Hey boy, take a look at me
Let me dirty up your mind
I'll strip away your hard veneer
And see what I can find

The queerest of the queer
The strangest of the strange
The coldest of the cool
The lamest of the lame
The numbest of the dumb
I hate to see you here
You choke behind a smile
A fake behind the fear
The queerest of the queer

This is what he pays me for
I'll show you how it's done
You learn to love the pain you feel
Like father like son

The queerest of the queer
Hide inside your head
The blindest of the blind
The deadest of the dead
You're hungry 'cause you starve
While holding back the tears
Choking on your smile
A fake behind the fear
The queerest of the queer

I know what's good for you, you can touch me if you want
I know you're dying to, you can touch me if you want
I know what's good for you, you can touch me if you want
But you can't stop

The queerest of the queer
The strangest of the strange
The coldest of the cool
The lamest of the lame
The numbest of the dumb
I hate to see you here
You choke behind a smile
A fake behind the fear
The queerest of the queer
The strangest of the strange
The coldest of the cool
You're nothing special here
A fake behind the fear
The queerest of the queer

I know what's good for you I know you're dying to
I know what's good for you
I bet you're dying to
You can touch me if you want
You can touch me if you want
You can touch me
You can touch me
But you can't stop


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Queer Lyrics as written by Shirley Ann Manson Douglas Elwin Erickson

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    i always thought it was a story about a father who won't accept that his son is queer.. he takes him to a prostitute to show him how it's done and stuff. and that this story was used by example. that it really is about people who won't accept other people for who they are.. and try to turn them into something else.. like.. take it a bit literally but not really hehe.. oh well

    insectkinon August 11, 2002   Link
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    I miss the songs from Garbage (like this one) that had more of a point and deeper meaning. I mean, sure, all their songs have meanings, but this ones was deep somewhat. When this song was first out, it was still very much in to refer to people as queer, gay, fag as insults and reasons to hate others, and I think this had a great message. I'm very sure it's being sarcastic, also, so don't take it literally. This was a bit of a run on sentence, yes? Sorry..

    skapunkemoon May 11, 2002   Link
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    I always found this song a great one to have sex to.

    glimpseon May 14, 2002   Link
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    insectkin- i agree with you. "holding back the tears" makes me think of the queer boy who hates his father for actions....and doesn't want 2 sleep with the prostitute...but maybe thinks that his father will think even less of him if he cries. also i think that the father is denying his own gay feelings- "you learn to love the pain you feel, like father like son" and wants the son to be a repressed closet like him.

    ladyboygrrlon August 30, 2002   Link
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    insectkin- i agree with you. "holding back the tears" makes me think of the queer boy who hates his father for actions....and doesn't want 2 sleep with the prostitute...but maybe thinks that his father will think even less of him if he cries. also i think that the father is denying his own gay feelings- "you learn to love the pain you feel, like father like son" and wants the son to be a repressed closet like him.

    ladyboygrrlon August 30, 2002   Link
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    a big pat on the back for everyone making the gay-boy-goes-to-hooker connection. i agree with this meaning. i also could see how the song would apply to a painfully shy, unexperienced lad.

    broken_wingson September 11, 2002   Link
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    To me it means that men shouldn't think of themselves, as better beings, than feemales, or take themselves so seriously, not showing their feelings, and trying to be cool. We live in a male dominated society. Where it's easier to be a man. I think she confronts that. I think she says that everybody is strange, and has their weaknesses. Regardless of gender.

    starfaeryon March 03, 2005   Link
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    Even being queer myself I always took it to have an S&M tone - "This is what he pays me for I'll show you how it's done You learn to love the pain you feel Like father, like son"

    The whole "You can touch me if you want" bit, etc.

    I surely can't be the only one to think that?

    glossophiliaon July 07, 2005   Link
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    I was thinking that this song is about a guy who is very stale, as in just serious (maybe cocky as well, thinking he can't be broken, because of the "You choke behind a smile / A fake behind the fear" line), and doesn't want/care for any kind of fun or pleasure... or maybe he is cocky, as in thinking that any kind of sex bores him. He is considered queer/strange because of this, and so someone decides to hire a hooker for him. The hooker already knows that he is one of "those" types, from the line "I hate to see you here". And maybe it's something that runs in his family, because it was the same situation for his father.

    I think this is somewhat similar to what starfaery was suggesting...

    The_Dragon_And_Emuon April 24, 2006   Link
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    The whole meaning, I'm not sure, but I think at least part of it means that strange is in the eye of the beholder.

    By saying: "The queerest of the queer Hide inside your head" It's saying that the defention of weird or "queer" is something different to everyone.

    moonUNIT-on January 28, 2007   Link

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