Backwards with Time

The Avett Brothers

Folk always told me that my heart would grow
The older the man, yeah, the stronger the stone
Am I losing my mind?
Am I growing backwards with time?

Some say with age that a purpose comes clear
I see the opposite happening here
Are we losing the fight?
Are we growing backwards with time?

I was young and love was fun
Now it's so serious
Now all the fun has equal pain
There's something wrong with this
For all I know there's more I don't
Oh the little I have learned
For every year of knowledge gained
Is a negative year I've earned

Folk always told me that my heart would grow
The older the man, yeah, the stronger the stone
Am I losing my mind?


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    Anybody know what "the stronger the stone" line means?

    Love the song though. As you actually do grow up, it looks very different than you ever thought it would. If you realize that you'll never know it all early on, then you're wise beyond your years. But then again, isn't that the point of growing up? If life ended up happening to you the way you thought it would that'd be awfully boring

    wrad10on April 13, 2015   Link

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