Used to worry for each other
No one's bothered like before
We sleep with each others friends
Sneak around, fall apart, and come back for more
We sit around drinking tables
Stabilized and keeping score
But my mind is somewhere out the door

Oh, we have grown
Maybe I've overstayed awhile
In my time in exile and
Oh, time has flown
And the only thing I've learned
I want a life now of my own

We go to clubs
The songs are old
The evening's blown
We go our ways
And take taxi's home
Talk of Sunday outings
And medicate to fight the doubting
But we know we'll always be alone

We have grown
I've overstayed awhile
In my time in exile and
Oh, time has flown
And the only thing learned
I want a life now of my own
Of my own

But that's my year spent in exile
Second guessed and dressed up in tatters
My birth feet didn't take this path
And I'm still looking for a life that matters
More than chit chat
We listen to The Streets
We're all deadbeats
And these old habits are starting to show through
Sorry I didn't get to know you

Oh, time has flown
I've overstayed awhile
In my time in exile and
Oh, we have grown
The one thing that I've learned
I want a life now of my own

Bye bye to the friends I've known
In my time in exile



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    General Comment:This has to deal with relationship issues cause they used to sleep with each others fiends they would fall apart and come back to each other, he remains with the person with time flying and hes realizing their growing apart hes over stayed a while which i think hes saying they've been together too long Thats why time has Flown, Now Hes saying bye to the Friends he met while Being with Her, And he calls it his time in exile because he ignored how he felt and what he wanted to do and possibly his friends, So NOW he wants his life Back He wants a life of his own.
    Flag slexxysaturnon November 03, 2011   Link
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    General Comment:3eBfan nailed it 100%

    Yes, there is obviously some relationship worked into these lyrics, however, here it's just a vehicle used to convey this mood of dissatisfaction with the world in which he lives. He's got a girl who sleeps around. He gets drunk every night. He takes drugs to feel better. And after, "a year spent in exile" which translates to a year of doing something he knew didn't fit with him, he's tired. He wants something that actually has substance; something he can feel down to the very core of his inner being. Something that he doesn't doubt in the least. No second guessing. No lies. Only truth.
    Flag Macbeth_061on October 01, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:To me, this song is about a guy that has spent a lot of his time wasting time with friends, drinking, sleeping around, not doing anything meaningful... And time has crept up on him and he's realised he needs his own life, that he needs to grow up, leave these 'friends', and get a life of his own.
    Flag antigravity83on September 28, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:This song is about a relationship gone sour. The two of them have been together for awhile but now it's getting boring for the both of them. Although they're still "together" they sleep around and don't even worry about cheating with each other anymore because the love is gone. He's getting sick of this relationship and wants to just leave permanently but yet something is holding him back from leaving even though he feels miserable about the whole relationship.
    Flag lmaye83on February 22, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:First a few understandings:
    1. Exile is an ironic play on words. In his meaningless sociality he is exiled from himself.
    2. The "we" could be anyone but in this song it is a actual group of friends.
    3. He loves his friends and the moments but he recognizes their futility.

    "We have grown, time has flown, and the only thing I've learned, I want a life now of my own (something meaningful and real)."

    "We sit around drinking tables, stabilized and keeping score, but my mind is somewhere out the door (there must be something more)."

    "That's my year spent in exile, second guessed (by himself) and dresed up in tatters, my birth feet didn't take this path (this is not his destiny) and I'm still looking for a life that matters (more than chit chat.)"

    "I've overstayed (time to go home) awhile..."
    Flag 3EBfan23on February 16, 2008   Link
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    General Comment:Exile is a forced time spent away from home so to me it could mean he was married and now divorced and trying to relive his bachelor days and has relised he liked having a "home"....also could mean alot more..
    Flag crombiegirl00on November 08, 2007   Link
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    General Comment:he' stuck in a life with little to move on to and is the same blandness everyday. he realized that he needs to change or move on to better himself. "i'm sorry i didn't get to know you" represents a girl that was there the whole time and regrets not looking into her. she could of been the small ignificant essence that would of changed his out look and life there. but he overlooked her now regrets. life could of been completely differnt if she was in his life. if only he took the them to see this when he had the chance...

    peace
    Flag dttenorioon May 08, 2007   Link
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    General Comment:he has become accustom to this life, of "sitting around drinking tables". Now he is realizing he's been there too long, exile. Time has flown, and he knows its time, time to start his life. He might have a girl or just friends that are not elevating him.

    And it hits him, just like it hits us. We need to change. Looking for a life that is more than chit chat.
    Flag whatsup222on January 25, 2007   Link
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    General Comment:i think this song is about a relationship that was just destructive and one that he did not feel like himself in. where he says "sorry I didn't get to know you" it's like even though they spent a year together he didn't act like he usually does.

    he left his old friends and life and was in "exile" during the relationship. at first it was a high for him but it's old now.
    Flag 3ebLoveron June 25, 2006   Link
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    General Comment:i also agree with Tigerlily and Soultears, i feel this song is about him being with this girl but he knows he's worn out the welcome and feels he has to move on. another sad song to the list of my favorites...

    peace,
    Flag black-sapphireon January 18, 2006   Link

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