent and meets this girl. She's young and happy and he takes her home. He gets this girl to sleep with him and strips her of her innocence (wings). The girl also finds herself hard to get away from him (its like you never had wings) because she's attached. He's an asshole to her and it damages her, after he realizes what he's done (i look at the cross then i look away) he literally wants to give her the gun so that she can blow him away.
    Flag rockerchick32on May 18, 2012   Link
  • +2
    My Interpretation:A lot of people have told me a lot of different meanings.. But what I always took away from this song, was that it's about changing someone for the worst, and feeling so guilty you want to die.

    For example, let say you had a drug habit, but never got yourself into a bad situation, just recreation and that it. But you turned someone onto this drug, and they turned into a major junky. "I watched you change into a fly" To me is like "I watched you become this filthy creature", and "it's like you never had wings", Maybe it's like "i used to see you as an angle, now I see you as a fly". Tearing off the wings, making this person this broken, damaged creature. And all you have left if your guilt for letting this happen to someone.

    That's what I took from this.
    Flagged thedude22on May 10, 2012   Link
  • 0
    My Interpretation:I just love the song regardless of its meaning. Now for my spin on the song:

    I watched you change into a fly
    The girl he once knew has matured into someone unrecognizable to him; he doesn't like it
    I looked away, you were on fire
    She is proud and assertive of the new her, and feels on top of the world
    I watched a change in you, it's like you never had wings
    He will not accept nor allow the change in her, and wants her as she was

    And you feel so alive, I've watched you change
    He scorns the new her and her attitude

    I took you home, set you on the glass
    He tells her he can see through her, and that she is still just a maggot
    I pulled off your wings, then I laughed
    He physically and emotionally reduces her to nothing by mocking her of her delusional beliefs
    I watched a change in you, it's like you never had words
    She is too wounded to speak and has nothing to say; he's now happy believing she is as she was

    Now you feel so alive, I watched you change; It's like you never had...
    He puts her fire out, and watches her change back to before she had wings, lying to himself that she is happier now when she is crushed

    I look at the cross, and I look away
    His conscience makes him realize too late he was wrong in what he did
    Give you the gun, blow me away
    He tries to show penitence by surrendering to her and not fighting any retribution
    I watched a change in you, it's like you never had words
    Now recovered by her ordeal, she chooses not to say a thing

    Now you feel so alive, I've watched you change; It's like you never had...
    She feels alive now because she confidently moves on with her life, "like you never had... me"
    Flag Kalfuon May 02, 2012   Link

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