I was twenty and she was eighteen
We were just about as wild as we were green
In the ways of the world
She'd pick me up in that red rag top
We were free of the folks and hiding from the cops
On a summer night
Running all the red lights
We'd park way out in a clearing in a grove
And the night was as hot as a coal-burning stove
We were cooking with gas
Knew it had to last

[Chorus]
In the back of that red rag top
She said please don't stop

Well the very first time her mother met me
Her green-eyed girl had been a mother-to-be
For two weeks
I was out of job and she was in school
And life was fast and the world was cruel
We were young and wild
We decided not to have the child
So we did what we did and we tried to forget
And we swore up and down there would be no regrets
In the morning light
But on the way home that night

[Chorus]

We took one more trip around the sun
But it was all make believe in the end
And no I can't say where she is today
I can't remember who I was back then

Well you do what you do and you pay for your sins
And there's no such thing as what might have been
That's a waste of time
Drive you out of your mind
I was stopped at a red light just yesterday
Beside a young girl in a cabriolet
And her eyes were green
And I was in an old scene

[Chorus]
I was back in that red rag top
On the day she stopped loving me
I was back in that red rag top
On the day she stopped loving me



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"Red Ragtop" as written by Jason White

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    General Comment:I was pretty shocked the first time I heard this song, which was probably in middle school, because I had always known country music to be largely conservative in subject matter. I've always loved the melody though, no question. Now that I'm in my early twenties I really appreciate this song because I think its pretty damn brave to address issues with your art, even if you're just acknowledging its existence and not necessarily taking a side. This will probably always be one of my favorite country tunes. Good for you, Tim.
    Flag audgirlon March 02, 2013   Link
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    General Comment:I got pregnant the summer before my senior year of high school. My boyfriend had graduated the year before and wasn't working. I knew I had much bigger dreams than I could have accomplished with a baby, so we decided not to have the child. It was both the best and most difficult decision of my life. I never blamed the guy for letting me terminate the pregnancy, and I broke up with him because I knew he was simply not part of the life I wanted. There will always be a small place in my soul where he and the baby live, even though the baby never got a chance. Sometimes I think about how my life would be different, and each year around the due date I imagine my child getting older. But in the end I have to remember that you do what you do, and you pay for your sins, and there's no such thing as what might have been.
    Flag nyqueston April 02, 2012   Link
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    General Comment:Perfectly describes my first long relationship- "i was 20 and she was 18, just about as wild as we were green in the ways of the world", having a relationship based on first love and sex, based on the summer and being free, being young and stupid and not yet grown up. "It was all make believe in the end
    No I can�t say where she is today
    I can�t remember who I was back then" This is us now. Crazy. I had heard this song before but never had it pertained to me, but we were those same ages. Made me cry
    Flag larokon April 04, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:Okay 1st of all, ppl have to get over the fact that their is gonna be plenty of songs that ppl might be disgusted by or disagree of liking the song...Just because it has the "A" word in this song doesnt mean its a bad, horrible, disgusting song!!! gzz, get over it ppl!!! anyway, I love Tim Mccgraw! I think hez just wonderful, and this song is good....
    Its basically about middle age couple who think at the time life together is great, and as their relationship goes on the girl gets preggers...so, "they do what they do" and after their decision their relationship starts to fail.. "one more trip around the sun" means, one more yr they stood together..
    she ends up moving on with her life, and the guy really doesnt...cause lets face it here ppl.It takes guys ALOT longer to get over something that happens in their life that mighta affected them... cause guys hide their feelings alot more then us girls... and in this guys case in the song.. the abortion did...he always remembered it. Even though he cant remember who he was back then, he certainly remembers that day, the red rag top, and the girl with those green eyes! ;)
    Flag polishlove81on November 14, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:I've actually not heard Tim's version, just Jason White's. I've got to say I was pretty disgusted by this song, because it was sung as a "cut little love song" but then throws abortion in there like it's all just part of the game. To me the tone of the song was not a sad one and showed no regret. How about "this is a consequence of fornication that young people should avoid". To me it wasn't saying that at all, more like "this is all part of falling in love". It shows how twisted our society has become.
    Flag nashjasonon May 10, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:This song to me has no connection to abortion. To me it is just about young love. How much you want that person to love you forever......but then...in the blink of an eye it is gone. Then so many years later, and so much heartache later.....somthing makes you remember it. It hurts like hell, yet brings a smile to you. You just want to know how your old love is. You want to know are they alright now? Do they know that you "swore to never stop loving them" ment that even now they hold a small part of your heart....no one can take away......
    Flag greendaygirl96on March 11, 2009   Link
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    General Comment:What a discretely intense song! I heard this today and had to look it up. Honestly, it left me with a tiny hole in MY heart.

    This song is, yes, about young love and how our actions can get ahead of reality. I understand that these two celebrated their love but managed to sacrifice it at the same time. Many of us have been there. Then, later it's tough not to play the dangerous What-If game. We simply must make every choice while remembering that tomorrow we will be forced to live with what we chose.

    Also, looking back later, the past always appears a bit rosier than it really was. Hardly anyone looks back on those experiences and says, "Man, glad I got out of THAT situation!" We always manage to miss the person we were with at the time. Nostalgia can be a PAIN.
    Flag nerdy_scarletton December 23, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:Jan11,
    You're a beautiful person. I know that insane fear of finding out you're pregnant. It's like all your sense gets twisted, but you don't realize it. I'm pregnant now by my guy of 3 years and just about to start college in the fall. When we first found out we both felt like our lives were over. I stopped eating for a few days thinking I'd just miscarry and that would be that. As if that was somehow not abortion. Anyway, I got really lucky and my head started to clear before I did any real damage to the baby. And now I'm horrified that I ever wished he was gone. The experience actually turned me pro-life because I just don't think it's fair to let a terrified, confused girl make such a huge decision without possibly being able to understand the effect it will have on her once she's had some time to think. I'm so sorry that you feel such guilt, but one mistake made out of fear doesn't make you some kind of monster. The fact that you feel such remorse now, however, speaks volumes for what a kind, good person you are. I hope someday you come to see that.
    Flag mrspuumon August 06, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:Jan11,
    You are not a terrible person at all. I obviously don't know you but I know a few girls who have had abortions and really regret them like you but they are incredible, strong women. Everyone makes mistakes. I am pro life, but in my opinion, the abortion clinics are way more to blame than the women.

    I'm sure nothing I can say will make you feel better, but know I'm praying for you.
    Flag mmms2009on March 24, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:^ to above poster. you are not a terrible, disgusting person. i am against abortion but i still feel for you. you're life is not over. please don't feel that way about yourself.

    anyway i love this song. im only 17 and i think its kinda funny how it came on in this camper me and my girlfriend were in the first time we were about to have sex. not that it happened but idk im always going to think of her when i hear this song.
    Flag bottlerocket88on November 23, 2007   Link

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