The faster we're falling
We're stopping and stalling
We're running in circles again
Just as things were looking up
You said it wasn't good enough
But still we're trying one more time

Maybe we're just trying to hard
When really it's closer than it is too far

'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Up above in my head, instead of going under
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Up above in my head, instead of going under
'Stead of going under

Seems like each time
I'm with you I loose my mind
Because I'm bending over backwards to relate
It's one thing to complain
But when you're driving me insane
Well then I think it's time that we took a break

Maybe we're just trying to hard
When really it's closer than it is too far

'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Up above in my head, instead of going under
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Up above in my head, instead of going under
'Stead of going under
'Stead of going under
'Stead of going under

I can't sit back and wonder why
It took so long for this to die
And I hate it when you fake it
You can't hide it you might as well embrace it
So believe me it's not easy
It seems that something's telling me

I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Up above in my head, instead of going under
'Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep
Up above in my head, instead of going under
Stead of going under

Instead of going under again
Instead of going under
'Stead of going under again
'Stead of going under again
'Stead of going under again


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In Too Deep Lyrics as written by Greig Andrew Nori Deryck Whibley

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  • +6
    General Comment

    it's a song about relationships...they've been together for a long time so they don't want to leave each other even though they know that they've grown apart

    kimclarineton January 06, 2002   Link
  • +5
    General Comment

    Really, guys? It's about penises.

    RuiGSilvaon February 27, 2014   Link
  • +2
    General Comment

    "I love the video for this song...it's really cute! A lotta ppl make fun of me cuz i love Sum 41 and i'm considered a "prep" or whatever, but oh well. Oh ya... and I think Deryck's really cute. "

    It's fucking people like you that ruin punk for the rest of us. you only like a band because they are cute or you saw their music video on fucking gay MTV. do you ever pay attention to the music or do you just buy all the front row tickets in the off chance that the band might touch you? get a fucking life.

    Hot_Karlon April 18, 2002   Link
  • +2
    My Interpretation

    The lyrics of "In Too Deep" by Sum 41 are about a relationship that is falling apart; they convey a sense of frustration, disappointment, and the struggle to hold on to a relationship that is failing.

    The lyrics express the idea that the singer and their partner are "running in circles" and "stopping and stalling" as they try to make the relationship work.

    "Just as things were looking up, you said it wasn't good enough" suggests that the singer was optimistic about the relationship, but their partner's dissatisfaction is causing the relationship to deteriorate.

    The lyrics also express the idea that the singer is trying too hard to make the relationship work and that they are "in too deep" emotionally.

    "Maybe we're just trying too hard / When really, it's closer than it is too far" the relationship is closer to success than they realize but they're still trying too hard.

    Zenarcheron February 08, 2023   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    i love this. ive neva fort bout it like that b4. i dont really fink bout the lyrics of songs very much - i will now!!!!

    demon_babeon January 28, 2002   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    dave is hott man! :) hehe. i love sum41! punk rock music totally rules. this song kicks ass :)

    ArReDzon March 30, 2002   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    .... what the hell, britrulz? What the fuck does Britney Spears have to do with this? Britney SUCKS by the way...

    Anyways... This song's about miscommunication in a relationship, being confused, over-thinking it, and trying to move on..

    narsilon April 17, 2002   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    I know punk music IS for everyone but i think that sometimes punks DO get pissed cos teenyboppers begin liking their music, and one of the reasons are 'they're cute!' and shit like that. It IS annoying, but I really don't care...it does annoy me to see poser teenies liking gc, blink or sum 41 together with nsync.

    this song kicks ass, btw.

    maddenon April 18, 2002   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    i jsut get really pissed when i see or hear comments like that, i don't mind people liking punk, but it's people that like it soley because the band is "cute" or "hot" that get on my nerves.

    Hot_Karlon April 19, 2002   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    and to add, it also pisses me off when i like a band for a long time, their single comes out, they play it on MTV, and everyone all of a sudden loves the band, but thats the only song they know. that is all. :)

    Hot_Karlon April 19, 2002   Link

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