Well, in my opinion this song is about being a young & maybe a little naive &/or introverted girl and finding yourself loving a man who is at first very charming, carefree & outgoing, and seems at first to be without limits, as in
"There was a time
you opened up every doorway
you didn't mind if everything
wasn't your way"
then that man starts to gradually become more introverted & shows their more possessive/obsessive side to you as the relationship progresses, even while they keep up the appearance of being carefree & outgoing to everyone else,
"Don't pull away
that goes against what you told me
I look in your eyes
I realize what you've sold me
is love in a vacuum"
so you confront them about the way they're acting and of course they deny it,
"I think you've changed
but you insist that
that's not true"
quite possibly they are an addict of some sort, my guess would be cocaine, &/or showing very obsessive behavior towards you (early on in the video for this song we see the man hanging a picture up, it is a very large portrait of Aimee & it is prominently displayed in his/their apartment for the duration of the song), thus their "love in a vacuum",
"You look so strange, so distant
that you're hardly you
Now I can see
how you have been acting different
You say it's me
but I know
that it isn't
it's love in a vacuum"
but still you are in love with them and don't want to leave them and you know that they are truly in love with you and they don't want you to leave them either, maybe they are convinced you can save them from themself, maybe they are so broken that the possibility of an overdose &/or suicide attempt is very real and you want to get through to them that their behavior not only dangerous but it is also just pissing you off and if they don't wise up they run the risk of loosing you, as in the lines
"You will be lonely
if you leave me alone", so you want to save them but can't get through to them due to the addiction &/or emotional problems they have,
"Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
love in a vacuum
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
You will be lonely
if you leave me alone
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough"
you want them to understand that the love they are giving you is not enough when it is filtered through the vacuum of their drug addiction &/or emotional impairment,
"You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough
and just wait
you will be lonely
Love in a vacuum
Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
Love in a vacuum".
'Love In A Vacuum' for me is a hauntingly truthful acute argument on the loneliness of obsession and almost inevitable loss of love that follows people who are broken in some way or another; the obsessives, the coke heads, the drunks, addicts or the just-plain-old emotionally broken; a razor sharp, lyrically driven, deceptively poppy, yet ultimately-depressing-in-the-best-way song.
Quintessential Aimee Mann.
It wasn't always like this
It wasn't always so
We did it in the darkness
We did it in the cold
Caught in a fairly extraordinary world
It's emotional
Where talking it rarely that necessary
And time doesn't count at all
Bohemian boys and Brazilian girls
Make familiar noise in a familiar world
Its like a million beats in a Parisian heart
(They're made of glass)
Working the west with the girls from the east
Working a sweat from a million beats
Where oblivion stops and oblivion starts
(They're made of glass)
Love makes the world go round
I hold it in my hands
But it slips away
(And I watch it fade)
Love is a mystery
I hear it talk to me
But the words are strange
(Like it knows my name)
Love makes the world go round
I hold it in my hands
But it slips away
(And I watch it fade)
Love is a mystery
I hear it talk to me
But the words are strange
(Were made of glass)
It wasn't always easy
It wasn't always fun
We intertwine naively
But in the end we're one
Caught in a fairly extraordinary world
It's emotional
Where talking it rarely that necessary
And time doesn't count at all
Love makes the world go round
I hold it in my hands
But it slips away
(And I watch it fade)
Love is a mystery
I hear it talk to me
But the words are strange
(Like it knows my name)
Love makes the world go round
I hold it in my hands
But it slips away
(And I watch it fade)
Love is a mystery
I hear it talk to me
But the words are strange
(They're made of glass)
It wasn't always so
We did it in the darkness
We did it in the cold
Caught in a fairly extraordinary world
It's emotional
Where talking it rarely that necessary
And time doesn't count at all
Bohemian boys and Brazilian girls
Make familiar noise in a familiar world
Its like a million beats in a Parisian heart
(They're made of glass)
Working the west with the girls from the east
Working a sweat from a million beats
Where oblivion stops and oblivion starts
(They're made of glass)
Love makes the world go round
I hold it in my hands
But it slips away
(And I watch it fade)
Love is a mystery
I hear it talk to me
But the words are strange
(Like it knows my name)
Love makes the world go round
I hold it in my hands
But it slips away
(And I watch it fade)
Love is a mystery
I hear it talk to me
But the words are strange
(Were made of glass)
It wasn't always easy
It wasn't always fun
We intertwine naively
But in the end we're one
Caught in a fairly extraordinary world
It's emotional
Where talking it rarely that necessary
And time doesn't count at all
Love makes the world go round
I hold it in my hands
But it slips away
(And I watch it fade)
Love is a mystery
I hear it talk to me
But the words are strange
(Like it knows my name)
Love makes the world go round
I hold it in my hands
But it slips away
(And I watch it fade)
Love is a mystery
I hear it talk to me
But the words are strange
(They're made of glass)
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Before a live performance on the EP Five Stories Falling, Geoff states “It’s about the last time I went to visit my grandmother in Columbus, and I saw that she was dying and it was the last time I was going to see her. It is about realizing how young you are, but how quickly you can go.”
That’s the thing about Geoff and his sublime poetry, you think it’s about one thing, but really it’s about something entirely different. But the lyrics are still universal and omnipresent, ubiquitous, even. So relatable. That’s one thing I love about this band. I also love their live performances, raw energy and Geoff’s beautiful, imperfectly perfect vocals. His voice soothes my aching soul.
Rachel Stevens recorded this single after Kylie intended not to release it, but then Kylie released it as the B-side of "Giving You Up" in 2005 and Rachel's single was dropped.