Happy Birthday. So make a wish.

Please accept my apologies, I wonder what would have been.
Would you have been a little angel or an angel of sin?
Tom-boy running around, hanging with all the guys.
Or a little tough boy with beautiful brown eyes.
I paid for the murder before they determined the sex,
Choosing our life over your life meant your death.
And you never got a chance to even open your eyes,
Sometimes I wonder as a fetus if you fought for your life.
Would you have been a little genius? In love with math?
Would you have played in your school clothes and made me mad?
Would you have been a little rapper like your poppa The Piper?
Would you have made me quit smoking by finding one of my lighters?
I wonder about your skin tone and shape of your nose,
And the way you would've laughed and talked fast or slow.
I think about it every year, so I picked up a pen.
Happy birthday, I love you whoever you would've been.

Happy Birthday
What I thought was a dream
Make a wish
Was as real as it seemed

I made a mistake

I got a million excuses, as to why you died.
And other people got their own reasons for homicide.
Who's to say it would've worked and who's to say it wouldn't have
I was young and struggling, but old enough to be a dad.
The fear of being my father has never disappeared,
I ponder it frequently while I'm sippin' on my beer.
My vision of a family was artificial and fake
So when it came time to create, I made a mistake.
But now you got a little brother, maybe it's really you.
Maybe you really forgave us knowing we were confused.
Maybe, every time that he smiles it's you proudly knowing
That your father's doing the right thing now.
I'll never tell a woman what to do with her body,
But if she don't love children, then we can't party.
I think about it every year, so I picked up a pen.
Happy birthday, I love you whoever you would've been.

Happy Birthday
What I thought was a dream
Make a wish
Was as real as it seemed

I made a mistake

And from the Heavens to the womb to the Heavens again.
From the ending to the ending, never got to begin.
Maybe one day we can meet face to face,
In a place without time and space. Happy birthday.

What I thought was a dream
Make a wish
Was as real as it seemed

I made a mistake



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Track duration: 03:15

"Happy Birthday" as written by Carla Maria/coffer Williams

Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., Universal Music Publishing Group, Ultra Tunes, EMI Music Publishing

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    General Comment:I can't make myself stop listening to this song.
    When I was 15 I became pregnant.
    Even though I didn't have an abortion(still birth 6 months)
    I feel like I can relate so much to this song.
    For the longest time I felt like it was MY fault.
    But Flipsyde is helping me heal.

    I was terrified, young, with no money. It was either open-adoption or I would keep him.
    You never know how precious a life is until you can't conceive, miscarriage, still birth etc.
    Think about the life you are ending.
    *This does not apply if the woman/baby's life is in danger.
    Flag Tristian910on November 21, 2011   Link
  • +1
    Song Meaning:ABORTION IS WRONG.
    YOU WILL REGRET IT LATER.
    That's about it.
    Flag rockon901on December 21, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:About the song beeing about an abortion or not.

    "I paid for the murder before they determined the sex,
    choosing our life over your life meant your death."

    "My vision of a family was artificial and fake
    so when it came time to create, I made a mistake."

    It's pretty straight forward. His girlfriend got pregnant and had an abortion, years later when he has a son he regrets the decision.
    Great song
    Flag dall3non June 16, 2009   Link
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    Memory:This song make me so sad, it reminds me of what happened with Gillian, (my aunt) She got shot in the stomach when she was 7 months pregnant and lost the baby. me and her used to listen to this song all the time, and we don't like rap/R&B and such either, but we listen to this song.
    Flag ParanoidTrustNoOneon November 09, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:Directly to studmuffin33 and han_3590, you both need to open up your eyes. Posting your beliefs on a website won't change a goddamn thing. I'd like to see you actually stand up and do something if you feel so strongly. You both sicken me and I would love to walk up to either one of you one day and told you I had an abortion 2 years ago and see what you said to my face...because it's true.



    NOW as for these lyrics, very well put together and thought out. I loved it from the second I heard it. I think the mixture of Flipsyde's rapping and the girl's voice on the chorus go hand in hand. A strange mix, but a good one.
    The line that really effected me was:
    "I got a million excuses, as to why you died.
    And other people got their own reasons for homicide.
    Who's to say it would've worked and who's to say it wouldn't have."

    I feel like he knows that he and the woman had to make a choice, yet no one can ever really say that it would have worked if they hadn't had the abortion...so he really can't hate himself for it.
    Flag MissAtrocityon September 30, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:to han_3590...
    the people that judge you couldnt walk a day in your shoes. And to those who are against abortion need to stop being so narrowminded there is more to having a child than just being able love it!!
    This song is deep...just shows what people who go through it really think!!! Its not as easy as it seems!!!
    Flag mz_jackieon August 27, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:In reply to han_3590, Sweatie, you probly won't read this, and it breaks my heart to read what you say. This world is so far from perfect and the people that judge you are not worth your time. One sin is no worse than the rest, just different consequences. Please don't spend too much time on the past, forgiveness is there for those that ask, forgive yourself too. I don't know what your beliefs are, but don't think God is judging you, He wants you to be healed of the past and to be happy, and He can do that for you. Your baby is safe, safer than he would be now. My boyfriend has had a rough life too, I've never been through anything like this but I'm still listening to this song on repeat. I don't know you, but I will pray for you.
    Flag djshortcakeon February 10, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:This song means alot to me..i have always been against abortions though one day when i was 16 i had to have one, dont judge me for it because i was a little girl who had no money and the father wanted nothing to do with it..i had a pretty sucky life and it was hard, i wouldnt want my child to have the same life iv had..i know thats no excuse and trust me i hate myself so much for doing it..this song helps me deal with the pain alot..it was 2 years ago that i did that and iv been majorly depressed ever since..its so hard on the dates my lil angel would have been born, the date he was concieved, the date i found out i was pregnant, the date i had the abortion..theres so many dates and on all of them i sit in my room all day with this song on repeat and thik of what my little boy would be like today..ill never forget my child and ill never be happy with the desicion i had to make that day..i understand this song and i can hear the pain in it..this song has more meaning to me than any song iv ever heard..thank u flipsyde, this song has helped me more than anything..P.S..ABORTIONS ARE THE HARDEST THING A GIRL CAN EVER DO SO DONT JUDGE THE PEOPLE WHO DO IT..KEEP YOUR OPINIONS TO UR SELF BECAUSE WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT BEING AGAINST ABORTIONS CAN LEAD TO ANOTHER GIRLS SUICIDE..XOXOX
    Flag han_3590on January 03, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:Amazing song, I cry every time I hear it.

    I'm not sure if he's actually singing against abortion, he's just apologizing to the victim and is wondering what could have been.
    Flag SnoKoneManiacon August 31, 2007   Link
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    General Comment:i think that he really regrets what hes done to this lil baby that could have been his son/daughter.
    "I think about it every year, so I picked up a pen.
    Happy birthday, I love you whoever you would've been"
    i like this bit its kinda saying he wonders what it would be like..
    i really like this song its amazing x
    Flag Petes Pwincess :]on July 26, 2007   Link

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