Beyond the ridge to the left, you asked me what I want
Between the trees and cicadas singing around the pond
"I spent an hour with you, should I want anything else?"

One grinning wink like the neon on a liquor store
We were sixteen, maybe less, maybe a little more
I walked home smiling, I finally had a story to tell

And though an autumn time lullaby
Sang our newborn love to sleep
My brother told me he saw you there
In the woods one Christmas Eve, waiting

I met my wife at a party, when I drank too much
My son is married and tells me we don't talk enough
Call it predictable, yesterday my dream was of you

Beyond the ridge to the west, the sun had left the sky
Between the trees and the pond, you put your hand in mine
Said, "Time has bridled us both, but I remember you too"

And though an autumn time lullaby
Sang our newborn love to sleep
I dreamt I traveled and found you there
In the woods one Christmas Eve, waiting



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    Memory:And yes I want to call her tonight and call it off. Run away with love with her, but I was too scared I would hurt her in the end. I love her more than anything, more than myself. Thats why I let her go in spite of my feelings. I just wanted her to be happy.
    Flag penguin82on August 17, 2011   Link
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    Memory:I don't care what you people think what this song is about. I know what it means to me. I had never listened to Iron and Wine my whole life. Last year I met a woman that was suppose to be on a date with my best friend. Her and I hit it off so well, I pretty much took over the date. I was amazed by this girl. I had never met someone I connected with so much in an instant. When we said our goodbyes, I asked her later online if I could "hang out" with her again. She said yes and added that I must be the worst wingman in history for hitting on my friends date. The next day I gave in to my insecurities and I left my friend to continue his pursuit because I felt bad that I might have ruined their date. They ended up hitting it off too. I became jealous and even though I never said anything.

    One day he deployed to Iraq, he wanted me to look after her. Make sure she was okay. I agreed. We bagan hanging out. For the first month it was strictly friendly, but we both started catching feelings. She became my best friend. I could share everything with her. I was recently coming off a divorce and I had the attitude I never wanted to marry again. As hard as I tried not to, I fell in love with her. My best friends girl. My brother's girl. We carried on for months while he was gone. She was my better half, my immortal beloved, my everything. Then he came back.

    When he came back, things turned crazy. Truths came out and we started being together. But my old insecurities from my prior marriage came back to haunt me. I started thinking I wasnt good enough for her. That she was only going to leave me or cheat on me. Eventually it was a self fulfilling prophecy and she strayed. It killed me. After it all I still loved her and wanted her. We tried to work it out again, but my insecurities were only amplified. I forgave but I could not forget. I broke her heart constantly. I broke up with her for perceived slights, even at one point in a drunken moment tried to physically hurt her. My guilt and self loath only increased, yet we pressed on because we loved each other.

    But nothing changed. I didn't get over my insecurities and one night it exploded and I pushed her so hard to end us. We broke up. But we were still seeing each other. We couldn't help it. I could never picture my life without her and she couldn't either. We carried on in this manner for a month till I found out she was seeing the old boyfriend that she left for me again unbeknownst to me. I found out she was seeing him and so much more. For a week it seemed my heart and mind were in complete chaos. I kept wanting to work it out no matter what. Because I knew ultimately my actions pushed her to it. I wanted her to know I could change, but I had broken so many promises before. It was too far for me and for her. She wanted with all her heart to believe in me, but I couldn't believe in myself to change.

    So I did something unthinkable. I offered my help in getting her and my best friend back together again. He made her constantly happy. He was the sure shot and I was the long shot. I loved her that much...I just wanted her to be happy, no stress. So I told her I loved her and said I would talk to him...

    Today on this day the 17 of August 2011 I did that...and he seemed to agree about working things out with her. I lied to him, said it was all just a misunderstanding, she made a mistake, work things out. At the time I was for it. I wanted to do it before I lost my nerve. I just wanted her to be happy. I hope she knows I loved her like no other.

    As far as how this song pertains to my situation. Our love was brief, but real. My brother found her in those woods, and I live on with the dream that one day we will hold hands and she will tell me she loved me just as much as I loved her and never forgot her....penguin
    Flag penguin82on August 17, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:A lot of people have written that this song is about regret but I think perhaps he's talking less about regret than just the way we never forget the first time we loved, or how we remember it in such prettier colors than reality. It's unclear if he's happy with his current wife and kid, but looking back years ago he remembers that encounter romantically because its just easier to see the past perfectly than the present. I love that line, "time has bridled us both" since there's nothing definitively sad about his present (that we know of) but, for some reason, the present is always sadder than looking back.
    Flag johnq234on December 01, 2010   Link
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    Memory:I briefly dated a girl during the summer I turned 16 and went out of touch in the autumn. She died two years later but I know I will continue to see her in my dreams and in the corner of my eye, however rarely.

    Sometimes a song fits into my heart like a long-lost puzzle piece.
    Flag introspectiveMonkeyon July 19, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:This is such a beautiful song- lyrically and musically. Second only to the Trapeze Swinger which will always be my favorite IW song.
    Flag bmasc814on February 03, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:Wow. This song song really hit home for me, and I think it did for a lot of folks. Everyone has had that one young love that slipped away, and I think this is just Sam's way of sharing that story. Beautiful.
    Flag bobbybobcaton January 20, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:this song makes me cry and smile at the same time. <3
    Flag noiamnotwhereibelongon November 06, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:For me this song is about how much we expect from life when we are sixteen. We imagine our future and it's always so happy and as we want it. But in fact life is never how we want it. It is, let's face it, very disappointing at times. And that's exactly what the song is about. Many years have passed and he reminisces the happy days he had spent.
    Flag Magdalennaon September 05, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:The meaning of this song is actually quite simple (my input, anyway). The lyrics mean exactly what he says. He's singing about a girl he used to love, perhaps his true love, as a grown and married man.

    "Beyond the ridge to the left, you asked me what I want
    Between the trees and cicadas singing around the pond
    "I spent an hour with you, should I want anything else?""


    This is clearly the beginning of their love. She asks him what he's getting from the relationship and he's questioning whether he should pursue it.
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    "One grinning wink like the neon on a liquor store
    We were sixteen, maybe less, maybe a little more
    I walked home smiling, I finally had a story to tell"


    He decides to pursue her and is satisfied with the decision he makes by the end of the night (week, month, year, etc.)
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    "And though an autumn time lullaby
    Sang our newborn love to sleep"

    Over the course of time their love just died and it was over.
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    "My brother told me he saw you there
    In the woods one Christmas Eve, waiting"

    He knows she is still in love with him, or was at the time.
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    "I met my wife at a party, when I drank too much
    My son is married and tells me we don't talk enough"

    He's old now. He's married a woman he doesn't love. He sounds as though he regrets it and can't find a way out of the marriage. Also, his son is married and mature.
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    "Call it predictable, yesterday my dream was of you"

    He still thinks and dreams of this girl from long ago.
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    "Beyond the ridge to the west, the sun had left the sky
    Between the trees and the pond, you put your hand in mine
    Said, "Time has bridled us both, but I remember you too""

    He meets up with the girl where they used meet all the time. Still very fond of each other after all these years, she remembers him too and thinks of him.
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    "And though an autumn time lullaby
    Sang our newborn love to sleep
    I dreamt I traveled and found you there
    In the woods one Christmas Eve, waiting"

    This is the most difficult of stanzas, which may throw a lot of people off. My intake is that he dreamt of meeting her in the previous stanza. He never really went to visit her. Perhaps he is too scared that she won't still be in love with him.
    Flag thes0ngdron March 01, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:this song is definately about thinking about a past love in his current life. maybe not real but. I met my wife at a party, when I drank too much
    My son is married and tells me we don't talk enough
    Call it predictable, yesterday my dream was of you. why would he say my son...my dream was of you...see his life didnt take the course he thought of so hes dreaming of maybe a summer love in his teens.
    Flag croniccruzeron January 16, 2009   Link

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