Please understand
This isn't just goodbye
This is "I can't stand you"
This is where the road crashed into the ocean
It rises all around me
And now we're barely breathing
A thousand faces will choose to ignore

Curse my enemies for ever
Let's slit our wrists and burn down something beautiful
This desperation leaves me overjoyed
With fading lights that lead us past the lives that we destroyed

I listen to you cry
I cry for less attention
But both my hands are tied
And I'm pushed into the deep end
I listen to you talk, but talk is cheap
My mouth is filled with blood from trying not to speak
So search for an excuse, and someone to believe you
And for interesting moves I'm empty with the need to

Curse my enemies for ever
Let's slit our wrists and burn down something beautiful
This desperation leaves me overjoyed
With fading lights that lead us past the lives that we destroyed

Curse my enemies for ever
Let's slit our wrists and burn down something beautiful
This desperation is leaving me overjoyed
With fading lights that lead us past the lives that we destroyed


Please understand

Lay rotting where I fall
I'm dead from bad intentions
Suffocated and embalmed
And now all our dreams are cashed in
You swore you wouldn't lose then lost your brain
You make a sound that feels like pain

So please understand
This isn't just goodbye
This is "I can't stand you"



Lyrics submitted by Rochila_182

Track duration: 03:32


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    General Comment:it was written about Tom at the time of the break-up of blink. Its only called "No It Isn't" because when everyone asked mark if it was written about Tom he said "no it isnt"
    Flag RyanCPon March 01, 2011   Link
  • +2
    General Comment:this isn't just good bye, this is I can't stand you.

    great
    Flag keighleycakeson February 12, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:p.s. NEW BLINK ALBUM THIS SPRING, :D SOO EXCITING!
    Flag iswearillactenthusedon February 05, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:To me, it's pretty obvious this was about Tom....

    "Please understand, this isn't just goodbye. This is I can't stand you."
    Mark never wants to see Tom again.

    "This is where the road crashed into the ocean
    It rises all around me
    And now we're barely breathing"
    The road blink was going down could have been great, but now it's over and Mark is overwhelmed with thoughts of how much greater blink could have been if they had just stayed together. And now they have their own projects, but none of it will ever be as incredible as blink.


    "A thousand faces [we'll?] choose to ignore"
    I'm pretty sure it's "we'll"........This line is my favorite. Mark is saying that him and Tom are ignoring all the die-hard blink fans by breaking up, and it's just wrong.

    "Curse my enemies forever"
    He won't ever forgive Tom.

    "Let's slit our wrists and burn down something beautiful"
    It's like they're slitting their wrists, because they're only causing unnecessary pain by splitting up. And they've destroyed something amazing by splitting up, too.

    "This desperation leaves me overjoyed
    With fading lights that lead us past the lives that we destroyed"
    He's desperate to create something as great as blink, but the new side projects are just "fading lights" compared to their lives when blink was together.


    "I listen to you cry
    I cry for less attention"
    He thinks Tom's new music is too emotional, and not like the old Tom. And he's sick of everyone making a big deal about the blink breakup.

    "But both my hands are tied
    And I'm pushed into the deep end"
    He feels like it's expected of him to create something on the same level as blink, or maybe something better than AvA....

    "I listen to you talk, but talk is cheap"
    He's pissed off about how Tom was being so cocky over AvA. Kind of like he's saying "Oh really, AvA is going to be that great? Prove it."

    "My mouth is filled with blood from trying not to speak"
    Mark wants all the bullshit with him an Tom to stop, and he just wants to apologize, but he knows he shouldn't because Tom is just being an asshole.


    "So search for an excuse, and someone to believe you"
    He's talking about how Tom is blaming Mark and making up excuses for being a dick, and trying to make everyone believe him & be on his side.

    "And for interesting moves I'm empty with the need to
    Curse my enemies forever".....
    I'm not totally sure what this means, but maybe he's saying that he doesn't know what else to do but hate Tom for everything he's done.


    "Lay rotting where I fall
    I'm dead from bad intentions
    Suffocated and embalmed"
    Not sure exactly what this means either, but maybe he's just saying how terrible he feels about the blink breakup, and how he wished it hadn't gone down like that, or at all.

    "And now all our dreams are cashed in"
    They were fulfilling their dreams by being in blink, and now that's all over.

    "You swore you wouldn't lose then lost your brain"
    He thought that Tom wouldn't ever become what he did, but there he was.

    "You make a sound that feels like pain"
    Maybe it means Tom's words are hurting him, or maybe it's just s stab at how much Mark hates AvA. xD



    ....But that's just what it means to me. :P Hey, maybe it's not about Tom at all. It just really, really, really seems like it is.
    Maybe they made the title "No, It Isn't" as an answer to the question "Is this about Tom?" and it's just a sarcastic answer, or Mark denying it even though it really is.



    Flag iswearillactenthusedon February 05, 2011   Link
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    My Interpretation:Just to clear it up, this song was directed at Tom by Mark. He admitted it.
    Flag Danza91on May 05, 2010   Link
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    My Interpretation:This song probably is speaking about the breakup due to Tom

    "Please understand this isn't just goodbye, this is "I can't stand you""
    --> Tom didn't say he was quitting the band to Mark and Travis' face. He had the manager do it. Mark feels like this shows Tom wasn't just quitting or saying goodbye, he was saying he hated them by the cold, emotionless way he left.

    "This is where the road crashed into the ocean. It rises all around me and now we're barely breathing. A thousand faces will choose to ignore"
    --> Their tour suddenly stopped and the future they had as a band crashed. The news of Tom leaving shocked Mark and Tom. The thousand faces they are ignoring are the fans that they will be disappointing.

    "Curse my enemies forever. Let's slit our wrists and burn down something beautiful"
    --> Mark is saying that Tom is destroying something beautiful, Blink-182.

    "This desperation leaves me overjoyed with fading lights that lead us past the lives that we destroyed"
    --> Another line saying that Tom is destroying themselves and the band.


    The rest of the song keeps on talking about the breakup but I don't feel like writing all of it down. I think the point is made though.
    Flag CallTheAngelson July 23, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:Here's a new theory. Maybe it's not about Tom. Maybe (+44) fans all over have asked Mark Hoppus this question so many times that he finally got sick of them assuming it was about Tom and answered them through the song title "No, it isn't."
    Flag BassFuckon July 20, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:Alright, not EVERY song by +44 or AVA is about blink or Tom or any of that. They weren't THAT bitter towards each other after they split. Especially not enough to write something like this. I really don't think Mark would be the type to put something out there against Tom like that. I mean really, how long have they been friends?

    With Blink splitting it just means that everyone had more chances to explore a different style of writing and playing. This is just one of the things Mark experimented with.
    Flag YouGottaBjokingon February 23, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:I agree a lot with what other users have said.
    I think that this song may not intentionally be about Tom.
    They could've written it and their feelings just came out through the music, but I definitely do think there is some reference to Tom in the song.
    BUT..
    I wish there wasn't ..
    it doesn't matter though, because
    BLINK 182 IS BACK!
    and it's amazing .. and I'm so pumped.
    Flag kaileighwearspradaon February 09, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:this song is definately about tom. there are two theories as to why No It Isn't came to be the name. the first one is because mark says "No It Isn't" in reply to it apparently being his fault for the split of blink. the second is that people constantly asked if this was about tom, and mark didnt want the public to know it was, so he said "No It Isn't".
    this song is great, and it shows that tom possibly was the bad one in this relationship, even though i hate to say so. while tom was telling the media the split was marks fault, and showing off his new band, mark didnt say a word, because he IS a good friend, unlike tom.

    "I listen to you cry
    I cry for less attention
    But both my hands are tied
    And I'm pushed into the deep end
    I listen to you talk, but talk is cheap
    My mouth is filled with blood from trying not to speak
    So search for an excuse, and someone to believe you
    And for interesting moves I'm empty with the need to"

    i think this part says quite a bit.
    Flag ashlea2kon October 26, 2008   Link

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