Now I know
That I can't make you stay
But where's your heart?
But where's your heart?
But where's your

And I know
There's nothing I can say
To change that part
To change that part
To change!

So many
Bright lights that cast a shadow
But can I speak?
Well, is it hard understanding

I'm incomplete?
A life that's so demanding
I get so weak
A love that's so demanding
I can't speak

[Chorus]
I am not afraid to keep on living
I am not afraid to walk this world alone
Honey, if you stay
I'll be forgiven
Nothing you can say can stop me going home

Can you see
My eyes are shining bright?
'Cause I'm out here
On the other side

Of a jet black
Hotel mirror
And I'm so weak
Is it hard understanding

I'm incomplete?
A love that's so demanding
I get weak

[Chorus: x2]

These bright lights have always blinded me
These bright lights have always blinded me
I say

I see you lying next to me
With words I thought I'd never speak
Awake and unafraid
Asleep or dead

[Repeat: x3]
'Cause I see you lying next to me
With words I thought I'd never speak
Awake and unafraid
Asleep or dead

[Chorus: x3]



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Track duration: 04:59

"Famous Last Words" as written by Billy Joel

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    Song Meaning:Gerard wrote this song about Mikey, who was going to leave the band during the making of The Black Parade. Mikey stayed when he heard this song.
    Flag DeadKinneyon September 01, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:It is said that this song is partially written about when Gerard split up with his (then) girlfriend Katmundu (otherwise known as 'K'). For those of you who know (or have heard the rumours) Gerard supposedly dated her for quite a while (she was mentioned in the thanks column of both I Brought You My Bullets, You Brought Me Your Love and Three Cheers For Sweet Revenge) (2002 and 2004). It is also rumoured that 'Olivia' was her daughter (or dog/cat/something)? Clearly they had a very strong relationship (I shouldn't really be talking about this as this is Gerard's personal business and these are only RUMOURS).

    Anyway, if you watched Life On The Murder Scene, you would know that they started writing the Black Parade (and probably this song) in around 2005 onwards I think..? That probably means that they split at the time.

    I think that the overall feeling behind the song is Gerard expressing his sorrow for breaking up, whilst stating that he will be fine and is able to 'walk this world alone'. There is a slight feeling that Gerard's love for K was stronger than her love for him (remember this is just an interpretation).

    The first part of the song ('Now I know that I can't make you stay') could be about how no matter what he says or does, they are splitting up and she is leaving him. It almost sounds to me like K is the one in charge of the break up and that she is the one dumping him.
    The 'where's your heart?' parts could mean that she's breaking up with him, and (in his opinion), she doesn't care about his feelings. Perhaps the famous last words she said to him when they were breaking up were very strong and hurt his feelings (his thought being: where's your heart? how could you have a heart if you could hurt me in such a way?).

    The second part: 'Well, is it hard understanding I'm incomplete?' could suggest that without her in his life, he feels incomplete and that he wants her to complete him. The line 'A love that's so demanding, I can't speak' is where you might get the idea that his love for her is so demanding that he loves her more than she loves him.

    So far the song sounds very dark and depressing (the idea of loving someone more than they love you is far worse than any mutual breakup). The chorus however, is a very positive, not just lyrically, but musically as well (the chorus is the catchiest part of the song).

    I think that the chorus is trying to say that despite the break up, Gerard (or whoever this song is about) has the strength to carry on alone.
    'I am not afraid to keep on living' could suggest that he can live his live without her.
    'Nothing you could say can stop me going home' could mean that he is going home to carry on living the rest of his life without her.

    As for the verse after that: 'Can you see my eyes are shining bright, ‘Cause I'm out here on the other side, Of a jet black hotel mirror and I'm so weak' gives off the impression that he is hopelessly sad and heartbroken. 'Eyes shining bright' could be a sign of wanting to cry. In fact, this part of the song makes me imagine Gerard at a hotel on tour after the break up, crying in a mirror. (Some of you may be thinking 'WTFFFF?!' but I get that impression. Remember, the song might not be about him).

    As I just said, the song may have been written by Gerard (I think?), but it doesn't mean that it's about him. The song is part of the Black Parade album, which has a storyline about a patient dying of cancer. There is an idea that the patient didn't die of cancer, and that in this song, he is with his lover, who is dying.

    'I see you lying next to me, With words I thought I'd never speak, Awake and unafraid, Asleep or dead'. This brings an image of the patient lying down with his lover while she dies.

    In conclusion, there is a strong idea that this song is about breaking up, and how life goes on. You might find someone and feel like you will spend the rest of your life with them, but they might not feel the same way. Whether you spend eternity with them or not, life goes on. You will always have the strength to carry on living, even if you feel weak.
    This song doesn't sound particularly angry towards the other person. I think that if Gerard wrote this about K, he isn't angry. Losing her felt more like she died if anything, and he was really sad. (Apparently Gee gets really sad when his relationships end. When he broke up with his first girlfriend Barbra, he got really drunk and cried for ages in his room. He said that himself in and MTV VMA interview, so don't yell at me)!
    If it does turn out that this song is about Gerard and K and the whole idea of them breaking up is actually true, then I apologise to them for being so nosey. Their personal life should not be exploited by fans, and I know that Gerard is really quiet about his relationships. This is just a song interpretation, Gerard! Please don't hate me!
    I personally love this song, especially the way that it's called Famous Last Words, is the last song of the track and makes me think of the lasts words someone might say before they die or break up with you.

    There is never just one idea behind a song, especially a My Chemical Romance song. I think that they wrote this song so that people can interpret the way they want to. In all honesty, when I first heard this song, I thought it was a really depressing song. It took me a while to actually realise how positive it really is. This is now one of my favourite songs.
    There was also a point when for some reason I thought that the words were 'Is it hard understanding why men complete a love that's so demanding I can't speak'. which would have changed the whole song meaning completely (hence why I found the song so depressing in the first place)!

    By the way, I'm sorry that I wrote a whole essay for this one comment. This song comes with multiple ideas, I wanted someone to hear mine.

    WHOOO! MCR <3
    Flag ettiemusson August 25, 2012   Link
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    Memory:I used to listen to this song alot back in 2008 and 2007. To me it is one of those songs that helped give me a desire to not give up on my life.
    Flag lovelikearoseon August 19, 2012   Link
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    My Opinion:This is just a wonderful song. That's all I have to say :)
    Flag NirvanaStrokesluvon August 09, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:This song is the second part of the song I'm not ok)))
    Because in that song he is so desparate about situation he in (He loves girl, but she doesn't like him) and in this song he moved on. Read lyrics carefullu
    Love that so demanding, i get weak.
    Flag Norak22on August 09, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:@eddy218: You have a good point, but its not what it about, Its she breaking up with him and the mood of the song showing that it's him who are suffer.

    Well is it hard understanding
    I'm incomplete
    A life that's so demanding
    I get so weak
    A love that's so demanding
    I can't speak

    This lines means that he is incomplete and she would complete him, then love so demanding means that he is try his best to get her but she is doesn't want him (she is so demanding)
    "Now I know
    That I can't make you stay
    But where's your heart?
    There's nothing I could say
    To change that part"
    Also means that she would not stay, and he can do nothing about, because she dont love him and he is saying she is heartless.
    "These bright lights have always blinded me"
    means that his love for her always blind him and he couldn't move on and he couldn't see true side of her because of blind love

    Chorus means that he is not anymore afraid to move on and walk this world without her and he is tired to pursue her with no result

    In video also u can see in Gerard that its much more than just bad relationships, its one sided love and its much worse than any relationships.
    Flag Norak22on August 09, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:I think its about him breaking up with his girl, but in the sense that she was always "perfect" in her eyes - everything she did was right and what he did was wrong. they cast a shadow on him - it meant that all her "rights" made him look bad or dark - like a shadow. (i have a friend who had a relationship like that - it was ok for her to get guys numbers but wrong for him to get a girls number. etc.) so finally he opens his eyes and basically says - "hey if you stay i'll forgive you, but no matter what happens imma keep living my life and not be afraid to move on" and to me the famous last words are "goodbye" - used to think it meant "i love you." i love when he says "awake and unafraid, asleep or dead" means that he finally sees that fault in their relationship but he's emotionless about it now. his feelings are dead - as if he's asleep
    so that's what this song means to me :)
    Flag eddy218on June 08, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:Now I know
    That I can't make you stay
    But where's your heart? (the devil reached down from heaven in 2003 and ripped it out, throw it in the air a few times and said `this belongs to me` wtf is he doing up there in the first place... nice black wings though. In the summer of 2001 he flew up and the strom was huge it lasted about 45 minutes and when they`d stoped fighting he said to me `your dad shit himself`)
    But where's your heart?
    But where's your...

    And I know
    There's nothing I could say
    To change that part
    To change that part
    To change...

    So many
    Bright lights, they cast a shadow
    But can I speak?
    Well is it hard understanding
    I'm incomplete
    A life that's so demanding (I was born to rein ...powerful)
    I get so weak
    A love that's so demanding
    I can't speak

    I am not afraid to keep on living
    I am not afraid to walk this world alone
    Honey if you stay, I'll be forgiven (hes taken over my shuffle and played this while we were working with heaven on forgiveness)
    Nothing you can say can stop me going home

    Can you see
    My eyes are shining bright
    Cause I'm out here
    On the other side
    Of a jet black hotel mirror
    And I'm so weak
    Is it hard understanding
    I'm incomplete
    A love that's so demanding
    I get weak

    I am not afraid to keep on living
    I am not afraid to walk this world alone
    Honey if you stay, I'll be forgiven (he got forgiveness too)
    Nothing you can say can stop me going home

    I am not afraid to keep on living
    I am not afraid to walk this world alone
    Honey if you stay, I'll be forgiven
    Nothing you can say can stop me going home

    These bright lights have always blinded me
    These bright lights have always blinded me
    I say

    I see you lying next to me
    With words I thought I'd never speak
    Awake and unafraid
    Asleep or dead

    (How can I see, I see you lying) 'Cause I see you lying next to me
    (How can I see, I see you lying) With words I thought I'd never speak (femme fatale wiki it---cause I still don`t believe it)
    (How can I see, I see you lying) Awake and unafraid
    (How can I see, I see you lying) Asleep or dead

    'Cause I see you lying next to me
    With words I thought I'd never speak
    Awake and unafraid
    Asleep or dead

    'Cause I see you lying next to me
    With words I thought I'd never speak
    Awake and unafraid
    Asleep or dead

    I am not afraid to keep on living
    I am not afraid to walk this world alone
    (Or dead)
    Honey if you stay, I'll be forgiven
    Nothing you can say can stop me going home
    (Or dead)
    I am not afraid to keep on living
    I am not afraid to walk this world alone
    (Or dead)
    Honey if you stay, I'll be forgiven
    Nothing you can say can stop me going home
    (Or dead)
    I am not afraid to keep on living
    I am not afraid to walk this world alone
    (Or dead)
    Honey if you stay, I'll be forgiven
    Nothing you can say can stop me going home
    Flag Femmefatale515on February 07, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:I think this song is The Patient's girlfriend speaking to him. She's saying their relationship has just gotten so complicated it's overwhelming her, but she's not afraid to go on living if he dies.
    Flag NightmareInBlackHairDyeon November 26, 2011   Link
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    My Interpretation:@Raine, what you've put has no way of being the actual meaning. All you've done is looked at the words, not their own meaning. Each line is a metaphor. For all we know, "Now I know, that I can't make you stay" could be the Patient's family speaking. They know that he's leaving them, and they can't do anything about it.

    "So many bright lights, they cast a shadow, but can I speak?" He's shadowed by everything he has been through, and everything that other people have managed to do that he never had the chance. "Can I speak?" suggests that he's unable to speak against what has been laid out in front of him.

    "A life that's so demanding, I get weak," His whole life has been give give give. Never take take take. He has never been able to stop and do something that he wanted. He was always held back by something.

    "Can you see? My eyes are shining bright. I'm here on the other side of the jet black hotel mirror..."
    Again, it's coming from his family's perspective. They're proud of him for fighting what he hasand living through it. "Jet black hotel mirror," could represent a tunnel, perhaps?

    "I am not afraid to keep on living, I am not afraid to walk this world alone, honey if you stay, I'll be forgiven, nothing you can say can stop me going home." This could be the Patient talking about continuing his life as he always imagined his perfect way to die. As part of a parade. He's talking about the afterlife.
    It's also his family, left alone by his death. They're making a promise to them that they'll never be afraid.

    "These bright lights are always blinding me," Again, those people that have managed to do what he always wanted are so well known. Stars if you must. He's always hearing about them in the paper and in other media.

    "I see you lying next to me, with words I thought I'd never speak, awake and unafraid, asleep or dead?" Again, it could be him, having woken up in the afterlife with his lover, but he doesn't know whether he's dreaming.
    It's also his family, still seeing him. His lover waking up everyday and seeing him lying next to her.

    Again, "I am not afraid to keep on living, I am not afraid to walk this world alone, honey if you stay I'll be forgiven, nothing you can stay can stop me going home." These are his famous last words. The last words he says to his family.
    Flag StereophonicAftershockon June 27, 2011   Link

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