Lyrics for Skinny Love as interpreted by J.Diddy

Skinny Love Lyrics
Come on skinny love just last the year
Pour a little salt we were never here
My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
Staring at the sink of blood and crushed veneer

I tell my love to wreck it all
Cut out all the ropes and let me fall
My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
Right in the moment this order's tall

And I told you to be patient
And I told you to be fine
And I told you to be balanced
And I told you to be kind
And in the morning I'll be with you
But it will be a different kind
And I'll be holding all the tickets
And you'll be owning all the fines

Come on skinny love, what happened here?
Suckle on the hope in light brassieres
My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
Sullen load is full, so slow on the split

And I told you to be patient
And I told you to be fine
And I told you to be balanced
And I told you to be kind
And now all your love is wasted
And then who the hell was I?
And I'm breaking at the britches
And at the end of all your lines

Who will love you?
Who will fight?
Who will fall far behind?

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sifellt neytandi
10-09-2007

Rated +2 
Love this one. Thanks to whoever-you-are for getting these lyrics up so quickly.

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emilbee
12-22-2007

Rated -1 
this song is so amazing

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thearcadesarah
12-22-2007

Rated +2 
Absolutely gorgeous. One of my favorites from this year.

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ninjapirat
12-29-2007

Rated +1 
Wow.
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shortandsweetem
01-03-2008

Rated +5 
It's about love gone sour.

As for the title "Skinny Love" it could be an affectionate term he gave his petite girlfriend, or maby the fact that their love is wasting away- shrinking to skinny. The latter is probably more likely, due to the reference in the first line ("Come on, skinny love just last the year").


"pour a little salt, we were never here"
Salt has healing properties, when put on open wound they help the process along. Probably metaphorically speaking, he wants this doomed relationship to heal, to even "Just last the year."
I like the vivid imagery to blood and crushed veneer in a sink, as if a vase was broken in a fit of rage. I dunno if that ties into the salt reference, maby indirectly.

he then basically tells her to let him go, to cut off the tethers binding him to her.

the third stanza deals wih a blaming the other for the failure of the relationship. She couldn't meet with his expectations, either that or she treated him poorly, probably both.

stanza four seems like a mixture of memories, stating why have we gone wrong when we once loved each other? and how even though the burden of pain (through separating) is heavy, it's still hard to "split."

The last part gives us a glimse as to WHY it went sour. it seems she kind of led him on, that she wasn't that into him- when he really cared for her.

He then states that its unlikely she'll find anyone worthwhile, no one will be able to love her for all the stuff she puts her partners through.

wonderfully honest and emotional, i love this song.

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ddragonfly
01-20-2008

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shortandsweetem, those are some really good thoughts. i love this song and i am so excited for feb. 19 when this album comes out... can't wait!

the line "Now all your love is wasted?
Then who the hell was I?" gets me every single time. it's so laid out bare and emotional, i love all of the random pictures that it brings to your head. so incredibly poetic... this guy is a genius.

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djfrisk
01-24-2008

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Here are direct quotes from Bon Iver (Justin Vernon)
Justin Vernon of Bon Iver on "Skinny Love"

So Emma seems to be the subject of a lot of these songs? Who is/was she?
Well, it’s not a “she” question as much as it’s a “what” and “when” question. It’s old love. And in this case, old, sore, lost love.

Were these songs written forever ago or are they just about “forever ago”? If the latter, did you ever set out to write this record before?
About forever ago. They were all written at the same time. I was unable to deal with my personal shit within the constraints or boundaries of my other musical projects or personal environment.

There’s this peaceful resignation going on all over For Emma. It suggests there’s been some time and distance between you and the stories you’re telling. Is that the case?
In time, yes. But in earnestness and closeness of feel, they are current, or were when I wrote them. They hadn’t escaped or dissipated yet until I dealt with them, no matter how long ago they existed. It’s kind of like the sores are still open. Just scarred over. So it’s like me sitting and examining these scars. Trying to rip them off. Discard them. Or at least explain them, so I can be at peace with them.

”Skinny Love” seems this one is about the moment you knew things were destined to fail.
Well, this wasn’t about who you think it would be about. Part of the trouble with the old haunting love, is that it fucks with your future loves, and can damn and/or ambush your relationships. That’s who this is about.

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pythi
01-29-2008

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To me it is about the moment past the tipping point where the scales have turned against your favor. Things are bound to fail, and you're looking back at things that've caused your love to go so wrong.

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sagaxfilos
03-23-2008

Rated +3 
well in light of djfrisk's post this song takes on a whole new incredible meaning IMO, i still agree the song can legitimately be understood as shortandsweetem analyzed, altho to me the line "pour a little salt..." recalls conquerors sowing fields with salt to make the infertile, and so to sow the fledgling relationship with salt to kill in before it ever happens, which anticipates the cutting of the ropes

Now the other interpretation. Imagine that Bon Iver has had a terrible, horrible break up years ago and his "skinny love" is a new girl he is beginning to see. and it is also important that in this scenario bon iver's relationship with the skinny love is ruined by his long ago breakup

First, he hopes they can make it a whole year since it is so hard for him to keep a relationship together.

Then he TOLD her that SHE had to be the patient, balanced, etc. partner in the relationship. And in the morning he will be better, no longer haunted by the ghosts of the past that come out at night perhaps, and in this way the morning will be a different "kind" in quotes.

"suckle on the hope in lite brassiere" a wonderful line, combining maternal love (suckle) and conjugal love (lite brassiere) into an expression of how bon iver hopes that with this love he can bury his past.

now i propose that the speaker changes. I would argue that the lines from "now all your love is wasted..." until the end are spoken by ms. skinny love herself who does not understand bon iver's internal struggles.

his love has been wasted on his former love, no one will love him when is stuck in the past, no one can fight his past for him and he will fall far behind

this leaves the speaker of the the second appearance of the "i told you to be..." section interestingly ambiguous, it could be bon iver telling her again and again that he needs her to be the rock, or it could be ms. skinny love telling him that she needs a rock of her own.... who can tell? :)

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essybessy
03-25-2008

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what a wonderful and sad song. i definitely think it is about one of bon iver's past relationships. songs about failed love are so beautiful. i love the lines "i tell my love to wreck it all, cut out all the ropes and let me fall, Right in the moment this order's tall" and "at the end of all your lines who will love you? who will fight? who will fall far behind?" it sounds like bon thinks that nobody is going to love this skinny past love of his. like if he and she couldn't make it work it was her fault and shit. so basically it's a tragedy, in a couple ways then. in the suggested story of love and also in the way he has sorted it all out in the end and so obviously takes no blame for this relationships demise.

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U4ia
04-02-2008

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Just Unreal, "I'll be holding all the tickets " perhaps using airplane tickets as a metaphor for leaving.

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zeilia
04-05-2008

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"Pour a little salt we were never here"... evokes the image of little kids pouring salt on slugs to see them writhe, shrink and die. This connotation gave this song an almost bitter feel for me. A purposeful torture. This love was lost at a cost of "blood and crushed veneer" Vitality, promises and hope. This extends to a sense of (perhaps overly self-indulgent, but who hasn't been there?) self annihilation: "I tell my love to wreck it all/ Cut out all the ropes and let me fall." In the end I am reminded of a feeling that failed relationships always give me. If this was love and love is real, then where did it *go*? "Now all your love is wasted?/ Then who the hell was I?"

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nikki brormann
04-22-2008

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it sounds like she is the stella from great expectation type of girl. who in her childhood or due to unfortunate past relationship is unable to really love. who'd drive everyone who she gets into a relationship with crazy, leading them on, treating them horrible, leaving a trail of broken hearts. when really all she wants is to give into that one true love, but she's unable to. she has everyone fighting over her, untouchable as she is. she must end up alone, with no one loving, fighting, or falling behind.

and to tell someone all love was wasted is heartwrenching. because it meant that they were never worth it, love without purpose, spent carelessly.

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allymusiqua
05-18-2008

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does anyone know exactly where in northern wisconsin Justin Veron stayed ? I spent all of my childhood summers in "northwestern wisconsin" and i'm dying to know where it was ! thanks

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wahoolooze
05-24-2008

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allymusiqua--
Justin Vernon grew up in Eau Claire, Wisconsin. I'm not sure where he sequestered himself, but I know he's from Eau Claire. His mom works at my school.

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Ouspensky
05-31-2008

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Song of the year.

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george1992
06-03-2008

Rated +1 
well...
i feel when the song says "But it will be a different "kind"
I'll be holding all the tickets
And you'll be owning all the fines"
that mabey its about he will be paying for what he did or what happened. ?

great song love it :)

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YouKnowStuff
06-20-2008

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anyone have the lyrics to the itunes bonus track "Wisconsin"? a pretty great song, i think.

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YouKnowStuff
06-20-2008

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sagaxfilos...i like that interpretation a good deal. i think "now all your love is wasted?/then who the hell was i?" is pretty straight forward. she's telling him she wasted time with him, wasted her love on him because he is so caught up with his past....and his natural reaction is... "who the hell was i?" he wonders if she really loved him, how could it be "wasted", i'd say.

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oofclot
06-24-2008

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I was thinking the lines "I'll be holding all the tickets
And you'll be owning all the fines" could possibly mean like parking tickets, thus he'll have all the tickets, but its her fault so she'll be owning all the fines. He's blamed for the ruined relationship, but its really her fault and she should be the one responsible for paying for the lost relationship, not him.

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menomoniehockey
06-24-2008

Rated +1 
For all wondering. I had a teacher in High School that is one of Justin Vernon's good friends. I recently asked him "what do these songs mean and what is the message that he is trying to convey" and he replied with Emma is the middle name of his High School girlfriend that he has never gotten over all this time. And the other songs are just about some "shit" he's had to deal with over time. Hope this clarifies things a bit.

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YouKnowStuff
06-27-2008

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i read an interview a few nights ago..Justin was saying how Skinny Love was really about him singing to himself. all the accusations are him accusing himself.

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willowtrees
06-28-2008

Rated +3 
no matter what mood i'm in, this song makes me want to cry every time i hear it. but not the kills-all-happiness kind of crying, more like the purifying kind of crying.
it's an odd feeling, but i love it.

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loveisthemovement08
07-08-2008

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'now all your love is wasted? then who the hell was i?'-- one of my favourite lyrics ever easily.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=GHyo33XLP24&feature=related
him singing that part in this performance makes me DIE. absolute musical genuis

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lyriclover81
07-09-2008

Rated +1 
After learning that Justin said this song is about the pain of past relationships making their way into new ones brings a whole new perspective to the song for me!

I almost feel like he's talking to himself. Both people that are living inside of his heart, the broken one and the one that is trying to hard to move on. So often we let the broken one lead our lives and sabatoge future happiness so he's trying to hold onto his small ability to love, skinny love, and get through the hurt that still harbors in his heart.

"pour a little salt, we were never here" is a defense mechanism just trying to erase someone from your mind, the past love still haunting you.

"i tell my love to wreck it all, to cut all the ropes and let me fall" again a self-sabatoging act. So stuck on the fact that the former lover couldn't love you that you push away anyone else that might come close to making you so vulnerable again.

I hear the chorus as a self-mantra, said in the mirror:
I told you to be patient
I told you to be fine
I told you to be balanced
I told you to be kind
In the morning I'll be with you
But it will be a different "kind"
I'll be holding all the tickets
And you'll be owning all the fines

He is talking to both people inside. Asking himself to be patient, fine, balanced, and kind even though the hurt part usually wins out. He will wake up and be better and he will own up to the past yet leave the hurt or "fines" behind. He wants to be stronger....

The most gripping part of the song is "Now all your love was wasted? Well then who the hell was I?" Almost like a flashback to this past love.....that one thought we have that makes us cringe immediately with hurt.....Bringing him back to that sad vulnerable place

and it ends with him still wounded....hopeless...afraid he'll always be his own worst enemy as he pushes away love because of the past. Because some won't fight too hard for love, after awhile most will just fall far behind:

Who will love you?
Who will fight?
Who will fall far behind?

Brilliant song, brilliant lyrics, amazing all together

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