In regards to the meaning of this song:
Before a live performance on the EP Five Stories Falling, Geoff states “It’s about the last time I went to visit my grandmother in Columbus, and I saw that she was dying and it was the last time I was going to see her. It is about realizing how young you are, but how quickly you can go.”
That’s the thing about Geoff and his sublime poetry, you think it’s about one thing, but really it’s about something entirely different. But the lyrics are still universal and omnipresent, ubiquitous, even. So relatable. That’s one thing I love about this band. I also love their live performances, raw energy and Geoff’s beautiful, imperfectly perfect vocals. His voice soothes my aching soul.
In the middle of the night I was sleeping sitting up
When a doctor came to tell me, "Enough is enough"
He brought me out into the hall (I could have sworn it was haunted)
And told me something that I didn't know that I wanted to hear
That there was nothing that I could do to save you
The choir's going to sing, and this thing is going to kill you
Something in my throat made my next words shake
And something in the wires made the lightbulbs break
There was glass inside my feet and raining down from the ceiling
It opened up the scars that had just finished healing
It tore apart the canyon running down your femur
(I thought that it was beautiful, it made me a believer)
And as it opened I could hear you howling from your room
But I hid out in the hall until the hurricane blew
When I reappeared and tried to give you something for the pain
You came to hating me again and just sang your refrain
You had a new dream, it was more like a nightmare
You were just a little kid, and they cut your hair
Then they stuck you in machines, you came so close to dying
They should have listened, they thought that you were lying
Daddy was an asshole, he fucked you up
Built the gears in your head, now he greases them up
And no one paid attention when you just stopped eating
"Eighty-seven pounds!" and this all bears repeating
Tell me when you think that we became so unhappy
Wearing silver rings with nobody clapping
When we moved here together we were so disappointed
Sleeping out of tune with our dreams disjointed
It killed me to see you getting always rejected
But I didn't mind the things you threw, the phones I deflected
I didn't mind you blaming me for your mistakes
I just held you in the door-frame through all of the earthquakes
But you packed up your clothes in that bag every night
And I would try to grab your ankles (what a pitiful sight)
But after over a year, I stopped trying to stop you
From stomping out that door
Coming back like you always do
Well no one's going to fix it for us, no one can
You say that, "No one's going to listen, and no one understands"
So there's no open doors and there's no way to get through
There's no other witnesses, just us two
There's two people living in one small room
From your two half-families tearing at you
Two ways to tell the story (no one worries)
Two silver rings on our fingers in a hurry
Two people talking inside your brain
Two people believing that I'm the one to blame
Two different voices coming out of your mouth
While I'm too cold to care and too sick to shout
You had a new dream, it was more like a nightmare
You were just a little kid, and they cut your hair
Then they stuck you in machines, you came so close to dying
They should have listened, they thought that you were lying
Daddy was an asshole, he fucked you up
Built the gears in your head, now he greases them up
And no one paid attention when you just stopped eating
"Eighty-seven pounds!" and this all bears repeating
When a doctor came to tell me, "Enough is enough"
He brought me out into the hall (I could have sworn it was haunted)
And told me something that I didn't know that I wanted to hear
That there was nothing that I could do to save you
The choir's going to sing, and this thing is going to kill you
Something in my throat made my next words shake
And something in the wires made the lightbulbs break
There was glass inside my feet and raining down from the ceiling
It opened up the scars that had just finished healing
It tore apart the canyon running down your femur
(I thought that it was beautiful, it made me a believer)
And as it opened I could hear you howling from your room
But I hid out in the hall until the hurricane blew
When I reappeared and tried to give you something for the pain
You came to hating me again and just sang your refrain
You had a new dream, it was more like a nightmare
You were just a little kid, and they cut your hair
Then they stuck you in machines, you came so close to dying
They should have listened, they thought that you were lying
Daddy was an asshole, he fucked you up
Built the gears in your head, now he greases them up
And no one paid attention when you just stopped eating
"Eighty-seven pounds!" and this all bears repeating
Tell me when you think that we became so unhappy
Wearing silver rings with nobody clapping
When we moved here together we were so disappointed
Sleeping out of tune with our dreams disjointed
It killed me to see you getting always rejected
But I didn't mind the things you threw, the phones I deflected
I didn't mind you blaming me for your mistakes
I just held you in the door-frame through all of the earthquakes
But you packed up your clothes in that bag every night
And I would try to grab your ankles (what a pitiful sight)
But after over a year, I stopped trying to stop you
From stomping out that door
Coming back like you always do
Well no one's going to fix it for us, no one can
You say that, "No one's going to listen, and no one understands"
So there's no open doors and there's no way to get through
There's no other witnesses, just us two
There's two people living in one small room
From your two half-families tearing at you
Two ways to tell the story (no one worries)
Two silver rings on our fingers in a hurry
Two people talking inside your brain
Two people believing that I'm the one to blame
Two different voices coming out of your mouth
While I'm too cold to care and too sick to shout
You had a new dream, it was more like a nightmare
You were just a little kid, and they cut your hair
Then they stuck you in machines, you came so close to dying
They should have listened, they thought that you were lying
Daddy was an asshole, he fucked you up
Built the gears in your head, now he greases them up
And no one paid attention when you just stopped eating
"Eighty-seven pounds!" and this all bears repeating
Lyrics submitted by Freddox, edited by PartlyBloc
Two Lyrics as written by Peter Joseph Silberman
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I don't think so...the lyrics say he doesn't work in the hospital..... and seems like a whole lot more is going on. I'm pretty sure its all about self destruction relationships and abusive partners.....in this one it seems like the parents are the abusive ones trying to rip apart their daughters relationship and shes start to lose control and takes it out on him....and the death is the metaphor for her self destruction and the break up or if you want to take it literally just add on her dying to the scenario.
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I think listening to the rest of the lyrics on the album helps in understanding this song. You can tell he works in the hospital from the song "Kettering:"<br /> "Because you'd been abused by the bone that refused you, and you hired me to make up for that...When I was checking vitals I suggested a smile...Something kept me standing by that hospital bed; I should have quit but instead I took care of you."<br /> And from the song "Epilogue:"<br /> "You've been gone for quite awhile now, and I don't work there in the hospital (they had to let me go)."<br /> <br /> It's possible that the woman's parents had something to do with her rash behavior, but I think the cancer is a more major theme in the album. <br /> <br /> Death can be used as a metaphor for a lot of things, but I think it's important first to understand the literal death in the album before applying it to something else. Also, I think the woman actually dies in the next song, "Shiva," and not in this song.
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Beautiful, such an amazing album. The lyrics in this are fantastic.
Also, there's a prologue printed in the album's liner notes that might be helpful. I'll reprint it here:
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She was brought into those rooms with sliding curtains and shining children's heads. One of the, that boy, was not as lucky as she then. (Years later, he would return to her at night, just when she thought she might have fallen asleep. As she would later describe to me, his face would be up against hers, and she'd be too terrified to speak.)
Now, I won't pretend I understand, because I can't, and now I never will. But something makes her sting, and something makes her want to kill. It made her crawl under that house, and stick her head under the stove...well, my point in all of this is that it's all connected in these complicated nightmares that we wove.
The Antlers are amazing, simply put. Such a well written song.
Actually, by the lead singer himself, this entire album is a metaphor for an emotionally abusive relationship. This album isn't about him falling in love with a girl at a hospital who has cancer, but is entirely a metaphor for the abusive relationship, using the happenings of a cancer patient as metaphors for the abusive aspects of the relationship. Genius lyrics gives some great interpretation behind the songs. Other songs like "Two" show the elements of the actual relationship outside of the hospital concept.
So beautiful and so fucked up. To look on someone you care about so much and know you can't fix or help.
There was glass inside my feet and raining down from the ceiling,<br /> it opened up the scars that had just finished healing.<br /> It tore apart the canyon running down your femur,<br /> (I thought that it was beautiful, it made me a believer.)<br /> <br /> i don't understand this section at all. someone please help?<br /> <br /> RLHJones is right, technically, but i have to say that the symptoms presented could arguably point towards all three disorders. i favor bi-polar, as it seems to fit most of the lines in the second to last stanza better than the other two. i'll expound if you ask me to.<br /> <br /> aside from that, i think the subject is suffering from more than just mental instability, since she (forgive me for feminizing muses) seems to be dying and last time i checked none of the above were fatal. perhaps we are to believe that she's grown so nihilistic that she is suicidal, and hurts herself in an effort to prevent herself from hurting the narrator. otherwise i think we are meant to find some other infirmity. now that i've "thought out loud" a bit, i wonder if the mention of the femur i quoted above is a reference to leukemia?
These words make me cry everytime I listen to them. They rip right through you.
wow. i know this is about cancer, but this song relates to me so much.
"But I didn't mind the things you threw, the phones I deflected I didn't mind you blaming me for your mistakes I just held you in the door-frame through all of the earthquakes"
this definitely reminds me of living with a family member with bipolar disorder.
"Daddy was an asshole, he fucked you up Built the gears in your head, now he greases them up And no one paid attention when you just stopped eating "Eighty-seven pounds!" and this all bears repeating"
and this reminds me of eating disorders, personally. i know people have already said this, but still, this song really hits home.
Actually, it's not about cancer. At least not literally. He is using the cancer patient/ hospice worker relationship as a metaphor for his relationship with an emotionally abusive person. So you are right on the money! He explained it once in a music magazine interview.
Yeah, no, it's about a relationship, dude.
Keeping the song within the storyline of the album, I think of it as everything that's happened to her from when she first got cancer (it returned when she grew older) up until just before her death.
"You were just a little kid, and they cut your hair Then they stuck you in machines, you came so close to dying They should have listened, they thought that you were lying"
She got cancer when she was little and "they cut your hair" is the hair loss in the chemotherapy process.
She thought of herself as ugly and developed eating disorders.
"Tell me when you think that we became so unhappy Wearing silver rings with nobody clapping When we moved here together we were so disappointed Sleeping out of tune with our dreams disjointed"
They had a rushed marriage "with nobody clapping" (no one was at their wedding) and afterwards they were reconsidering their marriage.
"It killed me to see you getting always rejected" She tried to get jobs but no one would take her because they knew her cancer was back and they wouldn't take someone with a terminal illness
She was frustrated and angry with the cancer returning instead of upset and accepting death, in a constant "why me?" stage. She can't take out her anger by talking to anyone ("No one's gonna listen, and no one understands") so she has to physically abuse her husband to get it out. He loves her, so he doesn't mind.
"There's no open doors, there's no way to get through" It's a terminal illness, and there's no way she can come out of it alive.
Here it comes in that she has a multiple personality disorder, perhaps as a result of the cancer destroying her emotionally as well as physically, and her entire life is written out in a matter of lines.
"There's two people living in one small room From your two half-families tearing at you Two ways to tell the story (no one worries) Two silver rings on our fingers in a hurry Two people talking inside your brain Two people believing that I'm the one to blame Two different voices coming out of your mouth"
Again, it suggests a rushed marriage, and then a multiple personality disorder. "Two people talking inside your brain" and "Two different voices coming out of your mouth".
It's impossible to deny that it's a brilliant song and a brilliant album, whatever your interpretation.
I agree with all of this except for the MPD thing. I think the two voices is just referring to her dealing with dying (being very loving and getting married, then being hateful) or even bipolar disorder.
@SoColdInAlaska it's called DID (dissociative Identity Disorder) but i'm glad you noticed that. It'd be cool to see some Goddamn representation of my disorder in music.