Some people think they're always right
Others are quiet and uptight
Others, they seem so very nice
Inside they might feel sad and wrong

Twenty-nine different attributes
Only seven that you like
Twenty ways to see the world
Twenty ways to start a fight

Oh, don't don't don't get out
I can't see the sunshine
I'll be waiting for you baby
'Cause I'm through
Sit me down, shut me up
I'll calm down
And I'll get along with you

Men don't notice what they got
Women think of that a lot
One thousand ways to please your man
Not even one requires a plan

And countless odd religions too
It doesn't matter which you choose
One stubborn way to turn your back
I guess I've tried and I refuse

Don't don't don't get out
I can't see the sunshine
Oh, I'll be waiting for you baby
'Cause I'm through
Sit me down, shut me up
I'll calm down
And I'll get along with you

Alright

Shut me up
Shut me up
And I'll get along with you



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  • +1
    General Comment:Everyone has perspective and so they don't always align with others perspectives. All fights are caused by differences in perspective. Men and women naturally have different perspectives. Sometimes perspectives are just too far apart and so there is no sense in fighting what can't be won. Consequently you focus on just getting along.
    Flagged Outofmymndon August 06, 2012   Link
  • +1
    General Comment:This is a great song by a great band that screams I DON'T WANT YOU TO GET ALONG WITH ME. I don't want you near me! I want you to take your superficial, plastic personality and get lost! At some point someone told you you are ALL THAT and that you're not middle age. Guess what. You're not ALL THAT and you ARE middle age. And something's wrong when you find it perfectly acceptable to be with young things who have the intellectual development of slugs and the wisdom of dung beetles but older adult women aren't your thing. Yes, this song screams I HAVE NO INTEREST in someone who finds me old and disgusting. NONE. So get lost! There are plenty of men who desire me regardless of my age and looks. Asshole!
    Flagged IllToast2Thaton May 18, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:some people think they're always right
    others are quiet and uptight
    others they seem so very nice nice nice nice nice
    inside they might feel sad and wrong

    --- The differences in people's personalities, obviously. Also noting how people can appear one way & feel another way.

    29 different attributes
    only 7 that you like
    20 ways to see the world
    20 ways to start a fight

    ---Someone has 29 traits, but you only like 7, making it hard to get along with them. The differences in people's perspectives can cause problems. Hence "20 ways to start a fight". Basically, it's easy to focus on people's flaws & allow differences to cause conflict.

    don't don't don't get up
    I can't see the sunshine
    I'll be waiting for you baby
    cause I'm through

    ---He's telling the girl he's with to not make a big effort to change or please him (don't get up), basically. He can't see the positives right now (the sun shining), but he's willing to wait it out, because he's done with being overly critical of someone & throwing out a relationship with potential.

    sit me down
    shut me up
    I'll calm down
    and I'll get along with you

    --- He's telling her he'll get over his frustrations & make it work with her.


    oh men don't notice what they got
    women think of that a lot
    1,000 ways to please your man
    not even 1 requires a plan

    ---He's telling her not to get frustrated either, and that it's true men take women for granted, but that it's not difficult to please them still. He's telling her she doesn't need to fuss a lot over the relationship, but to just enjoy it & go with the flow.

    countless odd religions too
    it does't matter which you choose
    one stubborn way to turn your back
    this I've tried and I refuse

    --- He again mentions the differences people have (religion, used as an illustration), & how they get stuck on their one viewpoint even if several may lead to the same good outcome. He sees this as a stubbornness which makes you blind to possible good things. He's been stubborn & blind before & it didn't work for him, so now he refuses to give into the tendency.



    In short, the song is about not being overly critical of someone you're in a relationship with, not focusing on their flaws, not stubbornly insisting on your way, not being impatient with them, not being overly demanding or accomodating, and basically getting over these negative perspectives, calming down, & appreciating the person for those qualities that drew you to them to begin with.
    Flag voodoodollyon August 23, 2011   Link
  • 0
    My Opinion:this song inspired me to get a tatoo on my wrist thats says "you only live once"
    this song is the syrup to my pancakes i cant live without it !
    Flag DROOLS4JULESon May 23, 2011   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:Great song! I do love the older Strokes stuff but also the upbeat-sounding 'newer' songs!

    "You Only Live Once"... I can really identify with this song right now.. got it on repeat constantly. Thanks people, for interpretations; I honestly lurk here all the time for many years but never give input, and I love all the things people conclude about song meanings. It means a lot and helps a lot.

    "Sit me down, shut me up" gawd, I love that line. <3
    Flag RaspberryIcedTeaon October 19, 2010   Link
  • 0
    Song Meaning:It's about fucking, pure and simple. Even the explaination posted from that booklet alludes to that.
    Flag Whale1taleon September 22, 2010   Link
  • 0
    Song Meaning:It's about fucking, pure and simple. Even the explaination posted from that booklet alludes to that.
    Flag Whale1taleon September 22, 2010   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:to me this song is about tolerance, and all the things the world has to offer, so why not experience as much of it as you can in this one life we have. the song talks about everything from men and women relations to religion,etc. it's about trying new things instead of always bashing or arguing with people trying to make them see things your way- why not try it theirs or do something new? after all, as the title says you only live once, and with soo many different cultures, opinions, entertainment styles, people,etc- why limit yourself? to me that's what ht esong is all about
    Flag atlantastrokesloveron June 28, 2010   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:The film clip to me really enhances this song's meaning.

    Its about not dwelling too much on the more prosaic aspects of life, cos you wont get out alive.
    Flag StrayDog86on June 15, 2010   Link
  • 0
    General Comment:wait....what does bedhead4days mean by 41 being too deep for the song?? whats 41?
    Flag ironic1212on March 28, 2010   Link

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