Story of a man,
Who decided not to breathe.
Turned red, purple, then blue.
Colorful indeed.
No matter how his friends begged,
Well, he would not concede,
And now he's dead.
You see, cause everybody knows,
You got to breathe.

But, oh God,
Under the weight of life,
Things seem brighter on the other side...
Lighter on the other side...

Another one: See this monkey sitting on a tree,
One day, decided to climb down,
And run off to the city.
Look at him now, Tired and drunk
And living on the street.
As good as dead.
You see, a monkey should know,
Stay up your tree.

But, oh God,
Under the weight of life,
Things seem brighter on the other side.
Oh, God,
But under the weight of life,
Things seem much brighter on the other side.

No way, no way, no way.... out... of here...

Another one: A big eyed fish,
Yeah, swimming in the sea,
Oh, how he dreamed.
He wants to be a bird,
Swooping, diving through the breeze.
One day, he caught a big blue wave,
Up onto the beach,
And now he's dead.
You see, a fish's dream,
Should stay in the sea.

But, oh God,
Under the weight of life,
Things seem brighter on the other side.

No way... no way...no way...out... of here...

No way out of life.



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    General Comment:It's about the grass is greener on the other side, and being happy with who you are and what you have.
    Flag Okstadon August 13, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:Ok, everyone listen up... The song is about him. If you know the album, the song was first featured on The Lillywhite Sessions, recorded in the summer of 1999. Throughout the entire making of the album, which was recorded at a house they purchased in NC, the rest of the band just "wasnt feeling it" and the album was abandoned unfinished (but I'm sure a bunch of you knew that). All of the songs recorded during that original summer were held and weren't actually finished and re-recorded until Busted Stuff (name says it all, we'll get to that later).
    Dave was under an unthinkable amount of stress as he felt that he wouldn't be able to put out anything as big as his last 3 albums (Crash, Under the Table, Before... Streets) and he felt that he had become too big and now he was just going to disappoint his fans, media, the label... everyone. He got immensely involved in alcohol throughout the summer, and a lot of his songs were written while battling this stress.
    Ok, so the song...
    He is the man who decided not to breathe. Despite what everyone was telling him (friends telling him to breathe) he felt he "didn't listen" and just continued down his path of destruction.
    He is the monkey who should have stayed in his tree, but he decided to venture out into the big time, and now he is WELL in over his head (his stress and depression talking). he felt he should have "stayed in his tree" and now he's "as good as dead".
    He is the fish for the same reasons...
    "Things seem much brighter on the other side" "No way out of here"... it's all about him going from a bar musician to the big time. He thought it was a good idea at first, but it ended up getting to him in the end.
    Now finally, Busted Stuff... the title... When it was re-recorded, it was called Busted Stuff because of the abandoning of the original album (which turned into Lillywhite). It was titled Busted Stuff both for the fact that it was never finished and abandoned mid project and also for his depression and alcoholism and what he was going through at the time... he was busted up.

    if you have any other questions, let me know... this is all true, it's not speculation, as much as some of you may disagree.
    Flag hotelguy26on August 08, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:Has anyone ever realized that this song is almost the opposite of The Best Of Whats Around from Under The Table And Dreaming? In BOWA Dave states "and if you hold on tight to what you think is your thing you may find you're missing all the rest" meaning that taking chances is a good idea because if you don't you may end up missing something really great, but in Big Eyed Fish Dave clearly shows that taking chances isn't always a great idea. Interesting...
    Flag DMBgreystreeton June 17, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:... and the only reason why I do believe there is a god is because I just realized there's no toilet paper; he's a sneaky one isn't he Me2!
    Flag spin54on June 01, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:... and if I had read Me2's comments I would have also included a "shut the hell up" you self righteous bible toting pain in the a$$! A guy writes a song about three "people" with every day faults and uses their experiences to convey a message... gee, that sounds like a parable to me? The very method in which the bible teaches it's lessons. But it can't be just a lesson, nope a$$holes like you need to find religion in it all... can't it just be about life? I bet you see Christ in your mashed-potatoes bi-weekly don't you.

    Hey, Me2 I just finished taking a dump (yes I squat and surf, and as I'm sure is apparent, this was a relatively long one) if I take a picture and email it to you, can you tell me if you see the virgin mary?
    Flag spin54on June 01, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:... and if I had bothered to read all the comments I would have seen the one right before mine; which is exactly what I just said.
    Flag spin54on June 01, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:(1) Personally I think the Lilly White version was 1,000 times better than the Busted Stuff version... perfect example of fixing something 'til it's broke.

    (2) Just wanted to add that everyone is on point with the whole change thing, but (unless I missed a comment) is completely missing the point. I refuse to think that someone as insightful as Dave Mathews would for a second suggest that change, or ambition are things that are pitfalls. While many people have suggested that ambition can be a pitfall, the comments all seem to glaze over the most important line in the chorus:

    "but oh God, under the weight of life, things seem much brighter on the other side."

    The song is not criticizing change or striving to make a change in your life. In fact, I think if you asked Dave whether or not he would condone taking ambitious risks, the answer would be an unequivocal yes. What it does criticize is the outright failure to recognize the beauty in what we have, because we chase some elusive concept of ideal that, by definition, is unattainable. The fish fails to see the beauty in the sea around him, so he runs off because life on land seems like it is so much better, and dies for it. The monkey too. The man is different, the man is the stubborn user, who fails to see the folly in his action. Instead of taking from this song the idea that changing your circumstance and striving to move on in life is wrong, I would take from it the message to stop, and "take a deep breath" and absorb the world around you for the beauty that it is. Enjoy the fact that you are a fish and revel in the fact that you can ride the currents in the sea, be proud of the fact that you are a monkey and can swing through the trees, and recognize when your stubborn faults put you and others around at risk.
    Flag spin54on June 01, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:It's not so much a song about regret as about respecting one's limitations and learning to be happy with who you are. All the while the song acknowledges that we are all flawed dreamers and we need to accept that about ourselves too. Sometimes we lose, sometimes we win. And it's all good, because it has to be, because there is no way out of life.
    Flag altbobon May 21, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:same theological slant.. 3 environments. the jungle floor, the trees, and the city.
    the monkey representing the mammals desiring to live the life in the next level of ascension..ie the city.
    the story represents the sovereignty of God over his creation.. the story of the image of man. man is created a spirit in heaven before time began in perfection. he represents his position in society inwhich God has determined him to fulfill. each in turn they are placed in human bodies. live out our life and work out our salvation in the prespective order in which we are originally created to fulfill. we are all saved. but we dont know our fate until it is unveiled. and it aint over until its over.
    sometimes we discover we are the tail when we think were the head..and there is no way out of this plan!. it was predetermined by our sovereign creator to be fulfilled in its entirety.

    its called fate.
    Flag Me2on August 16, 2007   Link
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    General Comment:yet another song with theological roots.

    3 groups of peoples. symbolized as birds, fish, and mammals. the word of God states three ages wheras people are saved and enter into the kingdom of God.

    the birds represented as the firstfruits of christ., or the head or mind of christ. the second group are mammals represent the body of christ that populate the city of new jerusalem. and the third group as the fish representing the nations of the world which come to the new jerusalem to celebrate in the new jerusalem.
    today the body or those religious types desiring to be saved and regenerated scream out of their proper order of being saved. they desire to receive knowledge of God only to fail and return back to orthodox ways in playing religon. their not the firstfruits or the birds which are being saved today.
    the fish..well their the other religions and whomever else who are not interested in Gods business today. they will be saved after the body in the third age.
    the birds, the mammals , and the fish.
    Flag Me2on August 16, 2007   Link

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