Helena, don't walk away
Before you give me back my heart
If it were mine it would be yours to take
I'm sorry I let down my guard, oh Helena

You looked so sweet
I should have seen
While I was playing for fun
You were playing for keeps

You win I lose
Is there some way
You can leave me
In your debts oh my girl

And I can live to die another day
On that day I won't forget you Helena

You look so sweet
Waiting for me
While I wait for her
To give me any reason to leave

Don't waste your pretty sympathy
She's gonna be just fine
Helena so will we
So will everything in time

Helena don't walk away
Did you hear one word I said oh well
I never really liked her anyway
And I forgot her: I'll forget you Helena

You're not that sweet
And neither is she
Go ahead and tell her anything

You are good Helena
Guys like me never sleep alone at night
I don't need your sympathy
Cause I'll always be
Just fine
Yeah I'll always be
Just fine

Yeah I'll always be
Just fine



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Track duration: 04:41

"Helena" as written by Chris Thile

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    Song Meaning:The author of this song meets Helena somewhere and engages in innocent flirting, but as Helena flirts with him she steals his heart. He wants her immediately but he can't because there's he's in a committed relationship with his current girlfriend. He explains to Helena that he doesn't care about his current girlfriend and asks her to wait for his current relationship to fizzle out, to which she takes offense and leaves. Then humiliated and having ruined any potential with the girl he's already with, he lashes out and claims that he didn't see any chance of them working out anyway and defensively states that he can get any girl he wants.
    Flag Heyuhmaybeon July 19, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:I don't think this is a story about cheating -
    He had a relationship with Helena, and he moved on, and found somebody else, but he still thinks of Helena, probably because his and Helena's relationship was light, and his new girlfriend is complicated.

    He led Helena on, which he states in "While I was playing for fun, you were playing for keeps"
    And thats probably why she didn't want him anymore.
    Flag meaurelon October 26, 2010   Link
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    My Interpretation:The lines "While I was playing for fun, You were playing for keeps," are meant in regards to his heart. Especially since he mentions letting down his guard; he's saying that he didn't plan to fall in love with her.
    "While I wait for her, To give me any reason to leave," is in reference to the other woman in his life. What I see happening here is there being a woman in his life who he's in love with, and while they're on a break or something (maybe he cheats on her; that's what a lot of people seem to think is happening, although I never got that from this song until I read it here) he rebounds to Helena. He's waiting for the other woman to let him go, because he's not entirely sure if he's fallen out of love with her yet; he has no real reason to, and he's waiting for her to give him one.
    Even so, he decides to stay with Helena, that's why he's telling her not to "waste [her] pretty sympathy," on the other woman. But for some reason she decides to leave and that's when the tone of the song switches to anger and resentment. Even though he thought he loved her, he's now telling Helena that just like the other woman, she's nothing special, and he could get anyone. "I'll forget you too/ Guys like me never sleep alone."
    The "Go ahead and tell her anything," part is what makes it seem like maybe he was cheating on someone with Helena. But it could also just mean that Helena is trying to warn his new girlfriend of how indecisive and flaky he can be.
    Either way, the song ends with him regretting falling in love with Helena, and telling her that she meant nothing to him, even though the end repeating lines of "I'll be just fine..." seem more like he's trying to convince himself of it.
    Flag realityinvazionon August 11, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:A lot of people are forgetting that the narrator has TWO girls in his life. Helena and "she". "She" is the girl that he is currently with, but he doesn't love her anymore and is cheating on her with Helena.
    The line "While I wait for her to give me any reason to leave" is talking about how he's waiting on "she" to dump him instead of him getting rid of her.
    By "I was playing for fun, you were playing for keeps" means that he was just using her in a sexual sense, but helena thought that they were in an actual relationship that was moving somewhere.
    "Don't waste your pretty sympathy. She's gonna be just fine." This is where Helena finds out about "she", and doesn't like it. The Narrator tells her not to feel sorry for her, she'll be ok.
    "Helena don't walk away. Did you hear one word I said? oh well, I never really liked her anyway, And I forgot her: I'll forget you Helena" He loses Helena at this point, and by now his relationship with "she" is over too. He tells Helena that he will forget her just like he forgot his last girlfriend.
    "Go ahead and tell her anything" Helena has, or is going to tell "she" about the narrator's relationship with her, and he tells her that shes not that sweet, and niether was "she".
    "you are good Helena" is likely sarcastic and spoken from anger. The narrator now has niether woman, but he claims that guys like him never sleep alone, meaning he will simply find another girl to be with, and that he'll be just fine.


    Fantastic song from a fantastic album.





    Flag Fumbles16on July 26, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:i agree with all of you on what this song is about. i just love this song. even if ive never experienced what the singer has, these lyrics are so amazing and a line here and there can relate to pretty much every situation ive ever been in. one of my all time favorite songs.
    Flag imsogoingcrazyon July 19, 2010   Link
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    Song Meaning:a guy who hates himself for not being to treat women the way they deserve to be treated. as previously noted, the arrangement and production of this song are absolutely flawless. starting so soft, leaving us hanging on with the drifting violin solo, the menacing bass and then sending us out with the full drum set and dissonant harmonies.

    helena, don't waste your pretty sympathy on me, go and tell her anything you want, guys like us never sleep alone at night. i'll always be just fine. just fine.

    i'm out of what was a long run of being a player. john mayer's assassin nails this feeling too. i don't have huge regrets, i don't wish i could do it all over, i don't have the time for that kind of self pity. did i have some fun? absolutely, it's a blast being an asshole and having a different girl every week. but it ends, like everything must, and now i have this weight to carry with me and a list of great girls who i didn't treat right. i can't bitch about them being with tools and settling for less, because they were doing that with the guy i used to be too.
    Flag drmartinion February 02, 2010   Link
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    General Comment:My best friend found a letter that her boyfriend had written to his ex. It said something along lines of 'yeah, i have a girl friend now but i'd leave her in a heartbeat for you.' Needless to say, my friend was distraught.

    I immediately thought of this song. Just like Helena, my friend was nothing more than a filler girlfriend.
    Flag CandicePon March 19, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:When I heard this song, I thought it was the the narrator is in a relationship and has an affair with Helena who he falls in love with and wants to leave this other girl for her, but he doesn't want the break up to be his fault so he asks Helena to wait until this other girl does something wrong. When he asks Helena she gets pissed and breaks up with the guy and says shes going to tell this other girl everything. In the end he says relationships suck, he doesn't need either one of them because he can go get girls wherever he wants.
    Flag Loial73on June 29, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:This song is a masterpiece! It sounds out as just a breath, and ends with the full band.

    The arrangement of the song tells the story just as much as the lyrics do, in my opinion. It starts out so slow and simple in the first verse but builds quite gradually as the narrator's insistence grows. I imagine Sara's fiddle solo after the first verse to be Helena's sad response - pleading with the narrator to please not leave her, even as he tells her there's another woman she begs him to stay with her.

    The narrator's second verse (and his reply to Helena) is harsher and more insistent as he tries to paint a clearer picture for Helena. I think that deep down he cares about her, but he makes himself out to be such a "jerk" in order to make the split easier on Helena. He knows that he's in love with the other girl, but still knows that Helena deserves better than him.
    Flag realdiamondson May 26, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:I agree a bit with duckandcover23. He is an unfortunate lost cause even though he doesn't want to be. This starts towards the end of his and Helena's fling, and he's asking her to wait on him. She's realizing it's not going anywhere and doesn't want to waste anymore time. He didn't intentionally fall for her, he "let down his guard", and she got him anyways. Because she "was playing for keeps", she actually makes him fall for her. He's asking for his heart back because he knows that his girl would sense a difference if he's really longing to be with Helena and she's not around.

    She won his heart, and he loses because he can't be with her without hurting his first girl. He wants her to "leave him in her debts", basically have something to collect later after he and his girl's time has finally passed without her as a reason. He doesn't want her to have any part in his confusion with his original girl. And when they do break up, he plans to go back to Helena.

    The lyrics should be YOU'LL look so sweet waiting for me. And this part is self-explanatory. He's just daydreaming Helena waiting in love as ever until his current relationship fades due not to him but to the other girl. This really shows how sad the guy is. He doesn't know how to deal with his feelings at all. He actually loves Helena, but what he has with his current girl is so good that she isn't reason enough for him to leave or he just doesn't want the breakup to be on him. This is not the first instance that shows he doesn't like the blame cast on himself. That was shown when he didn't intentionally fall for Helena and says it's her fault. He's also attempting to sweet-talk her into waiting by calling her sweet and saying she has his heart.

    But Helena feels bad for the other girl. The guy just doesn't get it and pushes Helena farther away until it's too late. She leaves with his heart. He doesn't really understand why. He had such a *convincing* argument for why she should wait. He turns to bitterness in order to not feel heartbroken by telling her that he'll just forget about her even though it's obvious he won't.

    He attempts to break her down and make her feel guilty by saying that she can say whatever she wants because he's such a charming and good-looking guy that he can get any woman he wanted anyways. Helena, because she has his heart and can actually figure out what he feels, sees how pathetic he is (not the bad pathetic, the sad pathetic), but he tells her he doesn't need her sympathy and tries to convince himself that he'll be alright even though he won't.
    Flag racheleecheleon January 21, 2008   Link

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