Da da da da
The smell of your skin lingers on me now
You're probably on your flight back to your home town
I need some shelter of my own protection, baby
To be with myself and center
Clarity, peace, serenity

[Chorus]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightenin' out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry

Don't cry
Don't cry
Don't cry

The path that I'm walking
I must go alone
I must take the baby steps till I'm full grown, full grown
Fairy tales don't always have a happy ending, do they?
And I foresee the dark ahead if I stay

[Chorus]

Like the little school mate in the school yard
We'll play jacks and Uno cards
I'll be your best friend, and you'll be mine
Valentine
Yes, you can hold my hand if you want to
'Cause I want to hold yours too
We'll be playmates and lovers, and share our secret worlds
But it's time for me to go home
It's getting late and dark outside
I need to be with myself and center
Clarity, peace, serenity

[Chorus]

Don't cry
Don't cry
Don't cry

La da da da da da



Lyrics submitted by rangel

Track duration: 04:28

"Big Girls Don't Cry" as written by Ferguson/gad

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    My Interpretation:For me, this song will always be about a summer romance because that was exactly the thing that I got through when I heard this song for the first time. The smell that lingers on your skin, the flight home, the fairytale (that just doesn't have a happy ending, just like summer romances). It means that you have to move on, try not to cry and stop holding onto something that has no future.
    Flag n0regretson October 05, 2012   Link
  • +1
    My Interpretation:the song big girls don't cry it reminds me of when you your about too cry just remember that be strong when you are about do something just remember that it is okay
    Flag kitkat95on July 31, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:I never knew that Fergie could sing like that. This is such a beautiful song, and it plays on the radio all the time. I love it!
    Flag ILoveMusicForever15on August 17, 2011   Link
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    My Interpretation:this reminds me of my boyfriend leaving for the army, and the huge changes our relationship went through with the huge increase in distance.

    i had to look after myself, literally missed him "like a child misses their blanket" but i just needed to get on with my life and know that i'd be able to see him in a few months. unfortunately this turned into having to get on with the rest of my life, as he passed away in iraq last year.

    RIP my baby boy, never forgotten xxxxxx
    Flag xoxosgon January 19, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:Could it be a holiday romance?
    "On your flight back to your home town".
    & the romantic freeness that comes with this particular kind of romance, but the ultimate unhappy ending, "fairytales dont always have a happy ending, do they?".
    & could explain the circumstances of why she has to leave, & the trouble that could be caused if she stays, "I forsee the darker head if I stay".

    I love this song though, it really speaks to what im going through at the moment.
    Flag enterson September 22, 2010   Link
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    Song Meaning:I can relate to this song, I think what it's about is a girl who knows that a guy is holding her back from having the best life she could have and realizing all her dreams so she has to let him go and get on with her life. Even though she might still be in love with him, he's not good for her, so she wants to get through this without crying, because he's not worth it.
    That's just what I think. I might be kind of biased because that's what I'm going through right now.
    Flag Riverdance14on July 05, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:This song is about her journey to rid her self of her addiction and doing it by herself. If you didn't already know, Fergie was a HUGE heroin addict. So, I think it's about her getting clean by herself. :)
  • 0
    General Comment:great song. i used to hate it! but i got to really listen to da lyrics n it reminds me of how after a day with him his smell would linger on me...
    specially wen we broke up it wud bring me to tears but i knew i had to get over him even tho i miss him sooooo much.
    Flag missinusince07on March 24, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:It's about being in a relationship and then forgetting who you really are. Maybe he changed her or something. Anyway, it's a really good song.
    Flag wayla1234on November 09, 2009   Link
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    Song Meaning:To me personally, this song is about being in a relationship were the flame has burned out.

    Maybe he changed as the relationship progressed? Perhaps drugs, Fergie waited for things to get better & they just havnt. So she leaves, as she knows this is the only way she can move in with her life.

    The song has an air of innocence that I love, it makes me feel really warm when I listen to it :) 'It's time for me to be a big girl now, & big girls don't cry'

    She's basically saying as much as walking away is tearing her apart & she feels like breaking down, she has to stay strong as she knows it's the right thing to do.

    Beautiful song.
    Flag oxconversexoon October 13, 2009   Link

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