Your fingertips across my skin
The palm trees swaying in the wind
Images

You sang me Spanish lullabies
The sweetest sadness in your eyes
Clever trick

Well, I never want to see you unhappy
I thought you'd want the same for me

[Chorus]
Goodbye, my almost lover
Goodbye, my hopeless dream
I'm trying not to think about you
Can't you just let me be?
So long, my luckless romance
My back is turned on you
Should've known you'd bring me heartache
Almost lovers always do

We walked along a crowded street
You took my hand and danced with me
Images

And when you left, you kissed my lips
You told me you would never, never forget
These images

Well, I'd never want to see you unhappy
I thought you'd want the same for me

[Chorus]

I cannot go to the ocean
I cannot drive the streets at night
I cannot wake up in the morning
Without you on my mind
So you're gone and I'm haunted
And I bet you are just fine
Did I make it that easy to walk right in and out
Of my life?

[Chorus]



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Track duration: 04:29

"Almost Lover" as written by Alison Loren Sudol

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    Memory:This song instantly made me think of the first man I fell in love with, though at the time we were both simple high school students. When I first listened to it, the memories that I have tried for so long to lock away come to the front of my mind, and at the end of the song I break down and cry. The song still has that affect, but I have tried to be thankful for the time I had with him, and I will always be unhappy that we didn't work out like we planned when we were both so naive.
    Flag MrsCashon May 10, 2013   Link
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    Memory:This song will ALWAYS remind me of the third (and to date, last) man I ever loved. We met in September of 2011, me a recent college graduate and him an incoming student. The night we met never ended; we stayed up all night chatting, bonding, and grabbed breakfast the next morning. From that moment on, we were inseparable. It was an odd combination, me the gay alumnus and him, the straight freshman. Road trips, parties, and simply nights spent on the couch, holding hands or cuddling. Throughout, he maintained his heterosexuality, while I fell deeper in love. He told me we were soulmates, we referred to one another as "besties with testes," he fell in love with me and I with him, but he was straight, he swore. Nothing sexual ever happened.

    After several months, I decided I needed to get over this boy. After all, loving a straight man, especially one so much younger, was only going to end in heartbreak. He knew I had a date with a man much more age-appropriate, and he knew I was taking him back to my apartment. He showed up on my doorstep, drunk, and crashed the date. A week later, he kissed me, and we slept together for the first time--his first time, period. I was in heaven. I loved this boy so much, and it was finally happening. We were in love.

    That didn't last long. He broke up with me on Valentine's Day, which is four days before my birthday, by going back into the closet. Said he was straight, it had been a mistake, and that he was sorry. We had a massive falling out, and I haven't really spoken to him since. Two years later, I've moved 1000 miles away and have a fabulous life in Chicago, where I'm dating and living my dream as a writer and actor. He's moved on, too. He has a girlfriend, with whom he now has a child. I wish them both the best.

    But whenever I hear this song, I'm taken back to that Valentine's night, standing in the snow, crying in the arms of my very own almost lover.
    Flag skylaaaaaron April 20, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:I can relate to this so well as I'm sure so many people can. I made the mistake of hanging out with someone from my work place. We've been work friends for a year then we started to like each other, but we are at different stages in our lives. My life is just beginning still working out my career. Hes a lot older than I and already has a career. He'll be transferring for a better opportunity and position far away from me and he'll be traveling a lot. (Hes always wanted to do this its his dream and its finally happening). So we decided we shouldn't date because it wouldn't work. So we had a friends with benefits kinda of relationship, it just happened. We tried to stop it but the feelings we have for each other are so real. We have something different, I've never felt so comfortable with anyone and we can have a laugh with each other. Our sense of humor is exactly the same. We always have a blast together and our connection is so real and deep. I don't want what we have to stop, obviously we care for each other but I'll never be anything to him. I'm too young for him.I'm in what we have a lot deeper. He managed to get under my skin, I've never opened up to anyone like I have with him.
    "So you're gone and I'm haunted
    And I bet you are just fine
    Did I make it that easy to walk right in and out
    Of my life?"
    Flag LambtonQon March 04, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:When I hearthis song my heart gets heavy as a stone.
    Flag lovedbythesunon March 01, 2013   Link
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    My Opinion:I love this song, it is brilliant. It's about a girl who has fallen in love with a boy. However the couple has already split up for some reason. The boy hurt the girl. Now the girl has a broken heart and she feels so lonely. She cannot do anything without thinking of the boy. But she wants him to be happy even without her. Though it is impossible she thinks she should've known he'd bring her heartache.
    Flag g.sacion February 14, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:i have had an experience where someone told me they like me, and i wasnt sure how to react. i liked them but i didnt know how to tell them. we sorta had an awkward slightly more than friends going for a little bit until they said they didnt like me. i regret never telling them how i really felt. i think about it every day and wish i had just come out and told them how i felt.
    Flag deadcrow3on October 11, 2012   Link
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    My Interpretation:Another meaning for this song, other than being played and led on by someone who you love but doesn't return you love is perhaps death. Maybe a person she loved died before they could establish a relationship, thus why the other party easily walked in and out of her life, as well as haunts her. Even worse, it may
    have been suicide because its mentioned the other person seemed to be a bit blue (The sweetest sadness in your eyes, i never want to see you unhappy) but the singer thinks that maybe they can work it out together simply because she doesn't want the other party to hurt themselves because if they do, then it also hurts their loved one and nobody would want to hurt their loved ones but the singer miscalculated how much she meant to the dead guy and realizes he valued his peace (death) more than her happiness (I THOUGHT you'd want the same for me. note that thought is past tense). To be honest, the original interpretation is probably most accurate, but I'm just throwing another way to look at it.
    Flag daazninvazn131on March 06, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:This related to me so well...
    To my current condition at least...
    I've loved a boy and he has the same for me back for awhile now, and the only thing is we never went out. Then, he all of a sudden started going out with another girl. That's why he was an almost lover.

    "Well, I never want to see you unhappy, I'd thought you want the same for me"
    I want him to be happy, but I wonder if he'd want the same for me, I'd wonder if he still cares and if I'm still important to him...

    The chorus: (Too long)
    I relate because, I'm saying goodbye, going to move on from him, and what we had was hopeless and never really mattered...
    I'm trying to forget him now, not thinking of him anymore...
    I've turned my back from him, and I'm so hurt, but I know holding on would hurt me more.

    The second verse, is her flashbacks, her past she has with him...
    I think of the past and it truly hurts alot.

    The bridge:
    In my view, I can't do the same things anymore without thinking of him or putting a reminder of him, so I change my daily routines, and it won't be the same...

    Although people and friends say he still has those same feelings for me, it will never be the same because I'm obviously not that special to him anymore if he's with someone else now.
    Flagged WonderlandILoveon March 03, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:Amazing song. Wish more people knew about it.
    Flag wilsdonvon December 28, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:I feel like this tells a story of her short while love. A man that possible came from a different country and they fell in love, but then he decided to leave again. It has a beautiful and sorrowful feel to it that makes me think they both felt love for each other which is why its so hard to move on.

    But I also interpreted it as something else. I see a love that passed away just when they were on the verge of falling madly in love. This probably wasn't her intention, but its interesting and eerie to me.
    Flag Tshadow05on July 21, 2011   Link

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