In regards to the meaning of this song:
Before a live performance on the EP Five Stories Falling, Geoff states “It’s about the last time I went to visit my grandmother in Columbus, and I saw that she was dying and it was the last time I was going to see her. It is about realizing how young you are, but how quickly you can go.”
That’s the thing about Geoff and his sublime poetry, you think it’s about one thing, but really it’s about something entirely different. But the lyrics are still universal and omnipresent, ubiquitous, even. So relatable. That’s one thing I love about this band. I also love their live performances, raw energy and Geoff’s beautiful, imperfectly perfect vocals. His voice soothes my aching soul.
I descended a dusty gravel ridge
Beneath the Bixby Canyon Bridge
Until I eventually arrived
At the place where your soul had died
Barefoot in the shallow creek,
I grabbed some stones from underneath
And waited for you to speak to me
And the silence; it became so very clear
That you had long ago disappeared
I cursed myself for being surprised
That this didn't play like it did in my mind
All the way from San Francisco
As I chased the end of your road
Cause I've still got miles to go
And I want to know my fate
If I keep up this way
And it's hard to want to stay awake
When everyone you need, they all seem to be asleep
And you wonder if you missed your dream
You can't see a dream
You can't see a dream
You just can't see a dream
And then it started getting dark
I truged back to where the car was parked
No closer to any kind of truth
Beneath the Bixby Canyon Bridge
Until I eventually arrived
At the place where your soul had died
Barefoot in the shallow creek,
I grabbed some stones from underneath
And waited for you to speak to me
And the silence; it became so very clear
That you had long ago disappeared
I cursed myself for being surprised
That this didn't play like it did in my mind
All the way from San Francisco
As I chased the end of your road
Cause I've still got miles to go
And I want to know my fate
If I keep up this way
And it's hard to want to stay awake
When everyone you need, they all seem to be asleep
And you wonder if you missed your dream
You can't see a dream
You can't see a dream
You just can't see a dream
And then it started getting dark
I truged back to where the car was parked
No closer to any kind of truth
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Bixby Canyon Bridge Lyrics as written by Benjamin Gibbard
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Before reading the comments on the Kerouac reference's, i had my own idea:
I got the impression that Gibbard is writting about visiting a place where someone close to him had committed suicide.
"At the place where your soul had died"
The person had given up hope here.
"And waited for you to speak to me
And the silence, it became so very clear That you had long ago disappeared I cursed myself for being surprised That this didn't play like it did in my mind"
He went to the place hoping for closure, but realised that he was in denial thinking going to the ridge would make him feel any better about everything.
"No closer to any kind of truth As I must assume was the case with you"
The person presumed he/she would find the answers to 'life' in death, but did not.
That's that really. Just my interpretation... peace
@the_light nice! and brixby bridge is actually a tall bridge where a suicide could have happen
" descended a dusty gravel ridge Beneath the Bixby Canyon Bridge And soon I eventually arrived At the place where your soul had died"
This verse describes Ben's arrival at the cottage in Big Sur, CA. At this cabin, Jack Kerouac wrote Big Sur which was an autobiographical tale of the nervous breakdown he suffered at the same cabin some years earlier.
Barefoot in the shallow creek I grabbed some stones from underneath Waiting for you to speak to me
Kerouac spent days drinking from the creek, if i recall correctly to drink and bathe. Perhaps Ben expected Kerouac to appear to him and reveal some big truth to him about life/the universe etc.
And the silence, it became so very clear That you had long ago disappeared And I cursed myself for being surprised That this didn't play like it did in my mind
Obviously, the epitomie from Kerouac never came, and thus Ben is dissapointed.
All the way from San Francisco As I chased the end of your road Because I've still got miles to go
The "end of your road" is symbolism of kerouac losing his mind at this location, and perhaps Ben thinking he would find answers to some sort of questions at this location. Alas, he still "has miles to go" before he finds these truths.
I want to know my fate if I keep up this way It's hard to want to stay away And everyone you meet all seem to be asleep You wonder if you're missing your dream Can't see your dream Can't see your dream Just can't see your dream Dream Dream Dream Dream Dream Dream Dream Dream
Not really sure what he's talking about here.
Then it started getting dark And I trudged back to where the car was parked No closer to any kind of truth As I must assume was the case with you
At nightfall Ben gives up on finding his epitomie, and realises that Kerouac probably did the same thing 50/60 years ago.
It is ridiculous that you tried to analise everything, except the most meaningful part.<br /> <br /> "I want to know my fate if I keep up this way<br /> It's hard to want to stay awake<br /> <br /> When everyone you meet they all seem to be asleep<br /> And you wonder if you're missing your dream"<br /> <br /> In the first stanza he is refering to the fact that if he continues to live the way that he is doing, he won't be happy, there is not much look forward to, there is no point in "[staying] awake" if he continues that miserable live.<br /> <br /> Then the second stanza is about how everyone he meets has completely diferent priorities and ideas than what his own. Everyone is so lifeless and completely self absorbed and he is not able to comprehend this. And therefore he asks himself what if I am missing the dream, because there is something that he clearly doesn't understand.
Okay so alot of you guys nailed the first half of this excellent opener off the new album, but I think mostly everyone is at a loss when it comes to the second half, specifically from here on:
I want to know my fate if I keep up this way It's hard to want to stay awake
When everyone you meet, they all seem to be asleep You wonder if you're missing your dream You can't see a dream You can't see a dream You just can't see a dream
A Dream
This passage reminds me of a quote by the late, great River Phoenix, in which he said "Sometimes I wish I wasn't so concious." For one, I can personally identify with this quote. Second, someone above me said something along the lines of "ignorance is bliss" in reference to this passage. In a way I would agree, but to elaborate on it, I would say that Ben Gibbard is say that he wants to know his fate if he continues on his road to seeking the truth so desperately, so passionately, so fervently. Like mathemeticians that lose their minds trying to solve complex problems over years and years of time, some artists lose their minds trying to seek the truths to human suffering, passion, inspiration, life, etc. I believe Ben Gibbard is an artist of just such a caliber. He goes on to say, "Its hard to want to stay awake." I can identify with this, Gibbard is saying that sometimes in the face of disappointment, letdown, mental/spiritual exhaustion, that it can be hard to carry on, to force yourself to continue. Especially difficult when you look around you at the opiated masses of people, content to shut themselves off to the truth, reality, the world around them, enlightenment, inspiration, and the search for it ("When everyone you meet, they all seem to be asleep"). "You wonder if you're missing your dream" Or maybe Ben, the artist, is the crazy one, not these people around him who are all blissfully ignorant, content in their mediocrity, the same mediocrity that Gibbard is plagued by. Maybe i'm missing out on a happiness I would only have known, if I had not chosen the path I am on. Finally, Gibbard speaks, maybe warns, maybe even laments over the fact that when you are so aware or so awake to reality, that "you just can't see a dream" Sometimes your "hyper-awareness," as it were, robs you of your own desired inspiration, your own disappointment. Your expectations of an experience that someone you hold in high regard(Kerouac) spoke in reverance of; what this experience could do for you(Gibbard).
Literally, that Gibbard can't see, now that he has arrived here at this figureative mecca of expectation, just what all the fuss was about for Kerouac. He's severely disappointed.
In fact though, life is about the journey, and everyone's journey is just that, their own. I think Gibbard sees that once he arrives at Bixby Canyon Bridge, he curses himself for being gullible enough to think that this place would have the same effect on him as it did on Kerouac. Gibbard realizes that he must find his own inspiration from his own metaphorical "Bixby Canyon Bridge," whatever, or wherever it may be.
The last lines based on my comments for the previous passage, are pretty self-explanatory.
This is my first post, sorry if i sound a tad pretentious, please be kind of responding!!
Thanks
Brilliant! You have eloquently said exactly what i wanted to express. :] brilliant job. ..... but really the whole feeling of disconnect amongst others is alarming to me. At times it does seem as though you might be going crazy. Idk. but yes, thank you for your words.<br /> -:]
@fluorescein thank you for posting this. (I realize I'm replying some years later!) I was listening closer to the lyrics of this song after having heard it live (it was amazing) and I deeply relate. I think it is about what you've mentioned when you write even, "Some artists lose their minds trying to seek the truths to human suffering, passion, inspiration, life, etc."<br /> <br /> The lyrics, "And you wonder if you're missing your dream, you can't see a dream" are very interesting because of the parallel between "awakening," being aware of so much, searching for answers, and actually missing "the dream." You can't be asleep and awake at the same time, but you can't dream and be aware at the same time. This is really interesting…
I realized i spelled epiphany completely wrong and forgot to spell check it, that is what bixby is about......
Then it started getting dark And I trudged back to where the car was parked No closer to any kind of truth As I must assume was the case with you
ahhhhhhhhh so great. the end is so haunting but so compelling.
"haunting but so compelling." perfectly worded. :)
Jack Kerouac was from Lowell, MA.
I've been to Lowell, MA, and there's not much to see. It's an old mill-town that developers are currently trying to rehabilitate with loft apartments and riverwalks.
Funny thing is, on the west coast things aren't much better. The culture's different, but human beings are still lonely, fake. If you're looking for truth, take solace in the journey of life itself. Life is anticlimactic in that way.
It's not a party, but we can still dance.
Hi everybody! DCFC is truly an amazing band Bixby anyon Bridge brings two different concepts to mind for me. Lost Love, and trying to Understand a mass social disconect. To me, Bixby Canyon is about leaving a love behind. After trying to search for something that is no longer mutual. Something ( an intimate relationship)that had died long before it was still able to be salvaged. The end of the song, "...No closer to any kind of truth as i must assume was the case with you", brings us to the conclusion that finally, the fact that the love is gone is recognized. But alas, the searching individual feels nothing was acomplished by this. A distant, but mutual confusion as to why the love did not last or what went wrong.
The second concept for me was about feeling lost in a world where emotional disconnect is dominant. "I want to know my fate. If I'll keep up this way. Cos it's hard to want to stay awake; when everyone you meet, they all seem to be asleep. And you wonder if you're missing the dream. You just can't see the dream." A feeling of being an outcast for trying to hold on to human emotions and compassion seems to stick out to me. You wonder if you should disconnect and simply dwell like the others, because maybe it will hurt less to just exist as they do; without truly feeling love or hurt. " you just can't see the dream"
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Now that i know the story behind this song, I think something different but originally I thought this song was about remembering someone who took their life. And I think it can be interpreted that way, as trying to understand why someone committed suicide: I descended a dusty gravel ridge Beneath the Bixby Canyon Bridge Until I eventually arrived At the place where your soul had died
He decided to visit the place they died to try and understand why they did it.
Barefoot in the shallow creek I grabbed some stones from underneath And waited for you to speak to me
Wishing they were still alive to explain why they took their life
And the silence, it became so very clear That you had long ago disappeared I cursed myself for being surprised That this didn't play like it did in my mind
Feeling foolish for thinking that coming here would make him understand why that person took their life.
Beautiful. This is about Ben going to Big Sur. He spent a couple weeks in a cabin where Jack Kerouac stayed and wrote a large portion of Narrow Stairs there.
Well, it is about Big Sur... but Ben has said that he wasn't able to write much of Narrow Stairs while he was there. It's more about he couldn't get the inspiration from Kerouac/Big Sur that he thought he would to help him write new songs. It's all about disillusionment, both with the trip, and with life in general.
Exactly... been to Big Sur recently - it's an amazing place.<br /> <br /> Ironic that he wrote a song lamenting not being inspired, yet the song that was inspired by the situation is beautiful.<br /> <br /> I cursed myself for being surprised<br /> That this didn't play like it did in my mind." - my favorite part, especially with the melody