This is a hauntingly beautiful song about introspection, specifically about looking back at a relationship that started bad and ended so poorly, that the narrator wants to go back to the very beginning and tell himself to not even travel down that road. I believe that the relationship started poorly because of the lines:
"Take me back to the night we met:When the night was full of terrors: And your eyes were filled with tears: When you had not touched me yet"
So, the first night was not a great start, but the narrator pursued the relationship and eventually both overcame the rough start to fall in love with each other:
"I had all and then most of you"
Like many relationships that turn sour, it was not a quick decline, but a gradual one where the narrator and their partner fall out of love and gradually grow apart
"Some and now none of you"
Losing someone who was once everything in your world, who you could confide in, tell your secrets to, share all the most intimate parts of your life, to being strangers with that person is probably one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. So Painful, the narrator wants to go back in time and tell himself to not even pursue the relationship.
This was the perfect song for "13 Reasons Why"
You change your mind
Like a girl changes clothes
Yeah you, PMS
Like a bitch
I would know
And you over think
Always speak
Cryptically
I should know
That you're no good for me
'Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
(You) you don't really want to stay, no
(You) but you don't really want to go
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
We used to be
Just like twins
So in sync
The same energy
Now's a dead battery
Used to laugh 'bout nothing
Now you're plain boring
I should know
That you're not gonna change
'Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
(You) you don't really want to stay, no
(You) but you don't really want to go
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
Someone call the doctor
Got a case of a love bipolar
Stuck on a roller coaster
Can't get off this ride
You change your mind
Like a girl changes clothes
'Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
(You) you don't really want to stay, no
(You) but you don't really want to go
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
Like a girl changes clothes
Yeah you, PMS
Like a bitch
I would know
And you over think
Always speak
Cryptically
I should know
That you're no good for me
'Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
(You) you don't really want to stay, no
(You) but you don't really want to go
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
We used to be
Just like twins
So in sync
The same energy
Now's a dead battery
Used to laugh 'bout nothing
Now you're plain boring
I should know
That you're not gonna change
'Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
(You) you don't really want to stay, no
(You) but you don't really want to go
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
Someone call the doctor
Got a case of a love bipolar
Stuck on a roller coaster
Can't get off this ride
You change your mind
Like a girl changes clothes
'Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
(You) you don't really want to stay, no
(You) but you don't really want to go
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
Lyrics submitted by teenqueen22
Hot N Cold Lyrics as written by Lukasz Gottwald Katy Perry
Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
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I believe this song is about a guy who keeps saying he wants to be with her, but then decides he doesn't, and so on. Hence the line "Got a case of the love bipolar" and she continues to go back to him everytime he says he wants her back, no matter how much the breaking up happens. Such as the lines "Stuck on a rollercoaster,Can't get off this ride" and "We fight, we break up, We kiss, we make up"
I honestly don't think it's about someone who is literally bi-Polar.
I think it's more like, you can never tell from one day to the next whether they'll be in love/together (hot) or at war/apart (cold).
as in, they have no clue whatsoever whether they wanna be together or not. they can't stay in the relationship long enough to figure out if they're a good coupel or not.
@athomeintheclouds <br /> I'm inclined to agree, seeing as the song says "love bi-polar", implying it's particularly in terms of their relationship.
i love katy perry! this song is just so much fun it's a get-up-and-dance song! :] its pretty obvious that it's about knowing you should end your relationship, but steel feeling attatched. And you can't seem to bring closure to it because you still have feelings for the person, but the relationship isn't what it once was. One of her best!
Yea,it is a get-up-dance-song.if you want more,go to youtube and type in DJ Tiesto,Armin Van Buuren,Cascada and Fragma.Really good songs r Memory by Fragma (Klaas Mix),Zocalo by Armin Van Buuren,In The Dark by DJ Tiesto,and Traffic by DJ Tiesto.
this song is so relatable! seriously!! it's being with a guy who wants you one second, then the next he doesnt. He ignores you, then he talks to you. He can't make up his mind you know? He has commitment problems. I love this song!!!
its pretty funny. reminds me of my boyfriend
I think this song is about the showers in the women's prison.
I thought it was about being in a relationship and not getting any.
sorry, couple.
This explains my ex perfectly. He was always one extreme or the other, on a rollercoaster, even now after we broke up, he alternates between missing me and feeling like he meant nothing to me...i understand her frustration perfectly
Oh my.... this song explains exactly my feelings in my relationship with this girl. I just dont know what to do. We are together for a one month, and she is the initiator of our relationship... ...yeah, just like this: "(You) You don't really wanna stay, no (You) But you don't really wanna go..."